Update on Kel - *sigh*

loveydad wrote: Well, I took him to Kindergarden today. He stayed about an hour. Then I get this phone call "viggo, can you please come up Kel, we're having a problem" and I just got Tav to watch the kids and went FLYING in there. The problem was that he was hiding in the closet crying. His wonderful WONDERFUL brother had told him "Look Kel, a bomb!!' and it freaked him out and he started crying.

I told Vincent "I am NOT happy with you. And If I find out that what's the matter with kel is something that you are doing, I will be very very upset. If you're going to be mean to him like this you cant' be around him. He NEEDS your help right now." he seemed to feel bad.

But I wonder. I wonder if Vincent's making things worst. When they're together Kel ALWAYS wants me right by him. He's always hurt when Vincent says something, that's always been and I can't stop vince.

I have to backtrack for a minute. Then they were littler, Kel was having a lot of problems and I found out that Vincent would hit him all the time if he wasn't doing what he wanted. So I wonder if he's doing that again.

I'm pretty worried. I've been keeping Kel towards me and I told him totel me if Vincent was saying things. But I just wonder if I'd be justified to listen in on the twins mro when they play so I can find out if he's doing this or not.

Poor Kelly. He still has nightmares. I hate this!

iluvmysweetiepies replied: Awww poor Kel!! I hope you figure out what's really wrong soon.

loveydad replied:
Thank you I hopse so too.

Alice replied: Could you steal the moniter you're planning to use for Brooklyn and put it in their room? I know it's sneaky, but you would have a good idea of what goes on in there.

Poor baby!

And I know I'm a mean parent, but I would be realllllllly harsh with Vincent- lose his bike or something important for a week if I caught him doing something that cruel. I'm pretty big on the whole "family" thing; brothers don't do that stuff to brothers.

Kirstenmumof3 replied: Awwww poor Kel, I would definately find out if Vincent is causing the problem and then have a talk with both of them serpartely! Good Luck!

ediep replied: Have you thought about sending him to a counsler?
....his school might even have one that he could talk about whats bugging him, hope he is back to his cheery self soon

~Roo'sMama~ replied: Poor Kel! I hope you're able to figure it out soon. The baby monitor isn't a bad idea - maybe you could hide it so they don't know it's in there.
I don't envy you right now!! I hope it all gets better really really soon!

kimberley replied: poor Kel! i am shocked about Vincent the monitor is a good idea. i hope you figure it out soon

loveydad replied:
i have a baby monitor in there room I just hadn't turned it on during the day while they played.

I sent him to a counsler he cried and shrieked for 30 minutes and then we left.

iluvmysweetiepies replied: Sorry things still aren't going so well. Poor Kel!! Update us when you try the moniter!

DVFlyer replied: I hate not knowing why things are happening. It makes me feel very helpless.

Any chance someone knows what's going on? Like other kids in the class, playground, etc? Maybe others have seen things that might help you find out what's wrong.

Also, is there anything you (or anyone else here) can think of to create a bond between the two of them?

A&A'smommy replied: Poor kid!!!! I think you should try and listen to them when they are alone together I hope its not Vincent but if it his that is kind of serious!! ((((HUGS))))) I hope you figure it out soon!

akbutterfly83 replied: Yeah I agree.... listen in and find out what's going on...... do they have any friends that they hang with that you can ask.....?

Wish you the best of luck.... hope it all works out......

loveydad replied:
Not realyl they tend to want to stick together.

I don't know of anything that'll bond them. I could tie them together so they could walk around together.

loveydad replied:
I will be. I plan on it.That's not a mean mommy thing it's a good mommy thing to me. No reason for V to be so mean but I think he gets jealou.s