I know she is %^&* pregnant!!!!! - therefore I know

Bee_Kay wrote: they had and still have sex...... BUT, good lord, I need to put my foot down at the comments he makes.

I am trying my darnest to get along with her BF, but he is just so juvenile and lacks any form of grace or tact!!

I'll write a few comments he has made:

** They got a secondhand bed and they were gonna show it to me. We walk in the bedroom and he lies on it and says "Hey Lacy, we could have never had this bed at my moms house." (the bed is INCREDIBLY creaky).

** At the breatfeeding clinic, the lady told her to pinch her nipples to help with the invertedness... he pipes up "I can take care of that for her... heh heh heh.". She goes on to tell me that stimulating the nipples can cause early labor contractions... he pipes up and says "I know what else we can do to start labor.... heh heh heh." (meaning sex)

** Last night, I was over there visiting and BF had a couple buddies over. Somehow one of them started talking about some girl he slept with Of course, BF pipes up and he said (all I heard) "Our first time it lasted......" I covered my ears and said "I don't want or need to f'ing hear about this. She is my daughter!!!" (Everyone else got the "hint" and changed the subject..... BF on the otherhand, laughed like an idiot before talking about something else)

** The other night, I was over there pretty late. SD asked me what time I got to bed after I came home. I told her "About 2".... BF, pipes up and says "we were up till 4"...... Stupidly I say "But Lacy was dead tired when I left". He smirks at me and says "Like I said, I kept her up till 4".

When he makes these comments I simply look at my SD.... the look on her face is just embarrassment. She tells him to stop saying stuff like that.... but he doesn't.

Seriously, WTF is wrong with him???? DH tells me that it is lack of respect and tact, that he was never raised with either. But, OMG, I told DH that if he had spoken to like that in front of my father...... My dad probably would have smacked the heck outta him, thrown him out, and told him to not come back!

luvbug00 replied: I'd smack him. I mean it too i'd have no problem smacking a little turdball like him.. I'm in violent mood today

mckayleesmom replied: Ya...that would get annoying. Not to mention its disrespectful.

holley79 replied: Boys

Bee_Kay replied: Actually, BEFORE my DH made the comment about him lacking respect and tact, his answer was (to my question "Why the H**L would he say stuff like that?"....

His answer was "Because he's a f'ing retard".

OMG that made me laugh, just the serious look on my DHs face when he said that was priceless!!!

holley79 replied:
I would have been rolling. Especially if he said it straight faced and serious.

Bee_Kay replied:
He was all straghtfaced and serious! It was hilarious!

holley79 replied:
That is great. I love it. Maybe one of these years he will mature.

MyLuvBugs replied: He's a teenager right?? And a boy, so that should say it all. next time he makes a comment like that around you though, I think I'd say something like "Well, since were so open to talk abour our sex lives...wanna hear about mine?" Or maybe just "Do you have no respect for others???" Either one!

Bee_Kay replied:
Yeah, but still..... in front of one of her parents? You'd think he'd be uncomfortable saying crap like that.

I would be HORRIFIED if Tyler EVER spoke to on of his girlfriends parents like that in the future. Not to mention how STERNLY my DH would set him straight!

Honestly, I don't believe Tyler would ever do that. Tyler and Bill (SDs BF) are really from different moral fiber. IMHO.

A&A'smommy replied: goodness I wouldn't put up with that either he needs to learn some manners!!!!!

mckayleesmom replied: Next time he says something...simply say "I wouldn't brag because I heard it wasn't worth bragging about"

Bee_Kay replied:
OMG!!!! I laughed so hard when I read that!!! Good one!! IF he does it again, I will definately say that..... he will be soooooooo pissed!!

Too bad I didn't think to make that kind of comment last night in front of his friends!!!!!!!!!!

I just got back from her apartment (BF is at work). I had to stop there to pick up a book she got for me (that was really sweet of her to do).

Anyways, I brought it up to her and told her how I felt about it. She told me that she feels the same way and she mentioned to him to not speak like that around her parents.
His reply was "Why? You're pregnant, they gotta know we have sex!"

I asked her if he spoke like that around his mother.... she said that he did.

So, she said she would talk to him again about it...... and I made a little comment about how her dad sees that as disrepect, and therefore BF is disrepecting his wife, and if he didn't stop, her dad would most likely have a "talk" with him.

C&K*s Mommie replied: Very disrepectful!

Also, how embarrassing it must be for your SD. I would be mortified if Chris was beyond comfortable, where it is crossing the line of respect and privacy, and mentioning personal things like that in front of my folks! I would be angry too!

ions_momma replied:
OMG thats hilarious!!!!

But the things he says are totally disrespectful IMO. I would be embarrassed if I was your daughter! I hope her next talk with him makes him stop!

7thHeaven replied: That's a mighty brave little boy there. I see why you want to slap him, as a matter of fact, you should slap him , he's a jerk! My DH just said, if someone was to say something like that about his DD in front of him, the poor kid would go missing! HA!

AlexsPajamaMama replied: Ugh total disrespect
My dad would def question why I was even with a guy like that!
DH had it right when he said F*ing retard

gr33n3y3z replied:
I agree lol

Cece00 replied: #1- Very disrespectful

#2- Gross (and I am not a prude, but his comments are so...juvenile...)

#3- His parents must be SO proud

#4- The next time he starts up, I'd go with what Erika said, and start talking about YOUR sex life. And when he is like "ewww", I'd say "Well, you seemed to be so open to sharing about YOURS, I thought I'd return the favor"

God, what an idiot. He reminds me of my boys dad who was 25 when I was 17 & he acted like a f*cking idiot just like that....REALLY immature. Turns out, he still IS immature, he never grew out of it. Thank god my DH is a REAL man & role model for my kids.

redchief replied: What does your DH do about this? Seems to me he's expecting you to do something that, IMHO, he should be doing (that being to take the ignorant snot for a "walk and talk.").

Jackie012007 replied: wow what a jerk.. my dad would squash that little #$@%&%$!!! ometimes I dunno how you deal with it, Barb!

martzfam27 replied:
LOL good one

maddie223 replied: this guy sounds like a twat! i think u should talk to your daughter about the situation! its unexceptable! you just dont want your parents to know things like that, its private

CantWait replied:

Nina J replied: Hopefully he'll hit puberty soon and mature a bit

Seriously, who talks like that?? Emily is more mature than him, and she's 2!

Bee_Kay replied:
Ed, my DH has tried so many times the "walk and a talk", to no avail.

They have been together for a little over a year now, and he (the BF) hasn't changed at all. I really thought we'd see a little improvement of maturity.

It seems everything my DH says to him goes in one ear and right out the other.

Kaitlin'smom replied: man thats some guts to speak like that in front of a parent. I am sure if my dad heard comments liek that he woudl have some comback and most of them not so nice, then they would have a talk with me about why I would want to be with such trash.

I love some of the comments I was rolling when I read them.

holley79 replied:
My husband would never (and he's 38 years old) admit we DTD. in front of my parents.

ashtonsmama replied: That sounds like verbal abuse to me.

Honestly, I don't know how you or she put up with it. Sorry you have to deal with this crappy situation Barb...

gr33n3y3z replied: Here I thought things were going good

Someone needs to take him out back and show him a lesson or 2 and its not the talk either.

And your SD needs to take control of him

Sorry your dealing with this your way to kind of a person

Bee_Kay replied:
Ahhh Lisa. Things are chugging along just fine.
I still look forward to seeing the baby and all that fun stuff...... I guess it's just things about him that annoy the heck outta me. But, I do try and get along with him.

There are times when I stop in there to visit, and both of them are there sitting on the couch and I can't help but wonder what she sees in him. Seriously, I wonder. But, who knows.... maybe they love each other?

Melmel replied: I have a family member like that, and I have found that he talks like that because he lacks intelligence to talk about anything else. Socially Retarded.

Sorry, I don't have any advice.