What would you do????

Hillbilly Housewife wrote: My hubby picked up a computer in the trash yesterday... he wanted to try to salvage partys if they were good. Yay for computer engineers.

Anyways, the lady who dropped off the computer is a "friend" of mine - we have an arrangement for the bus... i pick up her daycare kid in the mornings, and i see her dc kid and my dc kid on the bus. She will then see the two kids off the bus at lunch time, and bring my dc kid to me. We do this so neither of us needs to dress up all the other kids twice in a day... i do it in the mornings because my dh is still home with the others, and she does it in the afternoon because the afternoon stop is right next to her back door so she can just step outside and wave to the bus driver...

Here's the scoop... on one half of the hard drive, there were several wedding pictures, graduation pictures etc... pretty innocent stuff. So this morning, when i picked up her dc kid, i told her my dh had picked up her computer to salvage parts... and wanted me to ask her if she needed a copy of the pictures before he cleared everything off the hard drive....she got all upset and worried...and said she hoped there wasn't anything on the comp of her husband's... no big deal she said, she'd be grateful if my dh made her a dvd of the wedding pics.

Anyways, the lady calls and pretty much freaks out over the phone to my dh, apologizing and that she hopes there was nothing offensive on there yada yadda... my dh played dumb and told her he had no idea whjat she was talking about... so she was all like "well, forget about the wedding pics, just please get rid of everything on there.... please!!"

So I get back after the bus goes by, and my dh tells me that she called, and what happened, so he looked at the other half of the hard drive...and there were pictures. Several pictures. And customer lists...packing slips order tracking sheets... and more pictures. Mostly pics of um... well... they include whips, lots of leather, some spikes, paddles... must I go on?

Then she called again and I answered. She apologized to me for freaking a little on my dh, i basically played dumb and said "oh? he didn't mention anything..." and she was like "oh what a sweetie!" and then we talked about condo stuff (replacing of windows and sceren doors) for a few minutes.

I'm acting like nothing happened...I won't bring it up, unless she does...and if she does, I'll tell her it's none of my business or something...I don't know what I'm going to tell her...she prety much ran away as soon as I took over my dc kid from her at lunch time...

What would you do?!

luvbug00 replied: HAAAAAA! hence why all privite things for me, stay private. no pics no videos no nothin'!! LOL! poor thing!

CantWait replied: Well to be honest I'm not sure what the question is. Do you mean would I still let my kids be picked up from her etc....?

If so, then, yes.......after all can you honestly say that you and dh don't get kinky in the bedroom or that lots of people don't do that, etc....

Sounds like she's just the supplier for this sort of stuff, and as long as it's legal there's nothing wrong with it.

Just giggle to yourself, and ignore it.

Calimama replied: I'd get a good laugh throughout the day and let it go.

stella6979 replied:

gr33n3y3z replied:
yep you know nothing lol
nor does he LOL

Hillbilly Housewife replied:
Sorry I guess I should be more specific... my question was what would you say to her if she brought it up?

I don't care that she does it, nor do I care that she sells it and takes pics etc... i just don't know whether I should laugh it off if she brings it up or not... dh and i have played dumb about it so far... but boy did we roll around hooting like maniacs this morning!!!

CantWait replied:
If she brings it up, just laugh, yep.....and tell her it's none of your business

J-rod replied: reason number 1 you format the HD before it leaves the house.

redchief replied: Go on like nothing ever happened. Chuckle to yourself in private.

Cece00 replied:
If she brought it up, I'd just say I didnt know what she was talking about. I'd guess she is embarrassed and wont say anything else, though.

holley79 replied: That's why you slick your machines prior to putting them in the trash. I would jsut let it go and not say anything either.

redplaydoh replied: I'd ask her if you could buy some things... J/K
I'd act like nothing was there, that you saw nothing, know nothing etc.

sparkys2boys replied:
omg..LOL.. to funny!!!! That would really add a damper to the situation!!!