Ok my world is crashing down... - seperation...

mummy2girls wrote: And no this isnt an Aprils fools joke. And no its not me and marcus... I found out just a hour ago.... my mom and dad are seperating! OMG guys! I am in total shock right now! What the heck do i do now? ????

MoonMama replied: Oh Shelley I am so sorry sweetie! I don't have any advice but wanted to give you some hugs.

Nina J replied: I'm so sorry Shelley I can't offer you any advice, just my support and some p&pt's

Kirstenmumof3 replied: All you can do is be there for both of them and don't take sides! I'm sorry this is happening to you!

3xsthefun replied: Oh, no. I'm so sorry.

Jamison'smama replied: Oh Shelly, I am so very sorry~

lisar replied: Shelly I am so sorry.

sparkys2boys replied: I agree with CJ"SMOM.. just let them know u are there for them and will supoort there decision and not get caught in the middle of it. Maybe they just need some time and things will sort out in the end. Im so sorry for you, its not an easy thing to deal with

mummy2girls replied: I juat dont know what to think. I feel like a 8 year old finding out my parents may be divorcing! There is alot more to the story but let me just say this... not my dads desicion but my moms. So im not sure how long she was this unhappya nd why as my dad would walk through fire to get what my mom wants and needs. my dad has no where to go and my mom is keeping everything, as he wont stand up and demand for some things that he so much deserves, so my brother and his wife offered for him to stay with them in the extra room they have until he knows what he is going to do. I know i should nto take sides but i have always been a daddys girl and still am so its hard to just turn my cheek and pretend my mom is not taking my dad to the cleaners...

sparkys2boys replied: Shelly, there is always two sides to the story hun. I know its hard not to get caught up in the he said she said.. who did what of it all, but you have to try to. It will only makes things much worse for you in the end. I went thru this with my parents as a teenager and it is no fun at all. In the end my parents worked thru things and happily are together now. So you never know what will happen in the end. Maybe they need a break and some counselling. If you ever want to talk.. im here for ya

Kaitlin'smom replied: OMG Shelly, what a shock for you. I hope maybe they can work it out and she just needs a break.

mummy2girls replied:
i know there is 2 sides... my mom said she needs to do this because she is unhappy, my dad doesnt want to do this so he is all depressed. My SIL told me They dropped the bomb and then boom the subject just went out the window and my mom was all giggly yet my dad was sad and silent. My SIL says well Mike you can stay with us if you have no where to go and my mom and im not kidding you says in a snotty way.. THere you go! so yes its hard to take the sides but if you were me you would find it very hard!

redchief replied: I'm sorry, Shelly.

Crystalina replied: I'm very sorry to hear this.
My parent's divorced when I was 3 and then my mom remarried and my stepdad left. I've been through 2 divorces when I was a child and I always found that an unhappy marriage is worse then a divorce sometimes. Maybe your mom just has to get something out of her system? After all that time it may not be totally over. Just remember that.

I do feel sorry for your dad.

sparkys2boys replied:
awwww hun.. im soooo very sorry. It's all fresh for everyone right now and it makes it that much worse. Maybe sit down with your mom one on and one and talk to her very openly about her feelings and yours too. Also do this with your dad and just keep an open mind. It's very hard no matter what, I remember as a teenager how I felt and it sucked. Take some time over the next few days to just get things stright in your mind first though.

mummy2girls replied: i need marcus rigth now and man did I need him last night:( but by the time I found out( i was the last to know) it was almost 10pm and Marcus's sister was havign troubles with getting Chloe down so i did not want to risk waking her up:(

CantWait replied: I'm so sorry Shelly.

thatgirlang replied: Wow, I am so sorry!!

mummy2girls replied: Thanks guys.. it isnt a reality to me yet ... so im in denial this si happening.

HuskerMom replied: I'm so sorry! A similar situation happened to me a couple years ago. My parents had been married for 24 years and my mom decided she wanted a divorce. My dad didn't, he wanted to try to work it out. He would've done anything to make it work but mom didn't even want to try. I was so mad at my mom for the longest time. I still get angry sometimes. My dad even told me not to blame my mom or be mad at her. She's been married again and divorced since then which was so hard for my brother and I. But as time went on I didn't necessarily get over it but it became easier to deal with. I hope things get better for you.

holley79 replied: I'm sorry Shelly. All I can say is just go with it. Hopefully they won't put you and Jenna in the middle of it.