Unfortunately - I was right

Bee_Kay wrote: I found out that my SD won't be graduatiing. When she chose to move out (and get pg) my DH and I told her that she wouldn't be graduating if she continued to make the choices she was making.

Like I said before, she hasn't attended school since December and "at the last minute" she dove into this online schooling.

Graduation is this week. She hasn't completed the assignments and hasn't started her finals (at all).

She inquired the online school teacher asking "I don't want to do the assignments. There is no need for them. Can't I just take the finals?" The teacher said NO.

Also, she hasn't started her required English class. She wanted to start them 2 days ago (one day after the classes ended ) and try and get 1 full credit done in 3 days

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She hasn't spoken to us since I invited her to my brothers graduation party. I drove by the highschool a few days ago and saw her BF standing outside smoking. He immediately called my cellphone and we chatted about his finals, graduation, ect.

My son Tyler saw my SD 2 days ago and she told him that her BF told her that I was all pissed off on the phone with him...... WTF???? I was nice!!!! How in h*ll could me chatting with him about school be construed as p*ssed off?????

So, now she thinks I am all mad...... for no reason!!!

Jeeeez.... I am so sick of this crap with her and her BF playing games and such.

And now, they are sending out graduation announcements tomorrow.... HELLO?? graduation is on Thursday.

Sorry..... I am just venting. I am not mad.... just tired of it.

Oh yeah..... I have been pretty busy so I haven't been on too much.... So, HI!!

amynicole21 replied: Ugh. That is such a shame. I hope she realizes how badly she is screwing up her life and the life of her child quickly - before it becomes too difficult to correct. So sad - and frustrating!!

luvbug00 replied: I hope she finishes via alternitve high. I did it that way. nothing to be ashamed of. Sorry about the added drama

b&bsmom replied:

So sorry you have to go through this. I am sorry she won't be graduating and I know you are not happy you are right but when she becomes a parent ( which according to your post should be soon?) she will understand why we say the things we say.

I hope she decides to come around and talk to you soon. I don't really know what else to say.

Hang in there. I am sure it is tough. Good luck!!

CantWait replied: Sorry to hear she won't be graduating this year. Hopefully next year she gets her act together.

Bee_Kay replied:

The EDD is August 18.


Thanks for the replies

MyLuvBugs replied: UGH! I'm so sorry Barb. Just makes ya want to smack some sense into her or something. I wish I could give you the answers that would make it all better, but sometimes they just have to make their own mistakes.

luvmykids replied: I'm sorry Barb, I know you were really hoping she'd pull it together long before now.

A&A'smommy replied: thats awful!! I'm sad for her Ihope she will figure things out quickly!!

1lilpeanut2love replied: I am SO sorry for the way she is acting. Hopefully, she will straigten up once the baby comes. Don't let it get to you!

back! Nice to see you again!!

Halo42101 replied: I hope things get better for you & your daughter soon.

AlexsPajamaMama replied: Some times it takes alot of mistakes for them to learn. Hopefully she can do an alternative schooling and straighten out sooner rather than later.