OMG MySpace is more trouble than it's worth

My2Beauties wrote: OK...I've only had a page for like 2 weeks and my DH is going crazy about it. First of all I should have never done this, I knew it'd bite me in my behind but I did anyways. OK, I used to date a guy named Travis, well sort of, we talked more or less. He is not one of my friends on myspace or anything like that at all, but he goes out to this club that my friends and I go to sometimes. Whenever he sees me he always smiles and says hey and gives me a hug...no biggie So, my friends think it's funny so they call him my stalker. So one day (when Des was around) we all started saying something about my stalker, and we perhaps mentioned how hot he was So, Des was like I wanna see this guy, well I knew he had a myspace page because he had asked me a long time ago if I had one, which at the time, I didn't and I knew his last name, so I looked him up so she could see his pics. No biggie so I thought. So today, Brian calls and he's like what are you doing? I said I'm working.....he was like are you on myspace? I said my browser is up but I'm not looking at it now why? He was like why is your ex Travis on your myspace? Me ---> Travis isn't on my myspace at all, he isn't one of my friends. Well that's not what someone told me, I said the only people on my myspace page are girls and your friends, I said no one else is on there. I said who told you that? He was like don't worry about it. I KNEW it was Des, she is the only person that even knew (besides her mom) that I looked him up. Ok, so I e-mail Staci and her and I were both like OMG Desiree we're gonna kill her, because this is just causing more trouble than what it's worth. So Staci calls Des and she's like what the he!! did you say to your dad about Travis and how did his name come up. She said we were just talking about myspace and it slipped out, she said I said LeaAnn might be adding him as a friend Why would she say that. So Staci calls Brian and he's like I'm not mad it's no biggie...yeah right, he was PO'd you could tell. So now I have to explain this whole story to Brian when I get home of how this guy we call my stalker is seriously no threat at all God, stupid myspace has already got me into trouble and I didn't even do anything.

mckayleesmom replied: I think he will calm down once you tell him the story behind it....

stella6979 replied: Wow, that's a bit much for him to be so upset. I mean, even if you dated/talked or whatever, that doesn't mean anything. Heck, I have one of my old boyfriends as well as his wife as friends on my page. I think maybe someone is a little jealous.

luvbug00 replied: I'm a VERY jelous person I would have been ticked. Just explain in a calm manner. Any defencive sounding tone sounds guilty to us jelous people. ( we don't hear logic we "hear" emotion.)

My2Beauties replied: It's cool now, but man oh man I heard jokes all weekend about my other man Travis It was getting nerve-racking after a while.

Boys r us replied: LOL..LeaAnn!

MommyToAshley replied: Glad things are better now.

gr33n3y3z replied: Oh well I'm glad he got over himself
I hate when they say he said she she B.S.

Crystalina replied: MySpace is not for the jelous at all. You have to be really trusted I think. I have ex's on my friends list. DH doesn't care. We don't talk much they are just there for whatever reason.

Here is DH's page. Can you tell I'm not the jelous type?

My2Beauties replied: LOL crystalina, well my DH just had to go make a page, and he has no pics up yet or anything but there are half naked girls all over his layout and I said you're worried about my myspace friends! LOL! Yeah it's not for the jealous at all. LOL! I had a guy send me a message, some 20 year old and waslike hey girl you're cute what's up. So I messaged him back and said Um..wouldn't a 20 yar old single guy be looking for other 20 year old single girls? LOL I was like I'm married honey thank for the compliment though! LOL!

Crystalina replied:
Oh yeah. You get all sorts of kookies on there. I have a few "friends" that are obviously (from looking at their page) searching for a woman but they are very repectful to me. They send the casual hello and have a nice weekend type things but that's about it. I get a message or two every few weeks from some goober but I just ignore them.

mckayleesmom replied: You can make your pages private and by invite only...that way you knock out all the creepy guys or girls pming you.

My2Beauties replied:
I know, but I think it's hilarious! LOL! I had ir private for a while.

Crystalina replied:
I don't like it private. I think your more apt to get people that you haven't seen for ages to find you easier. Sometimes it's hard by the picture and there are so many Crystals. I know I've found people like that. If I couldn't look at their full page I would never have known it was them.

mckayleesmom replied:
lol

mckayleesmom replied: I thought it was funny too...for a while..then it got old. I got sick of getting all the invites to look at peoples bands.

Danalana replied: I just have to laugh because I'm not the jealous/suspicious type at all. I was engaged before I met richard and I never minded if other girls approached him or talked to him. I figure if he's with me it's because he wants to be. If some other person can change that, it's not that person who is the problem, KWIM?

Crystalina replied:
Yep. Not only that, we've been together FOREVER it seems and neither one of us has the energy to start over.

luvmykids replied:
LOL

eta: I cracked up at Gene's page, we call DH Big Daddy too