We got into our first - blowout fight

mckayleesmom wrote: Dh and I have been married for 5 years...6 in September and we have never had a huge screaming match. Maybe some tiffs, but I usually just tell him to go away and leave me alone....

Last night we got into a fight....and its all the washing machines fault. Dh asked me to throw his uniform in the wash last night....no problem, but that was before I discovered it wouldn't spin. I rung out the clothes I had in the best I could and put them in the dryer, but I wanted to make sure they were going to dry before throwing dh's uniform in. I didn't want him to be SOL without a uniform in the morning.

I ran the clothes about 3 times and they were still super damp. Dh was walking to our bedroom when he asked if I had thrown them in and I explained that I hadn't because I was waiting to see if they dried first....better a dirty uniform then a drenched one right? He flipped out....told me he asked me to do it hours ago and if I didn't want to do it that I could have told him and he would have done it himself. He was seriously yelling at me. I screamed right back at him my reasoning....He tried to argue with me some more and I told him to F off. Then everytime he tried to yell some more I would cut him off with f off. He finally retreated to the room.

I don't know what his problem was. I told him this morning that he was lucky I didn't have one of Crystalina's iceicles handy or he would have been in trouble.

mckayleesmom replied: Oh ya....afterwards he came out and messed with the dryer and fixed the problem.

Then he starts to talk to me like nothing happened. He seriously came out and talked to me about Angelina Jolies kids.... Like I care...I want to stab you right now....

sparkys2boys replied: Oh wow, that is pretty bad All over a machine huh Well, at least you didn't kill him right..lol

mckayleesmom replied:
Ya....how stupid huh?

I told him this morning that Im still mad at him and he said "well you told me to f-off" and I responded with "duh, your lucky I didn't smother you in your sleep".

I told him he was lucky I didn't have that icicle....

sparkys2boys replied:
LOL.. I really really try and never tell dh to f off he sooooo ahtes those words... but if he ticks me off to no avail I do occasionally say it. Then I hate myself afterwards for doing it, it really is nasty lanuage.

Hillbilly Housewife replied: We just don't feel the love if we don't drop a couple F bombs around here.

luvbug00 replied:

I'm one who likes to push buttons so if my bf said he hated it that gives me all th more reason to say it. I'm soo evil

lisar replied: My hubby wont even touch the washer and dryer. And I am the same way I will jsut say F-off till he goes away

mckayleesmom replied:
I do it like a little kid. You know how little kids say nana can't hear you......I just drop f- off bombs.....so he can't get a word in edgewise...

lisar replied:
Yea it only takes me about 2 or 3 times before he goes outside to the garage. Works like a charm

A&A'smommy replied: ICK I hate to fight and i ESPECIALLY hate to be attacked!!!!!

Did you ever find out what his deal was?

mckayleesmom replied:
No....he gets snippy sometimes when hes tired or frustrated with something....but this is the first time he yelled at me......

I think it was because he was tired.....which is no excuse...but whatever...

A&A'smommy replied:
Jeremiah is the same way, whenever he starts to act like that I send him to bed

Teesa®© replied:
Yep, me too. I ask him who peed in his Cornflakes. I tell him it surely wasn't me so don't take it out on me and that I don't want to see him again unless he's come to apologize.

He rarely does, but will still do the, "Love you, night" or "Love you, see ya" when he goes to bed or leaves for work, and I just reply, "Whatever" till he owns up and starts acting his age instead of his shoe size.

grapfruit replied:
Ugh Tim gets like that sometimes too. He'll go to bed mad and then get UP mad and be mad 1/2 the day. Luckily his "mad" is just cold shoulder. He won't say a WORD to me. So, to make him more mad, I talk to him like I'm having a conversation. I just talk about the weather or whatever is on my mind.

Thankfully, he doesn't get those super mad moods very often, just when he's in a strange depression state...