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Johns GF wants this at our - house for Christmas (religion)


gr33n3y3z wrote: A stocking with the Star Of David on it
I guess you cant buy those so I will have to get one made for her at the mall

Maddie&EthansMom replied: That ought to be interesting rolling_smile.gif

You are so kind to accomodate her wishes. wub.gif

mckayleesmom replied: Well...I like the idea....She is coming to celebrate with you guys even though she is a different religion....but just adding a spark of hers to not make her feel uncomfortable.

punkeemunkee'smom replied: If you have a Hobby Lobby or Craft store near you you could buy a plain stocking and find a Star Of David to attach to it at the craft store or even buy some silver fabric and cut one out and glue or sew it to her stocking and maybe have her name put on it or something! ITA with Aimee it is very kind of you to be includeing her and trying to accomidate her wishes! hug.gif

MyLuvBugs replied: My MIL has all of us kids and in-law kids create our own stockings with whatever we want on them. So my DH has one that's HUGE b/c he's really tall and it's in a Hawaiian print b/c that's his fav. Mine is purple and has a K-State wildcat on it. lol smile.gif

I think it's a WONDERFUL idea to have her stocking show a little bit of who she is. It will make her feel comfortable in your home, and it will be good for the rest of your family to incorporate some of her traditions in to yours. That's all part of becoming a family. Although she is a GF and not an in-law, but if she's serious with the boy, then maybe she'll become an in-law. It will be ok though. hug.gif

kimberley replied: thumb.gif creative! sounds like a keeper for Johnny. wink.gif

mom2tripp replied: Lisa, are you the sweetest kindest woman out there??? I THINK SO!!!

Your children must be proud of the loving mother that they have wub.gif

holley79 replied: Aww that's sweet that you would do that for her. blush.gif

kit_kats_mom replied: You know, that's great. How creative!

My aunt recently remarried. Her new DH is jewish but this guy is so into Christmas that it's verging on mania. He had the whole house decorated for Christmas on the day after Thanksgiving. He was like a little boy about the Christmas tree. My aunt say's he's always been like this. rolling_smile.gif

coasterqueen replied: Very creative and nice to see that she can be of a different religion and still be a part of your celebration. thumb.gif

mammag replied: That is so sweet of you!!! Sounds like John's lucky all around........mom & gf!!!!

gr33n3y3z replied:
That sounds like a good idea thank you for all of your ideas

I will go and take care of that on Monday along with my secret santa gift

Yes John is very lucky she doesnt understand Christmas and asks 90 questions but we tell her what its about and she in return tell us about hers So we are all very lucky that she is understanding and so are her parents.
Thank you all for your kind words smile.gif


redchief replied: Spoiler that I am, I've thrown a nut into the bag of bolts justjoking.gif

But seriously I've asked that John's gf share some of the meaning of Hannakuh with us. Christianity is rooted in the Jewish faith and therefore their traditions and rememberences are relevant to our faith. I had an hour or so Q&A session with his gf on the ride back to college last week (poor kid was a captive audience), and we spoke of the meaning of "kosher" (which I was totally ignorant of) and how their communities handled the overwhelming Christian themes during the holiday seasons. The conversation was both enlightening and fascinating.

So while she's extremely excited about being able to celebrate Christmas with us, we're going to take something away from the experience too.

Maddie&EthansMom replied:
Good for you!! thumb.gif biggrin.gif


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