I'm inbetween shock and tears!

A&A'smommy wrote: I just called Jeremiah to see if he wanted me to cook him something to eat and I asked him what he was doing and he said standing outside so there was a little static so i told him i would let him go because he has friends (on co-worker) with him so I thought he was busy and he told me his dad has cancer! He has cancer what the heck!?! WHY HIM! Jeremiah is really tore up he was in tears but I didn't realize it until he told me! I asked him if he wanted me to come up there but he said no I don't know what I should do!!! I wonder if I should call my mom!?! I wonder how his other family is handling this!! They don't communicate very well so i may never know.... I don't know what I should do!!!!

coasterqueen replied: Ahh Jessy Ann, I'm so sorry. My p&pt's go out to DH's father. I'm not sure what to tell you to do. You know the family better than I do. Know that we are here for you and your family.

A&A'smommy replied: I am on the verge of either freaking out or I don't even know.... I think he will be okay I feel it in my heart but I know Jeremiah is not going to be the same! I want to be there for Jeremiah but I don't even know if he will let me or how!

alice&arik replied: I am so sorry. I don't know what else to say.

Kirstenmumof3 replied: I'm so sorry about your father in-law. Keeping your family in my prayers.

kimberley replied: i am so sorry your FIL is in my thoughts and prayers.

Jamison'smama replied: Sending p&pts to your family. So sorry this is happening. Hang in there!

ediep replied: oh, Jessy, I am so sorry!!!! Your FIL is in my prayers. My dad had cancer and he had surgery to remove it and has been cancer-free ever since!! I hope your FIL 's cancer is like that.

MommyToAshley replied: Jessy, I am so sorry. How scarey it must be for all of you. Sometimes all we can do is to let people know that we care, and even though it may not seem like much, it does make a difference.

I will keep your DH's father in my prayers. Please keep us posted on how he is doing.

kit_kats_mom replied: I'll keep your family in my thoughts. Just let DH know that you are there for him if/when he needs you.

TLCDad replied: So sorry.

Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

CantWait replied: I'm so sorry Jessy-Ann, my prayers go out to you and dh and his father

5littleladies replied: I'm so sorry about your father-in-law. You will all be in my prayers.

jem0622 replied: Lots of prayers for his Dad. Do they know more about what it is and what stage it is in? Hope they have some answers soon.

Boys r us replied: Oh Jessy, I'm so sorry your family is going through this!
Your father in law will be in my thoughts and prayers as will the rest of your family!!

momof2girls replied: I am so sorry he is in my prayer's!

jcc64 replied: I'm sorry to hear you and your dh are going through this. As many of you know, my dad also has cancer. It's a very difficult experience for both the patient and the family. For now, wait to see how the story unfolds, FIL will undoubtedly be barraged with A LOT of information, statistics, advice,etc. My 2 pieces of advice are: be leery about seeking out too much info online at 1st- it can be overwhelming and unnecessarily scary, and get a 2nd opinion, and a maybe even a 3rd. Recovery from cancer is wholly dependent on catching it in time. Hopefully, your FIL has done just that. Good luck!

A&A'smommy replied:
Its prostate cancer and they got it VERY early, its also genetic and the docter has said that Jeremiah needs to get checked. But we don't have the money or the insurances right now. BUT Jeremiahs boss said they are working on it (because she saw how upset jeremiah was) and that they are going to try and get some soon so Jeremiah can go to the docter! I was very upset last night that I couldnt go be with Jeremiah right away but my mom got her about 7 30 last night and went to be with him and then late last night we had an argument (wont get into that but THAT has been coming on for a LONG time) and we worked it out and cried together and explained our deepest feelings to each other and it was wonderful! THANK you so much everyone for being so supportive I will keep you updated. I'm just so glad they caught it this early we love him TOO much to loose him!