Tell me is this an odd request or not??
mummy2girls wrote: First of all aron as you all know or most of in the past has been a less then perfect dad to Jenna. You know all the stupid things he has done, and so much more.... Well for the past year he has gotten 10 times better. He is the dad to jenna that I always wished he was. He takes her and Chase( her brother, aron had him with his ex) every weekend for one night for sleep overs... ok now he calls me up the other day and says... Shelly we are having a birthday party for Chase on Friday can i take Jenna that night. I said sure of course you can. Then he says... Can you buy Chase his birthday present from Jenna? Im thinking.... hmmmm shouldnt you be the one that take Jenna out to get her brother a present? Thats like me saying Aron Breanna's birthday is on the 19th can you buy her, her birthday present from jenna? Don't get me wrong i have no problem getting chase a present from jenna BUT the things is he wants ME to get HIS son HIS present from jenna so he doesnt have to... What wouls say... no you get it...its your job!
luvbug00 replied: kinda odd. I guess he wants to feel like it's from sister to brother..(without his interference?)
lol! i dunno shelly people make some odd requests and we are like and they think it makes perfect sense.
A&A'smommy replied: I would say no because he may end up using you more often if you give in one time. And that is a weird request!!
coasterqueen replied: I agree with both Jessy Ann and Naydia.
stella6979 replied: Hmmmm, I guess I'm the odd man out as I really don't find it to be an odd request. Maybe he just figured since she is with you the majority of the time it would be easier for you to just take her to get his present? I don't know, I try not to sweat the small stuff so if it were me I'd just take her.
MommyToAshley replied:
I agree. It's not really that big of a deal, I'd try not to make too much of it.
mummy2girls replied: oh no im not making too much out of it... I just found it odd. plus this comes from the man that calls me up by christmas and says.. shelly can i not give you child support as a present from jenna for christmas? LOL WTF!!
mummy2girls replied: And no its not easier. he lives 5 minutes by car from me. so he can just whip by grab her and take her to the toy store.
luvbug00 replied:
Im sorry, are Brad and aaron related??
mummy2girls replied: maby so. they act the same way....
CantWait replied: My reply would have been, "sure, give me the money and Jenna and I would love to go shopping".
I think it would have probably been a give in that you would have bought him something, but for Aaron to suggest it / ask is not just odd, but rude.
I'm glad he's stepped up as a father though.
MoonMama replied: Ditto. I guess I just don't see it as a big deal.
youngmomofone replied: I'd go ahead and to it too
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