oh my gosh will this week never end

ZandersMama wrote: Now the baby ( Zavier ) has croup. The boys father moved out to Alberta on Tuesday,(the day before nan died), Zav is on the mask every 6 hrs and I have noone to help because dad is a mess and mom has to try to handle him and my little brother(who is also a mess).

SO, im here trying to deal with a 3 year old who misses his daddy, a one year old who is sick, and my own grief. What really burns me is their father moved out there with a woman he use to party with before he met me.....and i am here trying to hold all this together, this life we built before he took off.

The doctor checked me out while we were there, she is livid that i have to wait another 2 weeks for surgery. She gave me a perscription for antibiotics because she thinks i am getting a pelvic infection from the extra ring. I'm sure she is right, i am getting alot of pain the last few days, but was chalking it up to nerves. But there is inflamation to, so she is thinking infection.



Please hope that the rest of the week goes better

lovemy2 replied: OH gosh - is there no one else who can help you - maybe take Zander for a few hours so he gets to play some and you get to rest a little while Zavier is sleeping? I'm sorry Lisa - you poor thing

ZandersMama replied: There really isnt anyone else that can, just my parents. When i got married i drifted from all of my friends ( for good reason, they are all hard partyers even now and i was starting a family) I have one really good friend, and she works full time. She is planning on coming down tonite so she can help me with the babys masks. But she can only do so much, she works days and has a son herself.

A&A'smommy replied: Oh honey that is awful I'm SOO sorry!!! I hope your little man feels better and yikes about the ring I can't believe they wont try to fit you in sooner!!

sparkys2boys replied: I really hope some of this eases up for you. Gosh its alot to deal with all alone. Maybe when your friend is there tonight you can try and relax some

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lisar replied: Oh honey if I lived near you I would be over there helping you... I am so sorry you are going thru this.

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ZandersMama replied: thanks guys, means the world to me to have you guys here to turn to, you have no idea how much.

Calimama replied:
You can always PM me if you need to talk.

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