I knew this would happen...

mummy2girls wrote: and its only been 3 days. Ever since Aron has a new girlfriend im begginning ti feel like gum on the bottom of his shoe!

Aron came over today to see jenna. I had just finished dinner when he arrived so he had some. He was at the table with Jenna and i was in the kitchen getting my plate filled. He said he accidently got butter on his fingers and to please bring him a napkin or paper towel. i told him I just ran out so i dont have any. I went to sit down and he said well do you have a tea towel. I said yes in the kitchen. he then looked at me and yelled at me.... geez shelly you were just in there go get it. I said no aron you go get it. then he wiped the butter on my floor. i said can u not yell at me and expecially not in front of jenna. he then said I wouldnt have to if you didnt act so stupid! Yes he actually said that! I felt so horrible. I then looked at jenna and she had her head tucked down and her shoulders up to her neck as if she was getting scared. i said its ok huney..i love you baby girl. then she said ok momma... I love you too.I have always been so pasionate about us not treating each other liek that in front of jenna. We have always stopped before yelling started when jenna was near us and waited till she was not ear shot away from us... I sat there with my dinner in front of me and i could not eat it. I seriously lost my appetie. I went to the kitchen so i could get away from him and catch my breathe and stop myself from crying. After he left i then took jenna to walmart. In walmart i started to cry and jenna says to me.. its ok momma i love u and then gave me a kiss and a hug! he had other choice words he told me i was but i just canmt type it out because its awful!

Out of all the years i have known him he has never insulted me like that. Even with our worst of fights. So i guess this is just the begginning of what will happen. This was the thing i was afraid of with him dateing. Not him haveing a GF and not jenna having another mom figure but him treating me like a peice of poop. i feel so horrible right now.

I need o get away from this all.

Ashlynn's Mommy replied: Hang in there. I know it's no excuse but he's probably having a bad day. I'm sure it will pass. It will get better.

1lilpeanut2love replied: Awwh! I hope you are okay. Shame on him for being that way toward you. What was stuck up his butt!?? I wouldn't let him get to you. He isn't worth it. Keep your head up and smile for your DD. Sorry again.

mummy2girls replied:
no i actuallt dont take that excuse because he has had nasty nasty days and he never insults me like that!

redchief replied: I'm sorry that happened, especially in front of Jenna. It would be a cold day in he-double-hockeysticks before he ever got a meal in my house again.

mummy2girls replied:


I have always promised him i would never insult him or talk bad about himt oo jenna or infront of him. I just hate that he did this. My stomach is still upset over it!

mummy2girls replied:
i usually dont but its kinda hard when someone calls me stupid:(

ashtonsmama replied: I'm so sorry Shelly.

As a "child of divorce" (multiple divorces), I can only say that your attitude is one that I wish my own mother had had when I was a child. You are doing so well-and Jenna is going to be so thankful that she didn't have to listen to Aron belittling you or yelling at you-I'm so glad he's gone, for the most part. He doesn't deserve you, or sweet Jenna. Keep the perspective you have now, you'll be just fine, I assure you. You're doing the very best you can, and that's all Jenna or anyone can ask of you. And what a sweet little girl she is to make the "I love you" comments. I know it's hard, but you're going to get through this Shel.

mummy2girls replied:
oh thank you! you made me feel alot better! im crying here!

Nina J replied: I'm sorry. I can't believe how rude Aron was to you! There just no excuse for behaviour like that. I would be upset aswell, but you handled the situation very well, especially with Jenna there.

amymom replied: He does not deserve anything from you! I wish I could .....

I can't even finish my thought. Shelly, you are better than him. Please do not even listen to anything he says. And next time he starts, just leave, you and Jenna 'remember' something you have to do and get out. I know it is your home, but he doesn't deserve your company. errrrrrrrr Sorry, I do not have anything constructive to add to what is already been said.

Just remember you are so much better than anything he says or does that whatever he says just DOES NOT MATTER!!!

TheOaf66 replied: I am sorry to hear about what happened, there is no excuse for that of course I don't know the history. Anywho, my wife and I also decided long ago that if we ever did get into an arguement it would not be in front of the children. My sympathy is with you and Jenna

ashtonsmama replied:
Well I'm glad I must have said something right for once. It's hard to put it into words, hun, but you're an awesome mama.

mummy2girls replied:
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A&A'smommy replied: I'm sorry sweetheart he had NO right to treat you that way NONE at all, don't take it from him and its certaintly not worth you getting upset overt!! I had actually hoped he would he would treat you better NOW that he does have a gf but if he doesn't then ignore him!!