just need to talk and apologize...

mummy2girls wrote: I dont know how to go about this and how to express what im feeling right now. I ran into a misunderstanding with a certain memebr of this forum and you know who it is. Im sorry. I know it was pretty petty and my main problem is that i didnt listen to what was said and just took it on context and ran with it. I am sensitive at times but I am trying to learn to let things slide and put behind me. I hosted the baby spotlight for a fun activity and i did do wrong. I made mistakes and im so very sorry...to (you know who) and to any other moms on here. Ive decided to stop the spotlight and i know that isnt fair to the moms who hasnt gotten the cahnce to have thier precious baby in the spotlight. Im sorry for that also. I guess i messed up big time. I have belonged to this board for a few months and loved the feedback and love from the mebers and i hated to just leave like that. I took a few days to just sit back and think of what has happened and what became of this all. Please I am so sorry to that mom that i hurt(as many probably know who). I know i hurt your feelings and im sorry. Please can you forgive me. I would like to still be a part of this board. right now i am just lurking and enjoying everyones postings. I hope that this can be put behind us and we can move on..again i am truely sorry.

supermom replied: I wasn't really involved in this, but I feel like if the only reason you couldn't do the spotlight was because of your computer? I am not really sure what went on, except what was said here in public on the board, but then it was only a problem that you couldn't help, not something you did on purpose that caused this to happen.

I do hope that you can all work it out and that whoever it is and yourself can work towards resolving this. I have been a member of message boards where all the members did (it seemed) was "flame" and "snipe" at each other. I don't want that to happen here, I feel like this is a second home!!!

HUGS to both of you, and hope it all works out!

MommyToAshley replied: I am soo glad you came back...we would have missed you. I don't think you would intentionally hurt anyone's feelings and I am glad that the two of you have worked things out. I enjoy talking to both of you and I would hate to see either one of you leave.

As for being sensitive, well, we have all BTDT. At least, I know I have been over-sensitive at times. TLCDad can share some stories, hehe. But, we are Mommies so we can get away with it!

Glad to see your computer is working again. And, I hope you don't just lurk but get back to posting!


<<HUGS TO BOTH OF YOU>>

TLCDad replied: I am so happy you decided to come back to us. I have always enjoyed your posts. And you will always have something special in common with MommyToAshley and I as well as others who have Little Angels in Heaven.

I am sure what happened was only a simple misunderstanding and time will always heal everything.

I think it is time for a ...

Hillbilly Housewife replied: I<m not too sure what happened.... but I just want to give yo ua big

ediep replied: I am clueless about what happened...but I also want to give you a

Thanks for doing the spotlight, it was a lot of fun!

jdkjd replied: I'm clueless too. But I enjoyed getting to know everyone with the Spotlights. It was a great idea.

But maybe to take some of the pressure off of you, you could do one a week or share the resposibility with another member. We all have crazy lives and I thought you did a great job.

mckayleesmom replied: I also wasn't aware of the problem....but Im glad your back

jcc64 replied: Have no idea what went on- but I'm glad you're back with us! i always admired you for taking on all the work involved with the Spotlight, it was a very nice way to get to know one another. Put whatever it was behind you, we're all over sensitive at times, goes with the territory of being female, unfortunately!

+Zemirah+ replied: Well I'm clueless too -- I must've missed all the hub-bub. At any rate, I wanted to commend you and send you {{{{hugs}}}} for stepping up and apologizing for whatever happened that hurt the other poster -- that's a wonderful post you wrote up there, and while I know that things cannot be re-done so-to-speak, so that the problem wouldn't have happened in the first place, still it is a precious soul who can choose to step back and take an honest look and then own up to her part in something that went awry, and apologize for it. To the mama who was hurt, I send you {{{{hugs}}}} as well; I have been hurt before on these kinds of forums too (not this particular one ). Blessings to you both,

~z~

shelrae00 replied: Well, I don't know what went on either but wanted to thank you for all of your hard work on the baby spotlight and hope that you and the other member are able to put this behind you and can just enjoy the board again! Glad you are back!!!

Shelly

aspenblue1 replied: I don't know what went one either but I just wanted to say I really enjoyed the baby spotlight.

CantWait replied: clueless here also, but that isn't anything new.....LOL....
I'm sure it's not as bad as you think it is, I hope you decide to stick around, even though I don't really involve myself with the spotlight, everyone seems to really enjoy it, and I love reading what I can of it.