regrets

MyBabeMaddie wrote: Looking backk I regrret a lot of things in my life. I regret Adam at times but I don't regret Madison. Although I do wish I could be a normal person my age (by normal I just mean off living at college, no real responsibility, being with friends, having fun)

Do you have any regrets? Do you wish you had your first child later in life?

Nina J replied: I think it's natural to regret some things in life, nothing is ever perfect.

I regret the way I acted towards my mother when I was a child. There were a few very harsh coments I made when I was a kid, I know I was young and didn't fully understand things but I hurt her.

I regret ever smoking. I stopped but I did irreversible damage to myself, you never fully get back to the way you were

There's other stuff but I never talk about that, to anyone

my2monkeyboys replied: I think everyone has something. Maybe not a full-on regret, but something that they would do differently if given the chance. I know there are 2 things I would have done differently, but I do not regret them bc they helped make me into the person I am today. And, at that time, they were what I wanted.

sparkys2boys replied: I think that we all will have regrets in life but to answer your question, No I don't wish I had my kids at any time diffrent then I did. But I do have one thing that I do regret and will for the rest of my life. Things probaly seem worse to you right now because of the situation with Adam and the stress. I hope that you guys can work this out for the best.

CantWait replied: I don't regret my kids, I feel like I've done everything pretty much, except go on vacations, however I don't think having kids changed that.

I regret quite a few things in life, mainly getting married (I had major butterflies on my wedding days, and a couple signs that I ignored), I also regret moving to where we are now (my thearapist tried to tell me, I ignored that also).

A couple other regrets from the distant past, but those two are probably the biggest.

I really try not to dwell on past mistakes because that's what I consider them, and I try and look at it as an opportunity to learn from.

redchief replied: Regrets? Plenty. Would I change anything? Probably not. My mistakes and my triumphs define who I am, and I'm pretty happy with myself on the whole.

paradisemommy replied: ita with ed..you can't change 1 thing about yourself without having to alter everything and i am what i am because of the choices and decisions i made in the past so i wouldn't change a thing.

for me, it took me 30 yrs to find my prince charming so i started late in life (with kids) but i think in a way, it's nice to start late, cause you are wiser and more settled, iykwim..

JadensMama05 replied: I don't regret Jaden at all but I totally agree with you in that I wish I could've had Jaden older sometimes. I haven't experienced a lot in life but I plan on still doing it all eventually. Especially going to college and stuff like that. Sometimes I get overwhelmed with everything and just wish I could be like all the other 22 year olds I know.. But I wouldn't give up Jaden for the world.

Donna027 replied: hmm good topic. I regret many things in my life but its only natural. I regret how I acted towards my mother when I was younger. I said some things to hurt her but I was a teen and was going through that stage in life where you think the whole world is against you. I regret ever getting married. I regret not being there for Patricia and not giving her the attention and care she deserved. But I dont regret ever having her or ever wished I had her later in life.

MoonMama replied: I'm not sure how old you are, but I can see where your coming from. I'm 22 and no I do NOT regret when I had Braedin at all, we tried for over 2 years to have him (since our wedding night :blush) Hang in there sweetie things WILL get better and it will make you a stronger person.

garrettsmom replied: I regret getting married.

A&A'smommy replied: no regrets I believe that everything has happened to me, every mistake I have made has made me who I am today and so I have none.

Oh I wanted to add sometimes you mentioned your age I got pregnant when I was barely 17 year old, I graduated from high school when I was 4months pregnant and I have to say it has NOT been easy but I do not regret it, and I still get to have fun.. sometimes I do wonder what I would have done if I hadn't gotten pregnant but I'm glad for my baby girl.