Its going to be a bad year.... - And its only January

lisar wrote: Well this is why I say that.

My 19 year old cousin has cancer. She is in surgery as we speek having her thryoid removed. I havent heard anything yet. She is such a good kid.

My 28 yr old uncle. Who should be my brother.. LOL.. Was just diagnosed with cancer on Monday. Well we have now researched it and found out that he has a 20% chance of living past 2years. Apparently the kind of cancer he has is very aggressive and fast to spread. We read that it will spread to organs and has a tendency to spread to your lungs. Again. This upsets me very badly.

Last year we lost 2 people to cancer. My grand-father and my Aunt. My other aunt who had cancer beat it. But the other 2 did not win. So last year wasnt a good year either. And now this year has started out like this already. And I am having surgery on Monday. I mean I am just so scared and everything that is going on and happening with my family is just to much to handle. I dont know what to think or do. I dont want anything to happen to either one of them. And they say it all comes it three's. Well who is the 3rd person? My uncle, My cousin, ???. And I am having surgery. Thats what scares me the most. I am really considering cancelling my surgery. Mine is all being done due to other reasons besides cancer. I do have cancer cells in my cervix so they are taking it out also. But I just, I dont know. I dont even know if I am making sense to yall right now. I am just so upset and so emotional. I have to much on my plate right now. I am getting stressed out. And I hate being stressed.

Sorry I just had to get some of this off my chest. And yall always know how to make me feel better. Thanks for hearing me out.

luvbug00 replied: I can't fathom what you must be going threw so many hugs!!

mom2my2cuties replied: I don't have any advice, but I did want to offer

mummy2girls replied: (((HUGS))) im so sorry this is all happeninng to you! I know it seems like nothing but crap is thrown at you believe me i went through that many times. I hope it gets better! This kind of stuff happens and makes us very strong people!!!!!!!!

Boys r us replied: I'm sorry Lisa, I hope that the sun comes out for you soon!!

I agree though, 2007 isn't starting off too great!

Kaitlin'smom replied: so sorry and the rule of 3 does not always apply. Lets hope thats all the bad news and you get positive news soon.

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DansMom replied: Wow, that is a lot to deal with. Your cousin and your uncle---so very young Do you all live close by each other or are you living in different states?

Calimama replied: I hope life starts looking up soon.

cameragirl21 replied: i'm really sorry, Lisa. FWIW, i have ALWAYS thought you should cancel your surgery, i just never said anything because it's really none of my business. but if you're having second thoughts go with your gut.

sparkys2boys replied: Oh Lisa I am so sorry to hear all of that I hope that you are ok hun. I know first hand how hard some of that can be with what we are going through with Dh. Stay strong and if you EVER want to talk let me know. If you decide to go ahead with your surgery best of luck and let us know how things go ok.. sending ya some prayers right now to help you with this all

holley79 replied: I'm sorry sweetie. many thoughts and prayers.

MommyToAshley replied: I'm sorry. That is a lot for your family to handle.

Many prayers and hugs!

lisar replied:
We all live here. Within miles from each other. We all see each other on a daily basis. Our entire family is real close.

Boo&BugsMom replied: I'm so sorry Lisa. I've lost many people to cancer. It's a horrible disease.

my2monkeyboys replied: Wow... I'm so sorry to hear all of this. Many prayers are going up for all of you right now. Instead of giving in to the doubt, try your hardest to think positive about it all. I know that's so very hard, but try as hard as you can.

gr33n3y3z replied:
weight the pros and cons sweetie

JadensMama05 replied: Oh my.. I am so sorry your family is going thru all that!! I'd be so lost.. Many many s to you. I know it's cliche but try to stay positive.

I too agree that 2007 is off to a bad start..

redchief replied: It takes a brave family to handle so much, Lisa. We'll be praying for all of you!

A&A'smommy replied: I"m SOOO sorry sweetie!!! I'm keeping you AND your family in my P&PT'S

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redplaydoh replied: I hope the year does get better for you. I wish I had magical words, but I don't. Stay strong and try to see the positives in your life too.