Sad..so very sad!!!!!!!!!!!
~Daddytobe~ wrote: i'm posting here at my sisters house. My sister is in bed resting and im here when she wakes up. My preciuos little niece passed away early this morning. My sister has been in such a depression i hurt for her. I can't believe me neice is gone. I talked to my wife and she is very upset also. Im not sure if she will get online until later..she has been so upset for the loss and the fact she can't be here with my sister.
I read your prayers and well wishes on a thread my wife posted about the update on Leigha....Thank you sooooooooo much!i had my sister reading them also and it brought alot of warm tears to her eyes. She says thank-you also.
I can't remeber who posted about the donating of organs...the hospital had contacted them after my sister decided to donate her organs...they are testing the organs and finding recepients right now. it takes a few hours to get this done. So my niece is still on life support they just declared her brain dead a few hours ago....they have to keep her on life support to keep her organs viable. When my sister wakes up we are heading back..my mom is still there. And then we say goodbye one last time beofre they wheel her into surgery... and that will be the last time we will see her... 
I will be back later to update you all on the donation and such....you gals and guys are so caring im crying happy tears .
momma2jenna replied: I don't know what to say except God Bless your family and I am so very, very sorry.
jen replied: Oh I am so sorry.  I am at a loss for words. My prayers go out to you and your sister, your family and Sharon. I pray that little Leigha will bring life full of happiness to another child in need of her precious organs and that comfort is found in that. She will be a glorious angel in heaven, and that is the only comfort I can offer you in grieving. I am just so sad for everyone. I wish you all strength and my deepest sympathies go out to you. 
shelrae00 replied: I am so so so sorry for your loss. I don't even know what to say. I wanted so much for things to turn out differently. May God bless your family during this tragic time. I will continue to pray for your family and especially your sister that God is with her. I am so sorry...
Shelly
booey2 replied: Prayers and hugs to you and your family. It it really hard to lose someone, even more so at the holiday season and even worse when they are so young. May you find peace and comfort in those around you. Remember her for the happy times she brought you and rejoice in her life. Hugs again.
maliksmommy replied: I wish there was something I could say to make things better but I know there's not. My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your sister and your entire family in this time of need.
MommyToAshley replied:
I am just now getting caught up on the last couple of posts from you and mommytobe and I am crying right now. I am so sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you, your family and especially your sister. I will keep your family in my prayers.
kimberley replied: i am so very sorry for your loss. please tell your sister i will continue to pray for her to have the strength to deal with this awful tragedy. if she plans on having donations made to a charity in Leigha`s honour, please let us know. i just wish there was more i could do.
DansMom replied: This is the saddest news. The accident as I imagine it has been repeated in my thoughts so many times since I read your first post. My heart hurts to think of anyone going through this kind of horror and pain as a parent. Your sister will need a lot of support for years to come. It sounds like you have a strong family, and this might make all the difference in helping her through this experience.
You know this already, but it will be extremely difficult for your sister when the twins come, even if she tries to conceal her mixed feelings so as not to interfere with your joy. Some people are embarrassed to share their joy with someone who has lost a child, and it might truly feel like an injury to her when her loss is so recent---it will be important to sit down with her and let her express her feelings when the time comes.
I'm so sorry for your family, I can't express it adequately.
kit_kats_mom replied: I don't even know what to say. It's terribly shocking someone so young passes. My thoughts will be with you and your family during this difficult time. I'm so sorry
mummy2girls replied: I am soooooooooooooo sorry. I am hear is you or your wife or sister need to talk.
I agree with dans mom in what she said about the twins and how she will feel. It will be a very tough time for her. My bro had his baby 7 mos after i lost Jordan and it was very hard to handle that. I actually started to resent my nephew> everyone was so in awwww with the new baby as i was just getting through the loss of my baby. I felt no one remembered Jordan. As time went on i grew to love my nephew. So in my oppinion and experience with tha...let her take it at her own pace. Dont push those babies on her thinking it will make her feel better. Let her yell, vent and be happy as much as she nees. And just remeber she is going througha tough loss right now. Just be there for her... and i see you are already! yYou are an awesome brother...again i am so very sorry!
aspenblue1 replied: I am so sorry for you loss. My thought and prayers will be with your family during this time.
coasterqueen replied: I am so sorry for your loss. I know there is nothing I can say to take away your pain or your sister's pain. But please know that we are here for all of you!!! My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
paradisemommy replied: i have had you all in my prayers all day and all night. i keep playing the accident over and over in my mind also and it just breaks my heart. we have stairs in our house too and i just can't imagine that terrible terrible accident happening. your sister is an angel for donating leigha's organs. hopefully there is someone out there that can use them and benefit from this. May God be with you in your time of need and give you the strength that you need to get through this trajedy.
Shooter replied: Incredibly sad news.
So sorry....
mckayleesmom replied: OMG..Im so upset...I was not expecting bad news..I really thought she would pull through. Big hugs and tons of love sent to your family during this time. Bless your sisters heart for donating something so precious to another child.
jem0622 replied: May God's strength and peace be with your sister and family during this very difficult time. God has a very special angel with him and please remember this during this time. May her strength and spirit live on in those that she will soon breathe new life and vigor into if all goes well with donation. My heart aches for your sister and family.
When I go home from work tonight I will light a candle for her. Here is a special passage that I would like to share and maybe you can share this with your sister later.
God, I hurt!
I said, "God, I hurt."
And God said, I know."
I said, "God, I cry a lot."
And God said, "That is why I gave you tears."
I said, "God, I am so depressed."
And God said, "That is why I gave you Sunshine."
I said, "God, life is so hard."
And God said, "That is why I gave you loved ones."
I said, "God, my loved one died."
And God said, "So did mine."
I said, "God, it is such a loss."
And God said, "I saw mine nailed to a cross."
I said, "God, but your loved one lives."
And God said, "So does yours."
I said, "God, where are they now?"
And God said, "Mine is on My right and yours is in the
Light."
I said, "God, it hurts."
And God said, I know."
Julie
Kirstenmumof3 replied: I'm so sorry for your loss! I hope you find comfort in knowing that another child will be saved from Leigha's organs! My God Bless Your Family today and give you the strength to make it through this tragedy!
MomToMany replied: I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I wish there was more we could do.
Kaitlin'smom replied: I am so sorry I wish I could help more than words. My heart is broke for you and your family. I do hope that some joy can come out of it by donating her organs. I realy wish I could do or say more other than I am so sorry.
ediep replied: I am so sorry for your loss. It is such sad news. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
A&A'smommy replied: IM SOO SOO sorry for you loss and your sisters loss!!!! I cant possible amagin or understand you must be going through...she was such a beautiful little girl...your are still in my prayers and thoughts. (((((BIG HUGE HUGS))))) for you guys..and im so sorry i cant be a better help to you and your family!!!
My2Carebears replied: Aww thats so sad. Breaks my heart!!
Let her know she and your family our in my prayers!
Insanemomof3 replied: So sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts. Such a sad time, but just remember that she will live on through others. Organ donation is a good way for that.
Jamison'smama replied: I am just now reading all of this and am in tears--
There is just nothing I can say except I am so so sorry for your loss. I will be praying very hard for your family.
God Bless all of you during this very difficult and painful time.
3xsthefun replied: I really don't know what to say, I'm so sorry. Sending hugs to you and your family.
jcc64 replied: I really don't know what to say. Your sister is living every parent's worst nightmare. I wish you and your sister strength and courage, and a way to see the light in a true moment of darkness. Peace to your little niece, and to your family as well.
MomToJade&Jordan replied: I am so sorry about your loss. I have a friend visiting this week and I really haven't been able to check the board. I was hoping I would come back here and see that your neice had pulled through. I am over here trying to hold back the tears, but it's getting really hard to do. I know in a way what it's like to lose a child. I had two miscarriages before Jade was born, and although I never got to see their smiles or hold them close I still mourn them. Please pass on my well wishes to your sister.
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