Jenna is going to be a big sister
mummy2girls wrote: ...and no its not me....LOL
Arons gf is preggo... the sad thing about this all is he is not happy with the whole thing. He doesnt want to live with her anymore, doesnt want to get married. and he doesnt want to be an butt and kick her out....Aron did not want to have a baby with her but trusted her to take the pill and even taking the pill you could still get pregnant, so why not use double protectiuon? He is in one big mess of a predicament...
I feel for this baby... UGH!!!!
C&K*s Mommie replied: I had to take a double take at the heading of this post!
Whether Aron is pleased or not a baby is coming, I wish the gf well.
MoonMama replied: Me too
And ditto.
CantWait replied: WOW!!!!!!!!!!!
Congrats to Jenna.
Our Lil' Family replied: WOW! I knew it was Aron right away but I also remembered you had said he was unhappy! Tough situation. I hope Jenna takes it well!
Hillbilly Housewife replied: Yikes.
Boys r us replied: Funny how knowing you don't want to be with someone any longer doesn't stop him from doing the deed with her!
Do you think it was on purpose? As in, you say he may have been wanting to kick her out and didn't have the heart and if that is the case then surely she could feel the tension between them...maybe this was her attempt at keeping him around!
None the less...Aron is old enough to take care of himself and make sure that he is using protection!
Congrats to jenna!
mummy2girls replied: im thinking thats why this ahhpened BUT it could of been an oops because i have heard people getting preggo with the pill.. but in any situation he should of been using protection too expecially if he was feeling what he has lately.
he is going to a big eye opening if it doesnt work out because she will probably not be so passive like me...
mckayleesmom replied: Well....congratulations to Jenna!!
As for Aaron...if he didn't want a kid...he should have kept it in his pants. If he was so unhappy, then why was he having sex with this girl? Serves him right if you ask me. As for the girl...I hope she wises up because her baby doesn't need to be around someone that doesn't want its mommy there......children pick up on that.
mom2my2cuties replied: Congrats to Jenna -
As for Aron - he gets what he deserved - If he was that unhappy - he should have extricated himself from the situation and not been still pretending with her because that is going to make it worse on that baby.
luvbug00 replied: WOW Condom anyone?? geeze you'd think he'd be more carful and they haven't been together that long either have they?? Ahh well, Hope Jenna is happy
redchief replied: Congrats to Jenna.
I'm sorry about the situation.'nuff said on that already though.
Kaitlin'smom replied: sorry but it seems so Aron to me.
congrats to Jenna I hope she gets the chance to know her little sibling.
lisar replied: Congrats to Jenna. I hope she and her brother/sister get to know one another and have a good relationship.
ashtonsmama replied: Double ditto.
youngmomofone replied: Wow! Congrats to Jenna. I wish Aron and his gf well.
Hillbilly Housewife replied: Shelly... I don't want to sound insensitive or anything... but I suggest you get a court order for shild support from Aron while you can. If her and Aron split, no doubt she will be getting child support of some kind... and if she's not as passive as you, no doubt she'll get a court ordered payment. I don't know about where you are, but in Ontario, the Child Supoort Guidelines state that the amounts, as per the salary, for one child are as follows...
33000 - 290$ 40000 - 345$
Now I don't know what Aron makes, nor do I want to know... but those quotes are from the old Guidelines, they were updated in May, so they went up a little since then.
If Aron makes enough that he can pay for that child's support as well as continue giving you the money he gives you, then great... but don't be surprised if the financial side of things go sour for a while. Might as well get all the $$ you're entitled to while you can:hug:
mom2my2cuties replied: I have to admit - I totally agree with Rocky -
If she isn't as passive as you - when things go belly up with them, then she is gonna nail him to the wall (which he totally deserves I might flippin add) and Jenna will end up getting the shaft, and we would all hate to see that happen.
holley79 replied: My first reaction was . Like Nicole said baby is coming whether he wants it to or not.
mummy2girls replied: I agree Rocky
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