I've given up on any hope

3xsthefun wrote: I found out the my friend lost her baby last week. I was so hoping that she would be ok. My friend had a miscarriage.

My mom & dad were fighting again last night. We went out get something to eat Gino's and was waiting on food. So I thought we would ride to their house for few minutes. When we got there my mom was sitting at end of drive way in her car and my dad was standing outside of it. I asked if they were fighting again, my dad answered "no, we was checking the mail" yeah ok whatever dad. My mom said "yes" that my dad was leaving and told her to sale the house. I asked him why he wanted leave his family. He didn't answer me. I then asked him "if he was unhappy" he told me "it is just to hard" I really don't know what think about that answer.

I really don't know what is going happen now. It is really going hurt me if my dad leaves. Yes, I'm 24 have family of my own. But it still hurts knowing he could just turn his back on us.

I'm sorry for this being another bring everyone post.

amynicole21 replied: Oh Tina, I'm so sorry

Boys r us replied: Tina, I'm very sorry you're going through such a hard time! You know we're always here for you..if you need to talk!

3'smom replied: I am so sorry you are having to deal with so much at once. Sending (((hugs)))) and good wishes your way.

3xsthefun replied: Thankyou everyone! I sometimes think this place is only thing keeps me going sometimes.

I've thought about taking a break from here though. I just don't want everyone to think I'm such a negative person all the time.

I just wish things would hurry up and get better instead of getting worse.

ions_momma replied: Awww! Im so sorry!

mckayleesmom replied: But thats what the board is for....to vent and have someone to talk to...Don't leave

3xsthefun replied: Oh, I'm not going to leave. And I know this is what the board is for. I just don't want everyone think I am so unhappy all the time. Which I'm not I have my 2 girls they keep me busy and always doing something to make me laugh. Plus I have zoo of pets keep me busy and happy most times. Sometimes they do things bug me but I know it is not their fault.

I'm just so sad for my friend too, I knew how much she wanted a baby. I guess maybe right now was not the time? I hate to think that, but I believe she had alot going on. And maybe a baby was not meant to be for her right now.

~Roo'sMama~ replied:

amymom replied: I am sorry for you with all the stuff you are dealing with right now. And your friend to.



It is amazing you would say that but I really think that it is so. Long story short but in hindsight it looks like a (late term) miscarriage that we had was because it was the 'wrong' time for us to have a baby. My due date ended up being a few days after my mom passed away, and I was able to be with her during her last two weeks, and would not have been had I been nine months pregnant or with a newborn. So I think you may be right about your friend's time just not being now.

SOUTHERN MOMMY replied: :grouphug:Oh i am so sorry that you are going through so much hang in there it will get better

3xsthefun replied: I went over see my parents yesterday evening with the girls. My parents seemed to be doing ok. My mom was even taking my dad out to eat. It seems like one day they are fighting and all is going come to a end. The next they are fine and joking around. I seriously don't know about my parents anymore.

I just know I am glad that my dad is still around. I'm thinking friday night was just one of those heated fights. Saying stuff they really did not mean. I sure hope so anyway!

A&A'smommy replied: Good grief they should not have said anything to you about him "leaving" thats unecessary stress!!! ((((((HUGS))))) Hopefully they worked whatever it was out!!

I'm sorry for your friend! (((HUGS)))

kit_kats_mom replied: I'm sorry you are going through a rough time right now. On the bright side though, at least you guys have your health and each other. It could be very much worse. KWIM?

When I'm feeling like I've got too much on my plate and everything is going wrong, I recall the absolute bone chilling fear I had when Lauren was hospitalized and the terror I felt at the remote possibility of losing her...really puts things in persepective for me when I'm overwhelmed.
Parents fighting...no biggie, they will work it out to the best of their abilities, not your job.
House a mess...well, there's always next week.
Try not to let it get to you. It has to get better right?

MommyToAshley replied: Sorry I missed this post. But, glad to hear that your parents are doing better.

I think we've all had days where everything seems to go wrong at once and you just feel like giving up. Don't feel bad about venting a little here, we're just happy to support you as you have us. We don't think badly about it because we've all been there some time or another.



I am sorry about your friend's loss. I am always deeply affected in these kinds of situations as well. She's lucky to have you as a friend to lean on.

a_baby_is_a_gift replied: sorry about your dad

mammag replied: I'm glad they are getting along now and sorry you were having a rough time.

We don't think you are unhappy all the time. We've all been there. That's why we are here!!