it was a girl - back from doctors

angelhair wrote: it was a girl. found out tday. brought some closure and I feel at peace with it. bought a pair of pink botties and its a girl card to put in her memory box and I feel better knowing that I have a daughter up in heaven. she had a third set of chromosomes, two extra then uausal and could not have lived because of it. he said it was randem and unlikely to happen in another preg. the first two he seems to think are unrated to this one in that the first two were due to low progesterone which can happen in older women and not nessarly anything to do with egg quailty or a chromosome abnormality. he gave it a 25 percent chance of it happening agian and a 25 percent chance of being able og getting preg again(which I am very fertile) so as far as the percentage of actual m/c it is about 25 percent roughly. better then I hoped for. I am glad that all three were not due to egg abnormalities and that it not seem to have a common trend. he also said the chances of getting preg are low after a miscarriage so I do not have to worry about it till next period. so I am not going to take the pill at all this month. I will see about next month as I might be willing to ttc next month. love dee. the low prgesterone problem is actually a correctable condition, with clomid and natural prog supplements.

coasterqueen replied: Ahh Dee I'm glad you got some answers and now you can be at peace with your angel girl in heaven. I wish you luck in whatever you do and know that I'm always here for you.

Maddie&EthansMom replied: I'm glad that you found some closure, Dee. My heart aches for you. She is a special angel in heaven who you will hold in your arms one day. I'm praying for you, sweetie.

DansMom replied: You've been through so much. I'm glad you got some answers.

amynicole21 replied: I'm so glad you were able to get some closure, Dee. You remain in my thoughts and prayers

Kirstenmumof3 replied: I'm glad you got some closure! My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family!

A&A'smommy replied: ((((BIG HUGS)))) I'm glad you got some answers..... Good luck with whatever you decide to do!

angelhair replied: thank you so much for being there everyone. it has been a rough ride and a emotional roller coaster.but a hug and a smile from my son and knowing that his little sister is looking down at both of us on Gods lap makes me feel better. love dee

mama3x replied: I am glad you got some answers and felt reassured by your doctor. I know how hard it is when there's no closure.

Take care and good luck with things!

MommyToAshley replied: I am glad you were at least able to get some answers and have some closure. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. You've been through so much, I just wish there was more I could do for you.

kimberley replied: oh Dee, i am sorry your baby girl had to go to heaven but i am glad you got some answers. my prayers continue to be with you with whatever you decide.

amb22 replied: I am so sorry hun,My daughter also had triploidy(triple chromosomes)we lost her at 21 weeks,we know she is in heaven watching over us,i was also told it was rare,
god bless you

MamaMartie replied: {{Dee}} I am glad you got some answers and you are at peace with the whole thing. I am sorry you lost your little girl and I hope you are able to have a baby as soon as you are ready.

I took clomid with our first baby and progesterone with 4 of our 6 pregnanies. It really does help.

Hugs,