What is the meanest thing you ever did - to someone else in high school??

mckayleesmom wrote: We all know that kids can be mean....

I never really made fun of anybody in high school and was pretty much friends with everyone. I think I was nice to a fault....I couldn't tell people the truth...especially if it was something that would hurt their feelings......So not the me today...

There was this guy that had the biggest crush on me in high school....I didn't even realize it till he asked me to homecoming....I didn't want to go with him, but I said yes anyways. My friends gave me such a hard time about it....One day they were giving me #### about it and I said " I should just pretend to break my leg and get out of this".......I didn't realize that there was a group of people nearby and one of the girls was his cousin and told him...

He was so nice when he confronted me....which made it worse. He just said that he understood and I didn't have to go with him.

Then he asked me to be his girlfriend 2 weeks later.... I think he was in some serious denial or something, but it was still no excuse for what I said.

I felt so bad I didn't even go to homecoming.

I still feel horrible to this day....I have tried looking for him on myspace from time to time so I can apologize again...

sparkys2boys replied: Hmm, this one bothers me sooo much

I had been going out with this guy for awhile and was getting ready to break it off when I met dh I ended up breaking up with him to go out with dh in then end. April Fool's day was a few days later and a friend dared me to call the ex and ask him back etc, I did, he said yes, then I called him back and yelled.. APRIL FOOLS I guess he was very upset (had his mom call me) and to this day I feel terrible that I did it. I have actually always wanted the chance to say I was sorry, but he moved away and I have never seen him again
Gosh that looks terrible wrote down to.. I can't beleive I told you guys that

Calimama replied: I dumped my bf the day before HS started and I said it because I was going to find a MUCH better boy in HS. I still feel guilty.

Kaitlin'smom replied: Honestly nothing that I can think of was mean, I had a variety of friends and kinda floated around. I did hurt a guys feeling once Okay the story I was a freshman and some guy I had no clue who he was called me and asked me out but I said I dont know who you are, he told me we pass in the hall everyday, but he knew I did not know him he asked around to who I was. So the next day he stoped me between classed and introduced himself, he was cute and seemd nice but I still tuned him down. Why? cause I was still hung up on crushed from middle school and did not want to date, wanted to stay avaiable incase one of them asked me out....I know pretty dumb. The sad part is the guy who asked me out was really sweet and we got to know each other our Senior year, I really regretted not going out with him, never did tell him then I was sorry, I did when he asked and i turned him down but I so wish I would have later once I got to know him, but I guess I was embarrassed and did not want him thinking anything woudl come of it as I was already involved with someone (DH). I have tried to contact him but nothing maybe I should see if I can figure out myspace and see if he is out there just to see how he is doing and say what i wanted to say all those years ago.

not to mention a few others I probable hurt but none was ever intentional just my stupidity.

Anthony275 replied: probably everything i did when this one boy was in my class, he had a really bad head injury and almost died. we would throw stuff at him like funnels and pens while he slept on his desk. he should be coming back to school soon

grandma replied: It's too bad, I can't tell......

mckayleesmom replied:
oh come on.......You are all grown up now, we know your not the same person you use to be....

lisar replied: We always use to pick on and beat up the cheerleaders. We hated them they were all snobby and stuck up and thought they were better than everyone else. They werent popular at my school like most places.

grandma replied:
I went to catholic school, I was in drama club and captain of the cheerleaders, went to church daily....I was a good kid...(most of the time) lol

lisar replied:
You can still tell us.

stella6979 replied: I can honestly say I never did anything mean to anyone in school. I played sports so I was kind of lumped into the "popular" group, but outside of sports, I never really hung out with those people. They were too stuck on themselves and were quite mean to people which I did not like at all. I was always the one sticking up for the people getting picked on. There was actually a kid that always sat alone at lunch so anytime I stayed in I went and sat with him and he was one of the nicest kids ever. And I really think it's sad that most people didn't know that or at least just didn't care.

ZandersMama replied: There was a real idiot in my science class in grade 8, soooo annoying. He would always drive me up the wall in class. I gave him birth control pills (the sugar ones in the bottem of the pack with no hormones in them) and told him when guys take them it makes them high. He totally believed me, took them , and then went around school telling everyone how high he was off birth control pills, best high he ever had. It's the same as swallowing a couple tic tacs.

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PrairieMom replied: There was a girl that I knew (who was terribly evil to me, way back in Elementary school,) who was taking classes at a local modeling agency and was in our mall being one of those human manikins what ever they are called, and I stood right in front of her, and talked about how fat she looked, and how embarrassed I would be to be seen in her clothes.
it was by far the meanest thing I have ever done to someone.

DillsMommy replied: I was extremely shy and didn't do anything mean to anyone, seriously. Gosh, what happened?

gr33n3y3z replied: I picked on a few ppl. that needed it to be bought back a level or two that were very nasty to others that couldnt defend themselves yes I picked up for ppl.

A&A'smommy replied: welll..... I had a lot of b/fs and only got dumped like once maybe that i can remember if that tells you anything

but really I'm stuck between two....

the first one... My best friend had been dating (bf/gf) this guy that had a crush on me ever since I met him but I had a b/f at the time and introduced him to her. SOO anyway they were either already broke up or about to break up and so we started "seeing' each other behind her back.. I finally got up the nerve to tell her and at the point I also broke it off with him because i felt like the BIGGEST you know what and on top of tha he was a horrible kisser.

the next one is actually like two in one, I had been JUST dating not long after he broke up with his long term girlfriend well anyway he would pick me up and we would go riding around well we would ALWAYS ride and end up on this on road like every 15minutes (which got on my nerves btw) and turns out that is where his ex lived SOOO I had a crush on his best friend anyway well I stayed with this jerk for a little bit longer and then I called his friend and asked him when he was going to ask me out, and he like whenever you want me to so i told him to pick me up that night and take me and my best friend to the football game dude called me and asked me if I would go with hiim and told him I had another date he was PISSED I didn't care

dudes best friends name is steven.. I dated him for a little while (he was an AWESOME kisser ) well then I met Jeremiah while I was dating steven so anyway I dated the two at the same time for a little while.. I then started to lean more towards Jeremiah and they knew about each other btw so anyway one night I had a date with steven but not really we were just going to ride around and drink (thats really all there is to do in this small town) well Jeremiah called and BEGGED me to go out with him that night and he said that he already had alcohol and ashley could come SOOO anyway I waited for Steven to call he didn't by 7pm so I told Jeremiah to come get us... Steven was PISSED and hurt and for a LONG time after that he wouldn't talk to Jeremiah (but he would to me ) I did go out with Steven one more time and broke it off with him he was very nice about it!! he was SUCH a good guy, still is and has the WORST time with girls!!!

jcc64 replied: In high school, I was a pretty empathetic person- I have always been a sucker for the underdog.
However, in college, I had a roommate whom I absolutely hated. He was simply awful- expecting the girls in the house to do all the dishes simply b/c they were girls. So, for his birthday, I made him a cake, which he seemed genuinely touched by. That reaction made me regret the fact that I put an entire box of Ex-Lax in the cake.

A&A'smommy replied:
thats awesome!!!

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msoulz replied:
LOL, that made me think of mine!

At cheerleading camp before our senior year I took a couple of boxes of Chicklets gum with me. I took out the chicklets and replaced them with Ex-lax chewing gum, but I replaced the first two with real gum so I opened the pack, took chewed the first two and then gave the rest to whoever would take them. And when the tasted weird, my answer was "they are probably old". OK, so we did have a few stereotypical airhead cheerleaders, very easy targets . . . One girl had to keep running (pun intended!) to the bathroom in the middle of everything and another was not affected at all! I didn't tell them until we had what was called senior wills, and mine was that I willed them the ability to distinguish Chicklets from Ex-lax chewing gum. Yeah, they didn't like me much for that . . .

MoonMama replied: Ok its funny that someone brought this up....

There was this guy who was REALLY into my in 9th grade. He would not take no for an answer, he fallowed me around, told everyone how in love with me he was, said I had kissed him at a dance I wasn't even at, and annoyed the heck out of me. One day I finally had enough and was done being nice. During a school assembly he sat next to me and put his hand on my thigh. I lost it....I stood up and yelled at him about how I didn't like him, would never be his girlfriends, how girls thought he was weird and creepy, and that he needed to stop stalking me and some other not so nice things. I was so loud everyone pretty much heard and he looked like he was going to cry. Then to make it worse all the kids stood up and started applauding, mostly because they thought it was so great that I made a big scene in from off the whole school. I felt so bad for him after that he looked so humiliated. After that we avoided each other for the rest of high school.

Now the reason I say its funny that this was brought up is because I ran into him at the store earlier this week. And he came over and said hi and told me he was so sorry he came on so strong in high school and that he has ALWAYS been so in love with me. He told me Braedin was adorable wished me the best, but added its a shame I'm married now.

grandma replied:
Okay,
I dated the captain of the football team, he had a car and he had to share it with his younger brother, who dated a girl that hated me and all the cheerleaders.
We had a game far away, like an hour and I drove my car. My boyfriend's brother's girlfriend was at the game and she had a fight with her boyfriend, he left her there. She was younger than us and none of her friends drove. Anyhow I saw her standing there after almost everyone had left. I told her I would give her a ride home, there were some other cheerleaders with me. She got in, we drove about two blocks and had her go in the store to get us a coke and then we left her there.
After that she hated me even more. Somehow later on we actually became friends, don't ask me how that happened. I think we lived near each other and we both had our babies at the same time.
Years later I was on a committee for the school reunion and I tried to locate her, I knew who she married. All I could find was her daughter, who was about 30, she told me her mom had died of breast cancer afew years before and her dad just died recently if a broken heart. It was so sad, they were too young to go.

kit_kats_mom replied: I got into my enemies car and shoved sardines and shrimp peels deep down into her A/C vents. It was August...in FL...let's just say, her ride wasn't so popular for a few years.

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Calimama replied:
Oh EW!!

HuskerMom replied:
Wow I wish the cheerleaders were like that at my school.

The only thing I can think of right now is one time I stood up this guy. I was supposed to meet him at the mall. He was pretty mad I heard later.

luvmykids replied: I had a boyfriend I didn't like anymore but couldn't bring myself to dump him, so I just started being a witch in the hopes he'd dump me The girls bathroom had two entrances from two different hallways, I'd tell him I had to use the bathroom and that I'd be right back and then go out the other door in the other hall. Finally after about two weeks of that he broke up with me

Danalana replied: I actually never did anything mean in high school. I guess I've always been tender-hearted and I hated for anybody to be picked on. SO...I'm no fun!

kimberley replied: i didn't get mean til adulthood

Hillbilly Housewife replied: Oh Yikes.

There was this guy, in my group of friends, who had a crush on me... and i knew it. I didn't want to have anything to do with him, relationship wise..and he just wouldn't give up. To be fair, I did date a couple other guys in that group, so I couldn't really use the excuse "i don't date friends"... because i did.

Soooo..... one time when I was single I told him we could give it a shot for a week... I'd let him know. WELL - the poor guy thought THAT WEEK was "the" week... and kept walking me to class, bringing me treats and just cutesy little things... and one week later, broke into my locker to put a dozen red roses in it.

I was LIVID... I took the flowers and threw them at him, gave him crap for having broke into my locker, really went off on the poor guy...I think I even slapped him, I can't remember.

This was about 12 years ago... and we're still good friends.