so nervous and scared... but happy

mummy2girls wrote: i am so worried about getting pregnant. I LOVE being pregnant... but i am so scared because of the ones I lost. Both boys. you see in the godfrey family boys run highly. Marcus's sister is the first girl born into the godfrey family in 200 years. Everyone else was boys. And because of the disease jordan had is in boys more than girls im worried. BUT I am happy that we are goign to have a baby. I love marcus and want to have kids with him. He is awesome with jenna and i know he will be awesome with the new one. Marcus is a very sensitive man and wants to help out around the house and wants to do his part for the family as he says. So i know he will be in there changing bumbs and such. im excited though...

Kaitlin'smom replied: best of luck

lisar replied: I am so excited for you. Dont stress over things though. I know its easier said than done. But atleast try

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A&A'smommy replied: its gonna be great

jacobsmama replied: You are both going to make great parents.

Sam & Abby's Mom replied: I dont blame you for being nervous. I've had more losses than living children BUT at least they can test for the disease Jordan had,,right ? Can they test while in the womb or at least as soon as the baby is born ?

I know its scary, though! Just hang in there and keep the Faith. You guys are going to have beautiful, healthy kids and will be such an awesome family unit

cameragirl21 replied: Good luck with everything, Shelly. I don't think gender is genetic, though. There are boy sperm and girl sperm and the gender is largely determined by the time of conception, as the boy sperm are faster but don't live as long while the girl sperm are slower but live longer. So if you DTD right before ovulation, you're more likely to get a girl because the boy sperm will die off waiting for the egg to drop while the girl sperm will survive in the womb for a bit but if you DTD after ovulation you're more likely to get a boy because the boy sperm will get to the waiting egg faster. I don't think genetics really plays a role in this unless a man is genetically predisposed to making more boy sperm or more girl sperm...that's an interesting question...?

mummy2girls replied:
nope not when im still pregnant.. it shows symptoms shortly after birth... so this time we are goign to just not fiind out what im having and let it be a surprise...

Kaitlin'smom replied:
thats a good idea....so I am guessing you DTD then????

Nina J replied: Good luck, and try not to worry. I know it must be hard considering what has happened with your baby boys; but you have all of our prayers and support, plus Marcuses, and I am sure things will be wonderful for you and you will have a beautiful healthy baby

mummy2girls replied:
yup... yesterday according to my cycle i was ovulating... so we DTD...so we will see...

Swood75 replied: You need to be like me and DH were..LOL..I think we DTD every day or every other day starting the 1st day after my last MP...I was bound and determined for it to only take a month of trying.. BTW,Congrats to you and Marcus and I hope you get pregnant fast and have an awesome pregnancy/birth etc..We will be parying for you!!