Unbelievably sad today...

guertin31 wrote: I'm so sad lately that I sometimes can't even eat or go through my day. Yesterday I found out that Allison has had a guy on the side for over a month now. Even though we were going through hard times, I always thought we would get back at some point. Then I saw the cell phone bill and the number that she called was too frequent. 25 times in one day to be exact. From 630am then 7, 8, 9 calls to his office, his home, his cell. My world crashed yesterday. You know the worse part of it all? The part that hurts me the deepest? Every time she called him, if you look at the next number she calls..... is me...

Does anyone have some suggestions on divorce support groups in the New York Long Island area?

Any advice would be appreceated.

Sadly,
Frank

J-rod replied: keep your chin up. i know the feeling. my X would go back home every single weekend....blow money...while i worked double shifts....then i file for D....she then gets married a few months later. coincidence...i think not....did the best thing that ever happen to me come out of it...yes..... i met my SO and we are now expectinga beautiful baby and wonderful marriage.

for every dark day that comes your way......a brighter one is just ahead.

keep ya chin up. if need anyting PM or email.


edit - luckily we had no kids...cause i always suspeted it wouldnt last.

kayla's mama replied: I'm so sorry I'm not from NY but I would think that a local church would be a great place to start. I know a couple of churches around here offer free divorce recovery groups. Hang in there My heart just breaks because you seem as though you are a very loving guy who should not be treated like this. Like I said.....Hang in there

guertin31 replied: Thanks. If anyone wants to talk, my email is fguertin@gmail.com

Thanks again.

Sarah&Mackenzie replied: I am so sorry you are going through this. All I can offer you is lots of

A&A'smommy replied: I'm SO sorry, cheating is absolutly the worst thing anyone could do to a marriage.. I'm sorry your going to through this, its horrible that she did that too you!!

mammag replied: I'm soo sorry you are going through this. You'll be in my thoughts.

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3xsthefun replied: I'm so sorry you are going through this. I wish I knew what to say.

~Roo'sMama~ replied: I'm sorry Frank.

luvbug00 replied: OMG! I'm so sorry if you need anything or just to vent we are here for you!!!!!

Maddie&EthansMom replied: I'm incredibly sad for you right now. I know how badly it hurts.

mckayleesmom replied: Ok....Im confused though...I thought you said that the thing she did before was unforgivable and it was over....Maybe Im wrong, but maybe she is under the impression that you guys were not going to work things out...kwim? Its kind of shady that she moved on so soon, but maybe, just maybe she didn't think you were going to forgive her. Have you talked to her about this at all?

Mom2Boyz replied: I am so sorry that you are going through this I can't even imagine how painful it must be. I don't have any advice, but I can offer lots of cyber hugs

C&K*s Mommie replied: Frank, I am sooo incredibly sorry to hear of this. You never want marriages to fail, but when it does I can only imagine it is like a hard blow to the head.
Know that we are thinking of you, wishing and/or praying for the best of this & your strength through this. You will surely stay in my prayers.

You have a beautiful son give much love to, and I wish him well throughout whatever is to come.

gr33n3y3z replied:
I couldnt agree more

Bee_Kay replied: I am so sorry, it's gotta be heartbreaking

Besides here.... there are alot of support groups on the internet.... just google a few phrases. Such as "divorce support" "infidelity support" stuff like that and I am sure you will find some place that you can fit in a find a wonderful support network.... or you can stay here. The people here are fabulous.

3_call_me_mama replied: Hugs!!! And positive thoughts coming your way. Hope the sun begins to shine for you again. hang in there !!