Well it's done... - We filed for Divorce today...

MomToJade&Jordan wrote: All of the paperwork has been filled out and the parenting plan too. We went to a parenting class last night and went down to the courthouse today to file. I leave for Maryland tomorrow so I can start to pack. A moving company is coming to get our stuff on Friday and the girls and I should be on a plane on Sat. There is a piece of paper signed, dated and notorized that states he's allowing me to bring the kids with me to Florida. It was so real today guys. It was hard no matter how difficult it has become. Once upon a time this man loved me and I still can't get over that. I hope that she's worth everything that he has given up.

My3LilMonkeys replied:

~Roo'sMama~ replied: Carrie-Ann I'm so sorry. My heart is just breaking for you.

1lilpeanut2love replied: I'm so sorry to hear that. Maybe you will find your knight in shining armour in FL. LOL!

A&A'smommy replied: I'm sorry sweetheart he's flipping crazy for doing this, your a good woman, beautiful, kind, a wonderful mother and hes a jerk!!!

mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied: Best of luck with the move. You will be fine! Many PT's!

mummy2girls replied: oh sweetie! I am so sorry this is going on! He is a stupid idiot to be doign this to you and those beautiful girls ! GRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ions_momma replied: im am so sorry to hear this!! you will be in my thoughts and prayers!!

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mammag replied: I'm so sorry. I didn't know you were going through this. You will be in my thoughts and prayers......he obviously doesn't deserve a woman like you.

kayla's mama replied: Best of Luck during the move You'll find your Prince Charming in FL.

C&K*s Mommie replied: Many hugs for you Carrie-Ann. You have two beautiful girls, and you are beautiful too. You will be in my prayers.

I am so sorry. Rest assured that your girls will never tell you that they are no longer in love with you, you are their mother for LIFE!

Best wishes with the move, and your new start to your life.

holley79 replied: I'm so sorry.

gr33n3y3z replied: Carrie-Ann your doing the right thing hun
It will take time but in the long run the best for you and the children

amynicole21 replied: Hang in there sweetie. He'll get what's coming to him. Let me know if I can help in any way.

ediep replied: so sorry carrie Ann. Good luck, you'll be fine!

Hillbilly Housewife replied: Carrie-Anne.... I'm really sorry.

3_call_me_mama replied: Carrie-Ann, hugs and praying headed your way . You are an incredibly strong person and I know you cna get through this. You are a wonderufl mother ith 2 beautiful children to be greatful for... he doen's know what he's missing and losing. Stay strong and we're always here for you. PM if you wnat ot talk . HUGS!!

JAYMESMOM replied: I am so sorry that you have to go thru this but the good thing is you have the 2 main loves of your life with you. Hang in there and remember you are a great, loving, kind person.

3xsthefun replied: I am so sorry.

salmndr007 replied: I am so sorry to hear that. I know what you are going through. You are a strong woman and I know things may feel bad right now, but keep your head up and I promise things will get better before you know it. Oh, and enjoy that warm FL weather!

Maddie&EthansMom replied: Carrie Ann I'm so sorry. I'm glad you are going to FL....no one deserves to be treated the way he treated you and those girls. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

kimberley replied: i am so sorry hon. my prayers and thoughts are with you and the girls. he is not worthy of any of you.

TANNER'S MOM replied: I am so sorry. I have been thru a divorce and I know what you mean! The pain is very real and sad. You need to allow yourself to mourn. I am sorry that he did this.. but we all know that what goes around comes around.

I hope she gains 50lbs and a big wart on her nose!!! lolol I am joking..well kinda..

Much love sister friend!

moped replied: I am so sorry -

mckayleesmom replied: Im so sorry sweetie...If you ever need someone to talk to....Im open. I hope that your life gets better soon.

luvbug00 replied: Carrie Ann I'm so sorry you don't deserve this at all!

MyLuvBugs replied: Oh sweetie I'm so sorry.

lisar replied:
Welcome to florida. There are some good guys here.

Boys r us replied: Oh Carrie-Ann, my heart hurts for you girl! You truly have strength like no other!
You and the girls will be fine!

I'm so sorry that you're having to go through this!

mom2tripp replied:
Carrie-Ann I had no idea this was all going on. What a jerk! I hope that you find so much happiness in starting over. My thoughts and prayers are with you!!!

DVFlyer replied:

Best of luck

luvmykids replied: You know how I feel about him and all the dirt he's put on you, I'm sure it's hitting home in a new way but I still know you are going to flourish without him and you and the girls are going to be great. Ditto to everyone else who said he is not worthy of someone as wonderful as you.

aspenblue1 replied: I am so sorry.

My2Beauties replied: Carrie-Ann you really don't deserve this. I honestly don't know what to say, I couldn't imagine the hurt you are feeling. What a jerk for treating you this way. Oh and to Mel's comment about the gaining weight and the wart on her nose and I'm not joking - any woman that steps in between a man and his wife is horrible in my book! I'm so sorry and my prayers are with you and the girls. He'll regret this one day Carrie-Ann!

Sarah&Mackenzie replied: I am so sorry

Halo42101 replied: Hugs & prayers for you & your girls.

MomToJade&Jordan replied: Thank you all so much. I made it back to Maryland all right. The girls are with my MIL so I can have a free weekend to pack my stuff up. It was a nice drive through the mountains actually. Had time to clear my head and look at all of the positives. You guys are right, my girls will be with me and they are going to love me unconditionally for life. They are my biggest treasures and just the thought of them has gotten me through all of this. It was nice to come home to all of these hugs and well wishes guys! I love ya.

MomToJade&Jordan replied:


Thanks for th laugh Mel. I hope she does too.

CantWait replied: I'm so sorry, I know it's hard to think about now, but you'll get through this stronger then going in. Good Luck in the future

na81 replied: I'm sorry! Hope things get better for you! Take care! Prayers and Pt's for you and your children!!

Bee_Kay replied: First of all.... I am SO sorry

Second of all.... you will be a much stronger woman throughout this process.

Third of all.... and this comes to mind when I hear about situations like yours.... what in h*ll makes her think that HE will be faithful to her????


Believe me, you will be the one shining brightly throughout all of this!!!!

mummy2girls replied:
Thats what i keep saying to myself hun. nomatter what Jenna will always love me uncoditionallya nd be there for me:)

You will do awesome sweetie!!!!!!!!!!!!! (((HUGS))))

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MomToJade&Jordan replied:
Hello! You know I've been asking myself this same question. How can she actually believe that he won't do this to her, because he says he won't. Um he said he wouldn't do this to me. Some people have to learn life lessons the hard way.

Bee_Kay replied:
Exactly!

ashtonsmama replied: I just don't understand: what man could leave YOU, Carrie-Ann?!?

You're the best mother, wife, and friend he could ever hope to have. End of story. It's his loss. You can't help but attract some wonderful new man someday--it'll happen. Much love hun. Prayers coming your way.

coasterqueen replied: You are a very strong woman and are doing the very best for all of you.

DansMom replied: Sorry you're going through this.

jacobsmama replied: Very sorry to hear this Carrie Ann but he doesn't deserve you anyway.