grrr im so angry!!!!!!
mummy2girls wrote: I told Aron there could be a big chance jenna will need to get her adnoids taken out. and that i need for him to please drive me and jenna and be there for me in the waiting room so i dont go stir crazy alone. and he said no shelly i cant! I was so mad. i asked why the heck can you not be there for your child? he said that he cant handle sitting in a waiting room for a long period of time. i said WHAT! the procedure lasts maby half hour. he said still no. So I am not going to force someone to be there ill just have someone come that wants to be there for me.. marcus!
CantWait replied: Shelly, seriously I don't mean to be a b****, but why do you bother with him? 
mummy2girls replied:
well to be honest i wanted to have him there because he is jennas dad...
sorry if me venting is getting on anyones nerves
CantWait replied:
don't be sorry. From what you say of him though, I can't stand him and just don't think he deserves to be in either of your lives. 
mummy2girls replied:
i dont wiether but he is the dad so i cant really just cut him out of her life...
1lilpeanut2love replied: I'm sorry!
CantWait replied:
Ok I'll say no more.
quinnandjacob'smom replied: I'm sorry, that was really crummy of him
gr33n3y3z replied: sorry Shelly maybe he will show up for something someday
even tho he is what he is I agree he still should be asked
Bc he should be there
Kaitlin'smom replied: you know Shelly I am not at all suprised but that I expected it. I am glad you told him about it, sorry he cant do this for you or Jenna but you have Marcus. I also know you wont cut him out, even though he totaly deserves it, but soon Jenna will do it she will grow up and realise her dad is more trouble than its worth. honestly dont let it bother you, just mark it down and move one. You will have better support with Marcus anyway.
lisar replied: My personal opinion is that if he says no more than once. Then dont bother telling him anything. Apparently if he cant be there for his child and he doesnt want to be then why bother. I understand that you cant cut him out of her life but you can wait for him to call you dont call him at all. Thats just my opionion.
ediep replied:
I 100% agreew ith Di on this!
Good luck with the surgery! I'll be sending P&PT!
mummy2girls replied:
oh i dont call him anymore. My theory is if he wants to see her he will call. I told him about the surgery when he came to see Jenna. But i am not bringing it up anymore.. I'll let hjim know the date of it if she needs iot but thats it so it will be up to him if he wants to go. I have Marcus so thats all i care about rigth now...
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