What do you all think?

mummy2girls wrote: if thsi works out with Mark... when would be a good time to tell Aron? alot have told me to tell him now because its not like he should be mad because he has his GF and is having a baby with her.... i agree with that but i know and have gone through the experiences of telling him i have a BF and it be negative reactions BUT that was when he wasnt with anyone himself.

Nina J replied: I say get it over with as soon as possible. That way its done and you don't have to worry about telling him.

mummy2girls replied:
Thats what im thinking before he decides to break up with his GF and then tries to get back with me...

amymom replied: I would think that you can be very casual about. Just mention in passing that you went out with a new friend and plan to continue seeing him. (If that is the case)

mom2my2cuties replied: I agree with Anne -

I would just mention when he starts whining about his gf again that you met a new friend and have been seeing him and that things are going well - that way he will get the hint (and maybe it will spare you some whining about his gf)


Sounds like you are very happy about this Mark Hope things work out for you - You & Jenna deserve it!

mummy2girls replied:
well im more nervous than anything. ill be happy if this turns into a relationship... right now we are just meeting as friends...

luvmykids replied:
Considering that, do you really have to tell Aron anything? I'd say just let it take its time and unfold on it's own.

MyLuvBugs replied: Yikes! That's a toughy b/c you said he doesn't really seem to like his GF anymore and didn't want to have a kid with her. Hmmm....sounds like he's the "jealous" type, right? A little possessive maybe? But at the same time....you two arent' "together" in a relationship, but you do share a child. WOW! I don't know,hun! Part of me says...be honest and up front with him...but then the other part of me says...now might not be the best time and you should wait a little longer. Perhaps you should wait to see if it works out with Mark. At least for a couple more months or so. KWIM? Good luck though!! KUP on what you decide to do.

mummy2girls replied:
The thing is i will need him to watch jenna for me quite a bit in the evenings so he will ask a ton of question and its hard for me to keep quiet as he can see right through me...

But i shouldnt be nervous because he is dating his GF and haveing a baby with her... I have issues i guess...LOL

mummy2girls replied:
you hit the nail on the head! thats what im feeling

yes he is a jealous type...

but i have afeeling he isnt unhappy with his GF and that he is just telling me he is in hopes ill do the deed with him. But either way he knows i wouldnt as i dont have feelings for him other than firnds and thats it... but most days he seems like an enemy for how he talks to me.

I just want to be happy and move on!

I wanted to wait a few weeks before telling him because it seems good right now but it could change in a few weeks as well!

A&A'smommy replied: I think you need to go with your gut on this one I have no idea I would probably keep it a secret for a little while just until you know how things are going to go!!

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Boys r us replied: Sorry if I'm overly blunt, but I'm not sure why you would tell him at all Shelly? I mean, I have a child with an ex and never did I consider when I should tell him I was dating someone else, much less just FRIENDS with someone, it's ABSOLUTELY none of his business! Heck I got married and didn't tell my son's father. I think Aron has way to much presence in your life, he's your daughter's father...you don't owe him any information about your love life.

mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied: I sorta agree with Nichole on this one, but I can't speak from experience, so little do I know how it feels to be in that situation. So saying that, I would go with your gut and I wish you luck with your decision hon. Maybe just hold off until you know the relationship with the new guy is going strong for awhile.

mom2my2cuties replied: With my ex - the only time I told him ANYTHING about my relationship with Andrew was after i got married. Figured before that point it was none of his beeswax

My2Beauties replied: I honestly think you should go with your gut and don't be afraid of telling Aron anything, he has a GF and she's pregnant for pete's sake, your love life has nothing at all to do with him!

redchief replied: I'd go with, "Aaron, I'm dating. His name is none of your business. Where we're going is also none of your concern, you have my cell, please only call in an emergency."

As far as when to tell him if it all works out? How about the day after you return from your honeymoon?