im so bummed....

A&A'smommy wrote: well i went to the doc. and it turns out im NOT dialated and nothing has changed at all....i feel so awful and stupid about going to the hospital yesterday the only good thing that came out of it was finding out i had a bladder infection. I go back to the doc thursday and he wants to check me again (i really think he wants me to have the baby this week!). I found out i lost a half a pound since last thursday (dont know how) and i got some antibiodics. Im so uncomfortable being pregnant has made me snore (i didnt snore before i got pregnant or married) and this morning i kept dh up snoring and myself and when i wasnt waking myself up i was getting slightly pushed or touched by dh because of it and when he did that i woke up so i didnt get any real sleep last night and i top of that im so uncomfortable trying to sleep because every hour i have to pee (when im awake its more that that) and the bottom of my belly is sore and im so so swollen EVERYWHERE its driving me crazy i almost cant wear my shoes because as soon as i put them on my feet swell up (because im standing) and i CANT wear my wedding ring because my fingers swell up so bad i tried and one day i couldnt get it off i had to soak my hand in freezing ice water ....dont get me wrong i love being pregnant but i can only handle it for so long. Sorry im complaining i guess i will stop now....

Schnoogly replied: Yep, time to come out baby! Those last weeks are just AWFUL! It's good you are treating your infection though because that can be dangerous for the baby to have an untreated infection, especially during the birth.

Those last weeks are just awful!

3xsthefun replied: I'm so sorry to hear you had such a horrible day

ediep replied: don't worry, that baby will come soon!! Try to rest now,you won't get much sleep once that little girl arrives!!!

Kirstenmumof3 replied: I know those last few weeks drove me crazy! Sending ~~~~~EARLY AND EASY LABOUR VIBES YOUR WAY~~~~~ I hope you have the baby tonight, if not by the end of the week!

MommyToAshley replied: Don't feel bad about complaining! No one understands how you feel better than we do. Those last few weeks are the worst. I know what you mean about not being able to get any sleep... I think I used every pillow in the house under every part of my body and I still couldn't get any sleep.

As for the snoring, tell your DH to let you sleep even if you are snoring. If it is bothering him, he can go sleep on the couch. You need your rest, and if you are asleep, then he shouldn't wake you up. You need all the rest you can get now! I don't mean to be rude to your DH, but you need your rest for delivery and taking care of baby afterwards.

It won't be much longer, and you'll be holding your little bundle of joy. I'm sooo excited, I can't wait!

A&A'smommy replied:
LOL i totally agree before it didnt bother me but last night it started to piss me off (excuse my language) tonight if that happens he will get it.

Jamison'smama replied: awwwe, poor thing. I completely understand--I was a snoring queen also--especially when my big-ole pregnant self slept on my back. I had to sleep in the recliner for a few of those last nights---just could not get comfortable anymore. They say it just gets you used to not sleeping after the baby arrives.

Get yourself some comfy slippers for the hospital, forget your real shoes, wear your wedding ring on a chain around your neck and relax as much as you can.

My advice--start some sort of project. It helps you to focus on something else other than the baby coming---I made a list of things I could do in about 2 days time--re-organizing my filing cabinent, organizing photos, gathering and organinizing recipes from family, magazines and friends. I also made several things I could freeze so that there would be stuff to eat when I did not feel like cooking.

Why don't you try to make one of the no-sew blankets--I made one a few days ago---just took a couple of hours but shopping for the material etc. took up some time. I was 9 days overdue and I had to have something else to focus on because I was going nuts!!

Hugs to you---

aspenblue1 replied: The last couple of weeeks are the worst. I rember I couldn't even wear any of my shoes because my feet were so swollen.

amynicole21 replied: Yep! I remember how miserable I was for at least the last 3 weeks. I took my wedding ring off at around 6 months, and could only wear one pair of sandals for the entire last trimester - my feet were too swollen to wear real shoes. DH had to take my pants of after work because I couldn't get the cuffs over my ankles Just remember, this is only temporary. Believe me, you'll miss it when it's over!

CantWait replied: Well first off I'd like to say I'm with M2A, how dare your dh, take what sleep you can get now, and tell dh to go sleep on the couch if he can't be supportive and if your snoring bugs him so much.

Second don't be sorry for venting, the last month really is stressful and we all understand that. Try and rest and relax. Jamisonsmama is right, look into doing a project. I finished putting all my picture books together, and running around with my mom, she kept me busy.

Good Luck and lots of love

A&A'smommy replied: well last night when he was watching a movie on his laptop (so he doesnt have to get up and change dvds in the dvd player lol) he woke me up when i first started snoring and i opologized and asked him to let me sleep tonight (i feel asleep about ten) and he did ALL NIGHT and today he did MOST of the cleaning for me i was so proud! He can be so sweet !!! Thanks ya'll for listening to me its nice to have someone listen and then be supportative!