I need to crawl back into the hole I came from - (warning long whiney vent)

coasterqueen wrote: this morning. I am in such an awful mood I am about ready to put a sign on my desk to "talk at your own risk". Every now and then on another board I frequent we've done "BITE ME" threads so you can let off steam. Well I hope no one minds because I really need to let off steam. Feel free to join me .

I didn't get hardly any sleep. Kylie is driving me massively crabby. I actually was overjoyed to drop her off at daycare today. Poor Terri has to deal with her 24/7 whining.

Whoever said being pregnant in the fall/winter months was INSANE! Sorry but who would want to wear all this clothing to look like a friggin TENT! And now I have to spend the next 6 months wearing all this tent-like dress clothes because Fall Veto Session starts today in Illinois. If my Dh says I look beautiful one more time in these tent-like clothes I'm gonna send him to Mars!

My co-worker is really peeving me off because her daughter (16) needs this routine ear surgery again and of all times to schedule it she scheduled it for this week WHEN mind you the fall veto session is going on! HELLO! I'm about ready to chew her skinny little leg off! She had it scheduled for the week of Thanksgiving (it's only a one day recovery and the surgery is routine she has it every year) but then she decided she didn't want to wait a WHOLE other week so she rescheduled it to this week. Thanks LADY! Make the rest of my whole week a living nightmare because I won't have any help. Her DH was mad at her for rescheduling it too so him and I should go party and be peeved together.

Every driver on the road this morning did NOT know how to use a turn signal properly. I ended up flipping a woman off who was royally annoying me and it so happened I did so while I was right next to a cop. Oops! He got to hear my new found verbal and hand language too (not directed at him but at the lady). Glad he didn't ticket me.

Again, to my co-worker who also took last Friday off leaving me to get ready for Fall Veto Session alone (doesn't she remember it's not kosher to take off the week before, during or after sessions like the Fall Veto one?????) Grrrrrr. So then she has the nerve to come in and ask me how Friday went and if I had a great weekend! HUH? Get out of my face please.

To my mother who came over yesterday to play with Kylie...although she sat on the couch telling me how to cook and about her latest sickness while my father was so gracious to play with Kylie. Oh then she YELLED at Kylie because Kylie wanted me to pick her up and mom told her she needs to grow up and that she needs to learn mommy can't pick her up if she wants her sister or brother to make it into this world safely. I immediately asked her to shut her mouth.

Okay....sorry everyone..you can disregard all of this. I just needed to VENT in a big massive way. Man am I such a grouchy pregnant woman. I am not going to make it sane before this baby comes.

DansMom replied: Sorry, Karen! I hope things get better soon!

Kaitlin'smom replied: oh Karen sorry your feeling so well I am not sure, but I like the idea of posting the sign on your desk, vent all you want I hope it helps you feel some what better.

favre4fan replied: Sorry to hear things are not going right for u ! I know we all have these kind of days, blah!! I tend to usually notify people at work not to bother me on my grouchy days!! i hope everything gets better soon!!

coasterqueen replied: Thanks ladies. I actually feel a lot better after getting that all out! Course I still don't feel better about wearing these tent-like dress clothes for the next 6 months but not much I can do about it. They need to design maternity clothes for those who are more than a size 1 IMO but that's another story, .

Sometimes I just need to vent it out or else I'll burst. Didn't want to vent to Kylie or DH and if I vent it out for real at work..they'd probably send me packing.

Otherwise my life is really great .

Kaitlin'smom replied: well come vent when you need to, we have all had days like that.

heck friday night I was cring, poor DH wonder what he did wrong and when I tried to explain to him it was nto him but a show I had watched (stupid me, I kno whow those effect me now and I still sometimes watch) he just did not get it. Of course that made it worse so I cried to sleep

Maddie&EthansMom replied: Bless your heart, hun. I'm sorry you are having a rough day. Just remember we have all been there. You can vent here anytime. I hope your day gets better.

*Just remember revenge is sweet. Next time you guys are incredibly busy at work just take off for a long weekend!

Boys r us replied: Oh honey, sounds like you're having one h3ll of a day!!! I hope things get better!!
I hope you go into labor during your busiest time!

coasterqueen replied:
Well no matter when I go into labor it will be a busy time around here unfortunately. DH thinks that's why I am so much more hormonal and crabby this time around. Because with Kylie I had her during the "off" season and everything was perfect being away from work. This time around it will be during the "on" season as well as weeks away from a HUGE legislative day I have to put together and attend AND just a few months away from a summer retreat I must plan as well as all my other legislative duties........hence NOT a good time at ALL.

This morning I was freaking out because I thought "OMG what if I get put on bedrest again that means I can't come in to the office to even do accounts receivable/payable". See during my maternity leave with Kylie I still came in and did those responsibilities because it's a real PITA to teach someone that stuff. If I have to go on bed rest again, god for bid, and longer then I'm making someone bring my computer to me as well as all the bills and I'll do them from bed!

Unfortunately even though I have a LONG way to go with this pregnancy I have to think of EVERYTHING now..especially if for some reason I have to go on bedrest because there is no one else here besides my boss and my co-worker. THey have no idea what I do except that I keep the office running smoothly and since contracts have to be signed for events and planned in advance I have to think NOW before it gets too late.

kimberley replied: ((((hugs)))) hope you feel better.

A&A'smommy replied: OH hun, I'm sorry your feeling so grouchy!!! That is NOT fun!!! (((((HUGS))))) I hope you are feeling better!!

MommyToAshley replied: No wonder you want to vent. Take a virtual frying pan and smash away!!!

However, I hope you don't mind I found some humor in your post. I can just see you flipping that lady off in front of the cop... he probably knew better than to mess with a hormonal PG Mom!

As for your co-worker and especially your Mom... there is just no excuse for that.

I hope your day gets better.

jcc64 replied: What Dee Dee said.
Hopefully, they'll lock the asylum tonight and none of the freaks will cross your path tomorrow!

ediep replied: I second what DeeDee and Jeanne said....


(((HUGS))) Hope you feel better tomorrow