am so diappointed and feeling hopeless - no pregnancy agian

Guest_angelhair wrote: I am so dissappointed and sometimes like now it hurts so bad. got a neg from early preg test first response and they are usually pretty accurate even though my af is due on tue. it would have detected it by now I think in the early preg test. we had it timed so carefully, was even monitered by the fertility specialist on the peak time. am feeling so discouarged it is beyond words. I feel like after six months and no luck, it is hopeless. going today to check the uterine lining to see if it is deveoping normally for a preg. everthing so far is normal but I still cannot get pregnant!!! I feel when I lost my babies last year I lost all my chances to feel the joy of preg and the anticipation of a new baby. sorry to be such a downer, love deee

amynicole21 replied: Oh honey, not again!~ I'm sorry. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that it is just too early to test.

Have you guys tried insemination yet? I forget what therapies you are on - clomid, etc? I hope you can get to the bottom of this.

Guest_angelhair replied: thank you amynicole for responding, you and the other ladies are great!!!, the nexct step is to be put on clomid for one cycle, then if that does not work then a iui where they inject my husbands sperm into the uterus. although my dh and I orginally did not know if we could handle the emotional stress of ivf, I am beginning to think that is the only way I will get preg. have a appt to discuss this option with fertility. next month I will probably be put on clomid and see how it goes. I do not think I can take this rollar coaster, but all I can do is to keep trying

ediep replied: oh no, not again......I am wishing you lots of luck with the upcoming test and/or procedures!

Julie (jem0622) replied: Dee...

Honey...man that stinks. So you have the follies but they might not be sticking. Have you and DH had your urea plasma checked? Apparently lots of men and women walk around with this infection and have no idea it inhibits the ability to get pregnant. And either party can be affected.

So many women I've read have had so much success with IUI and IVF...so please do consider it. If you were on the fence about having another baby I would understand but from reading your posts this is something that you really want and I would go for it. Even Clomid might be what you need.

Have you been checked for blood clotting disorders and protein disorders? Have you tried using Robitussin (no D or CF or DM, just plain Guafinessen)? You and DH can both take it.

Do you need any extra OPKs? I have some. And HPTs too. I have no need for them now and plan to have my tubes tied.

I'm going to go and find some handy links because I want to give you the ammo you need to get further testing done...just to be on the safe side. Just to be sure that you don't have a condition that requires Lovenox or Heparin.

HUGS HUGS
Julie

aspenblue1 replied: I am so sorry. Sending lots of luck that you will be pregnant soon.

Julie (jem0622) replied: Here are some links for you

Plus, here are some possibly helpful sites...


http://www.obfocus.com/questions/qanda12.htm

http://www.niravi.com/aboutniravi.html

http://www.babymed.com/

http://www.ivfer.com/hcg.htm

http://www.fertilityplus.org/faq/miscarriage/rpl.html

http://www.inciid.org/fact.html

http://www.fertilityplus.org/faq/hpt.html#hcgtrigger

http://www.ob-ultrasound.net/

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home

http://www.nationalshareoffice.com/

http://www.stgerardmajella.com/stgerard.htm

http://www.chooseydiapers.com/index.html

http://stores.hsprofessional.com/katieskisses/StoreFront.bok

Julie (jem0622) replied: And here is one more

www.riala.com

MommyToAshley replied: Oh sweetie, I am so sorry. I know how much this means to you and it breaks my heart that your test came back negative. I hope the upcoming tests and procedures will shed some light and give you the results you are hoping for. Don't give up hope! I still believe you will soon have a baby in your arms!

coasterqueen replied: Awww Dee, I'm so sorry you didn't get pg. I sure hope they can figure something out and maybe the clomid will work. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you sweetie and lighting a candle every night for you that you soon will get to feel the joys of pg again!

jcc64 replied: I know it feels like forever to you, and the disappointment and perpetual waiting must be agonizing at times. But I have lots of friends who took several YEARS, doctors, tests, and therapies to finally realize their dream. Waiting and not knowing are the hardest part, but somehow, some way, I'm sure a baby will find a way into your arms. Good luck, Dee.

A&A'smommy replied: ((((BIG HUGS)))) It will happen in its own time sweetie!

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Jamison'smama replied: So sorry, I know this is so hard for you--it took us almost a year and 3 cycles of Clomid to get pregnant last time -- so hang in there--it'll happen!!!