ok ok ill stop the teasing:)

mummy2girls wrote: Ok this is something ive been keeping to myself for a few weeks now because i just did not want to jinx it for one and i didnt want to seem like i was this horrible person being that i just went through a loss a few months ago... But i just cant keep it in...


I met someone. We have been chatting via phone and email as well. Last night we talked for 2 hours. He is such a sweetie. And yes guys i am taking it very SLOWLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! we agreed to just start off as friends and if it leds into more than good if not then thats fine as well... we can always be friends. This guy is better than grant in alot of ways... he isnt immature and has a awesome sense of humor. We can kid around with each other and no its out of fun and not anything else. He is a single dad and shares custody with his daughter who is 10. he gets her on most weekends and even during the week if his daughter wants to see him:) he is 35 and is such a sweetheart!

i have a pic of him but i dont want to just post without his consent..

So i feel that i just have to move on after everything ive gone through. I cant sit and wallow in what im dealing with now with arons tests and such. And i refuse to just sit and be depressed and waste away my life. I love and miss my boys so much and i will always think of them but i know they would want thier mom to be happy! So please dont pass any judgement.. if you have any negative things to say please do it via PM. BUT you guys are my freinds and have been for 2 years now so i know you will be supportive!

PhiMuMommy replied: That's great that you've met someone who is being understanding and taking things slowly. i hope things work out for you. it doesn't make you a horrible person. i am a firm believer that if you love someone and lose them they would still want you to be happy. they wouldn't want you to be sad forever. of course you'll always miss him and this guy will never be the same. but you deserve to be happy especially after all you went through. (i know i dont' know the whole story but it sounds like it was a long and painful ordeal)

My3LilMonkeys replied: Good for you!!! I think your boys would be happy that you found someone. I hope everything works out well for you!!

PrairieMom replied: Good for you! sending you ~~~~luck and wisdom~~~~~~~~~~ vibes!

amymom replied: Great news Shelly! I am glad for you. Christmas time is especially a nice time to have someone to lean on, and have fun with.

Boy my guesses were way off!!!

ediep replied: yay!! I am so happy for you Shelly!!!

3_call_me_mama replied: OH Shelley I'm so happy fo ryou! You deserve happiness and you are right to take it slow. You have been through A LOT!! HUGS

A&A'smommy replied: I wondered if you going to tell them today or not!!!!! Again sweete I'm happy for you and I hope it works out better this time!!! OH and i have seen his picture guys and he is REALLY cute!!!

Insanemomof3 replied: Great news!!!! I am so happy for you! Glad you are taking it slow, but you really need to be happy. If he makes you happen that is GREAT!!!!

3xsthefun replied: This is great news Shelley! I am so happy for you!

C&K*s Mommie replied: I hope that this is not stepping on your toes, by saying this, because I do not know the full story..... But CONGRAGULATIONS to you on finding someone that you can spend time with, and enjoy that time with him. I hope that you are able to continue on this happiness journey with him, his daughter and you & your daughter.

CONGRAGULATIONS, again!!!

Sarah&Mackenzie replied: That is great shelly, you deserve to be happy!!!

Kaitlin'smom replied: Oh Shelly I am so happy for you. I am glad you have found a friend, and maybe more. Enjoy this time, I know your boys would want you to be happy. Congrats

Maddie&EthansMom replied:
Ditto!

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CantWait replied: Shelley there's no reason why anyone would come down on you for moving on with life, and meeting hopefully that someone special. Congrats to you, and I hope everything works out.

ions_momma replied: Thats great that you met someone! I am so happy for you!!

CAMSMOM1 replied: I could see how excited you are, just reading your post you can sense the happiness! Good for you girl, everyone deserves to have fun and meet a good guy. Keep us posted!


Ann

paradisemommy replied: that's awesome, shelly! and not to sound like a broken record but your boys would want you to be happy...enjoy your friendship..and maybe more..

kayla's mama replied: I am sooo happy for you Hope everything works out. Has Jenna met him yet?

SOUTHERN MOMMY replied:
ITA i have had alot happen in the past week but, you have to go on life will never stand still. Congrats to you shelley i am so happy for you.