I need you guys

ZandersMama wrote: I posted awhile ago asking opinions on my ex, and getting back with him.

Against my better judgement, I agreed to let him come back only for the kids sake, they love him and he doesnt pay attention to them if im not part of the deal. He asked me tonite when i was going to my friends to bring his laptop to get my friend(computer geek lol) to install a program on it for him. While playing around with it, I found single sites he has profiles up for, searches on reunion dot com for ex girlfriends, more porn sites then i can count. I have really been trying my best guys, playing happy wife and trying to keep it together and him together for the kids. I came home and flipped (of course ) and now i just want to crawl under the bed and cry for being so darn stupid to even try it again. I dont know why on earth I keep doing this. He of course said im over reacting and its really nothing, but its all in the history. All of the history that i looked up is just in the last week. He has only been here with us for maybe 3 weeks . All of the profiles were only created in the last week. The searchs were done in the last week. So after 2 weeks of "trying" this is what i get. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR.

i told him to leave me and the kids alone and just move on.

MoonMama replied: Oh honey! My heart is just breaking for you, I'm so sorry! If you need to talk, vent, anything I'm here. Your a strong, amazing women and mother and I know you and the boys will be just fine without that loser!

bawoodsmall replied: I can understand you trying for the kids but sweetie...its not worth it. You will find better so cut your ties with him. Hopefully he will still want to be in the boys life. If not its his loss.

moped replied: You know what to do...I am so sorry this happened.

Teesa®© replied: I'm so sorry, hon

PrairieMom replied:

Kirstenmumof3 replied: I'm so sorry that he did this to you and your family! I think you did the right thing by telling him to leave! My thoughts and prayers go out to you!

Hillbilly Housewife replied: Sorry Lisa....

MommyToAshley replied: What a jerk (wish I could use other words here)-- I'm sorry.

gr33n3y3z replied:

luvbug00 replied: you tried your best and that is somthing to be proud of. Keep ur chin up

lisar replied:

mckayleesmom replied: Tons of hugs for ya hon. You did what you thought would be best for your kids and that makes you a great mom. You were sacrificing your own happiness for your babies. Some day you will meet a man that will not only be wonderful to you, but they will be wonderful to your boys too.

Calimama replied: I'm sorry. At least you can look back and know you tried.

sparkys2boys replied: OH Lisa I am sorry that he did this to you and the kids. You deserve so much more then he has ever offered you. I think you really do know what to do here but I also understand your trying to do right for the boys. Hun, the boys will sense your unhappiness more then you know and this in the long run is much worse for them then all of you not being together as a family. Stay strong and do what is right for you and them but remeber you have to be happy to have them happy

You know where to find me if you need some time away for a few days ok.. your always welcome here..

ZandersMama replied: Thank you so much for this




and thank you all so much

sparkys2boys replied:
Not a problem it's the least that my family and I could do for you

Boo&BugsMom replied:

Sam & Abby's Mom replied: You deserve better, hun. Keep the Faith.

mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied: I'm so sorry. You do deserve better, keep your chin up. You are doing the right thing.