Tired and Frustrated - what a few days

J-rod wrote: Well this weekend has been rough....and long. I had a Dr. appt. friday evening and afterwards Steph and I were gonna go to dinner....finally getting her the seafood she wants. Well she was complaining all evening about not feeling good...then she breaks down crying in the car. i asked if she was ok or she wanted to go home. She said "please take me home..i wanna go to bed." so we go home...and she spent all day sat in bed too. so i went and washed the cars. then i went to the mall to work a booth for her fundraiser for her after-school program. came home and she was sleeping still.

woke up here and there for a while...but said if she stood up she felt like she was gonna pass out or throw-up. she has thrown up twice already. she stayed home from work yesterday and slept 80% of the day. i know she isnt getting enough sleep so she needs it...i guess being sikc is making it worse. plus she cant take any cold meds to really help her sleep.

oh yea..she said her back and hips have been hurting all weekend...i went out and got her a hot/cold pad and kept it on her all weekend.

told her that if she isnt better before i get home from work im putting her but in the car and going to the Dr. she hates it...but she has to and she knows its for the baby.

im really really getting tired...working 9hrs a day. driving 1.5 rund trip...then cleaning house. the house is getting out of hand. and im trying to catch up. finally got the living room and kitchen 100% straigtened up. now the bedroom and garage. speaking fo garage...i been working on my car all weekend too...trying to fix some problems and such...(modding it for more hp. lol hp is a drug to me) so my garage is now trashed as well.....


ARGGGGG when does it in? or when does her "nesting" really kick in? ive seen some bits of it....but im waiting for the all out nesting/cleaning spree.

LOL

C&K*s Mommie replied: you should be ashamed of yourself, J-rod!! LOL!

I never went through this, so I feel badly for her. I hope she is feeling better soon.

luvbug00 replied: Hope she feels better!!!!

PrairieMom replied: I nested at 18 weeks, but it never got bad enough to venture out into the garage! I'm sure I will be nesty again before to long.
i hope she starts feeling better and that things calm down for you guys a little.

J-rod replied: she just called and said she is feeling better.... but i have a feeling she is saying this to skip the Dr. that's my girl.

MyLuvBugs replied: It's different with everyone, but I just entered my "Nesting" phase a couple days ago. I TOTALLY want to rearrange the house, paint the walls (can't it's an apt.), and buy all new baby stuff (can't no money).....It's to the point, I'm having problems sleeping b/c my mind just keeps realing with all the things I want to change or redo.

You may want her to start nesting, but it's not all that fun for her. She's got no control over it, and it could affect her in a bad way. Just be patient with her. Let her get over her cold and try to help her out as much as you can. Also, just remember that just b/c the house isn't spic and span clean, it's not a big deal. Things will be alot worse when the baby comes, so get used to it now.

1lilpeanut2love replied: Awwh I am SO sorry about your girl! It is a bummer to be sick especially when you are pregnant!! I felt like BLAH a lot during my pregnancy and my SO did a lot around the house. I don't think he really minded because he just wanted me and the baby to be alright. KWIM!! I hope everything is alright. I hope she would tell you if something was really wrong. GOOD LUCK!!

J-rod replied: well she had problems when she was younger being sick and all. so this is nothing new to her. her mom said thats how she is when sick. she is up and moving today so i think she is feeling better. i think this little cold combined with the lack of sleep caught up to her and mad her worse.

i know the house is a mess....but i feel bad when it is....its not that bad...but it is to me....especially when im already not happy living there. hate the landlord. we were gonna buy a house but cant find anything in our area we like. now we are looking into land and building. we def staying in this area for our kids education. this is not a priority...as we have a house to live in and with the baby....its not a priority....but i cant help thinking about all the things i want to change/fix. especially with the baby coming...im starting to freak about getting it all done

luvmykids replied: It will get better, it's easy to feel run down when pg. I'm sure she appreciates you a lot! I never had the full blown nesting thing though, all I wanted to do was sleep.

fashionmumofboys replied: Glad your girl is feeling a bit better.

MyLuvBugs replied:
Sounds like your the one in the "nesting phase" right now.

J-rod replied:
heheh maybe


she just called and asked me to tell the baby to stop kicking her....i said no way...he's kicking your but in gear tog et better.

J-rod replied: back to confirm - step is better

i AM nesting. last night i cleaned and detailed the entire bathroom....i even organized the linen closet..... WTH am i doing....ive never used that closet for anything besides throwing extra crap in there that there isnt room for anywhere else.

btw - steph finds it very very amusing.