I feel so silly

CantWait wrote: I know I was barely even pregnant, only 5 weeks when I started to lose the "baby", my goodness there wasn't even a heartbeat, but I was really looking forward to this baby. I mean, we actually planned this pregnancy. I would never give up either of the boys, I just find it odd that the two pregnancies that were unplanned surprises were completely healthy, and the one that was planned and expected, failed.

Why does it hurt so much, and when does it go away??? Everytime someone brings up a baby, or everytime I see a pink or purple stroller on the street, my heart sinks.

And now Ron isn't even sure if he wants to try again

gr33n3y3z replied: Its still a loss no matter how or what happend your feelings are very normal sweetie

booey2 replied: I am sorry Marie, I can't even fathom your pain as I haven't experienced a loss such as this. You have every right to feel this way. May your pain ease over time.

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PrairieMom replied: I have no idea what you are going through. I can't even imagine it. Give Ron time. I'm sure he is hurting too.

ZandersMama replied: i know how hard it is, and it sucks .give yourself some time to grieve. im sure ron will come around, he is grieving to.

Mommy2Isabella replied: A loss is a loss! Give it some time, and I am sure Ron will come around as well!

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A&A'smommy replied: I'm sorry sweetie you just need some time to heal, Ron probably needs time too!!

jacobsmama replied: I agree with everyone, it is a total heartache regardless of how it happens.

Ron is probably having those feelings too because he sees you hurting and doesn't want either of you to go through it ever again. He will soon realize that time will heal this pain and you will try again..

cameragirl21 replied: Marie, I am so sorry for your loss and pain. I really hope you will get your baby girl, or baby boy if that is what your third baby is meant to be and I hope Ron comes around soon. No matter how short your pregnancy, I'm sure this comes as a big shock to everyone.

Jackie012007 replied: oh Marie! it doesn't matter when it happened, it still hurts. I lost an unplanned pregnancy last April and I was devastated all the same. I'm so sorry, and NEVER feel silly for being sad for a loss

mckayleesmom replied:


You lost a baby..regardless of how far along you were. The moment you read that pregnancy test you had hopes and dreams of for and of this child...Its hard to just shut that off.

Brias3 replied: Oh, Marie, don't feel silly at all- a loss is a loss no matter what, and you have ever right to feel the way you do!

Just know we are all here to talk if you need to, and things will turn out for you exactly as they are meant to be!

CantWait replied: Thank you everyone for your kind words. I just needed to know that what I was feeling was normal and that I wasn't completely out of touch with reality.

Maddie&EthansMom replied: Marie I'm so sorry. Give it some time and you and Ron will be ready to try again.

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MommyToAshley replied: Marie, I'm so sorry for your loss.