I give up
Christie wrote:
I'm done with paying attention to any possible PG signs from now on. AF showed up while I was sleeping last night. I have came to realize that there is no possible way to find out that I am PG unless AF doesn't show up or I get a positive test.
This cycle really messed with my head. I know that we can trick ourselves into have symptoms because we want them so badly (I've def. done it before) but this cycle was different. During the beginning of the 2 week wait, I wasn't looking for any symptoms because DH and I only BD once during my fertile period so I knew the chances weren't great. Then a week later my bbs starting aching really bad. I never get sore bbs before or after AF so that really caught my attention. There were only reasons why I thought I was PG but the bbs were the main one.
From now on, I will only say that I think I am PG until I see those 2 lines and no more PG tests until AF is late. I can't handle this stress.
luvbug00 replied: I'm sorry  we are here if u need to talk.
my2monkeyboys replied: I'm so sorry.... I know this must be terribly painful to go through.
Just hang in there... I'm sure it will happen for you soon.
Danalana replied: Awwwww, I am so sorry
I've had a lot of experiences with this and I know all too well what you are talking about. I've thought I was pregnant a few times, and I WAS pregnant a couple of other times. In fact, this is my third pregnancy since december. I say all this to let you know you aren't alone. You can PM me anytime if you want to talk.
PrairieMom replied: so sorry. I was really hoping this was it for you.
CantWait replied: Sorry hun. Your day is just around the corner.
Danalana replied: How long have yall been trying? You might have posted it somewhere but I missed it.
A&A'smommy replied: I'm sorry honey I was really hoping this was it for you!!!
Maddie&EthansMom replied: It's so normal to go thru these emotions when TTC. It's so easy to become obsessed. I've been there.
I hope it happens soon for you, hun. Don't give up!!
Christie replied: You guys are so sweet and I appreciate your support so much
Danalana - DH and I got PG last year in May. 4 days after I got a positive HPT I miscarried. After that we tried for about 5 months since then we have just been going with the "if it happens, it happens" technique and I haven't been charting or using OPKs. I realized that when I do all of that stuff, it consumes my thoughts which make it that much harder each time I get a BFN.
Thanks again to everyone, you all are the best!
Danalana replied:
alice&arik replied: I'm so sorry! I was really hoping for you. Don't stress out about it so much. My sister was trying and trying to have a baby and when she finally gave up and quit worrying she got PG.
I'm sure it'll happen soon for you.
melanie_craig replied: i totally hear ya girl...after 15 mths of TTC i've thought i've had ALL the signs one month or another...
for the last 1.5 mths i've been going the natural route too...if it happens it happens...i havent been temping or anything...it hasnt gotten me preg, but it keeps me a little bit more sane i guess
do you have MSN? if you do, add me...we can always use someone to talk to
mell_152@hotmail.com
karenm replied: I think it'll come when you're least expecting it. 
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