I feel so bad - Bad daddy

loveydad wrote: I did like three bad things at once.

I've got all the kids tonight because Henry needs quiet time in his room while he works on his missing school work.

C and C have been doing this thing where they'll be playing nicely on the floor nad just up and decide they want to scream. I had one on my back and one on my stomach in the carriers so they'd stop screaming.

I'm watching the BAFTAS and working on the kids rooms, I was posting on here and I looked at the clock and realized that it was after 7:30 and the kids hadn't eaten! (Bad daddy thing number 1)

Peter was sleeping - since Hen got home Peter is in this really weird schedule because Henry wants to spend more time with him so allowing the two kids to stay up till really late when he goes to bed and they sleep late. So Peter's last nap of the evening is now from 7:00 - 9:00 or some insane thing. Well Peter fell asleeep and I lay him down on the couch figuring he'd be okay because I'd put Nicky in the playpen so he'd stop getting any to everything ( I need to set up another playpen) anyway when I started making dinner the smoke alarm went off and woke up Peter and he ROLLED right off the couch and hit his poor head on the ground!! (bad grandpa!!)

Then I had to put Carter down so I could get Peter, and Carter started screaming. He grabbed onto my leg and latched on and I didn't realize he was still behind me and bumped him and he'd bonked his head too! He's got a bump on his head! I feel awful!

moped replied: All in a days work eh?

LOL

Sounds like things are better for you

party-of-six replied: sounds like a normal day around here....LOL

~Roo'sMama~ replied: Aww that doesn't make you a bad daddy. It sounds like you're just having one of those nights!

kimberley replied: awww (((hugs))) Vig! these days/nights just happen with more than one kid. i can't tell you how many times i have bowled over one of the kids in a mad dash to get the pot boiling over on the stove, or the phone that won't stop ringing, or the annoying dryer that buzzes for an eternity . hang in there, tomorrow is a new day!

Josie83 replied: Oh . . . you. The LAST thing you are is a bad daddy! Jeez, don't beat yourself up! How many times do I have to tell you that you are amazing and do such a good job before you will stat believeing me!! xx

loveydad replied: Thanks guys. Th ey all seem unhurt and untouched and happy this smorning. Tracy crawled out of her crib to come lay with me this smorning

Kirstenmumof3 replied: Sorry I didn't see this until now! You are not a bad daddy, you're just having one of those days! I hope today was better for you!

loveydad replied: IT has actually. My kids don't seem to have very long memories. Luckily. Carter was THRILLED to see me this morning, he stood up in his crib and started smiling and talking to me!

akbutterfly83 replied:
i didn't see this either.....

I agree with everyone... your not a bab dady....... you are an awsome dad..... and grandpa....

loveydad replied:
Uh so what, when your baby cried you just ignore him/her?

Uh no, my kids know that if they cry I pick them up. They're 11 months old for goodness sake!! If I stopped this at an early age my kids would be dead because I'd have never held them.

My kids know that if they want me I"m always there for them. I want it to be like that. I'm not worried about the screaming thing it'll last. They cry when I put them down some but today I wasn't there and Hen said they did fine.

Josie83 replied: That comment seems a bit harsh . . . Vig you're doing agreat job! xx

loveydad replied: Thanks Jos

Josie83 replied: Pleasure! xx

Abbie replied: hey . . . just wondering . . . are loveydad and josie83 an item?

Josie83 replied: NO Abbie . . . Just FRIENDS living in different continents! xx

texasp3 replied: Vig... if I was a bad mommy every time Gabriel bonked his head, I'd have to turn myself in to the authorities! Shall I tell you about the time I trimmed Michael's hair because it was school picture day and took the most amazing slice out of the top of his ear???!!! OMG.. it bled like crazy. In fact, the school nurse called me later that day because it popped open and started bleeding AT SCHOOL!! I still feel bad, but he just looooves giving me a hard time about it!! It's quite the running joke between us and it's been five years.

loveydad replied:
oh come on Josie you wouldn't let me pretend to be married to you!? *sigh* well I guess Jason wouldn't care for that.

That'd be quite a thing though to be 45 and have a 21 year old wife!!

Course my own isn't that much either. I'm like Hugh Hefner!

No Abbie I'm married to a wonderful girl named Tavia.

Okay Texas that's gross LOL. But it does make me feel better about myself.

You guys are so great

Josie83 replied:
Lol . . . I found this post hilarious. *Scandal on Parenting Club!* We should have told her yes and btw I AM the mothe rof all your children . . . even Henry Sometimes this place is just to much! Gosh, hilarious xx

loveydad replied: LMAO. I can see it now "A 4 year old had my baby!!" LMAO.

yeah, I'm cheating on my wife with a mummy! LOL I would too. Because of the accent.

LMAO. THis post is great!

Josie83 replied:
You crack me up!! I think Jason would probably thow u into orbit, and let's not forget that Cassie has a tendency to beat up anyone who upsest HER daddy I don't think i would be too happy taking on your pregnant wife either This is probably about the only post of Abbie's that hasn't been deleted btw . . . I find it hilairous! (PS, Vig, we're obviously ging to have to be better at covering our tracks Meet you by the "Pregnancy and Labour Board" in 5 minutes ) I'm so glad you have are so easy going! xx

loveydad replied: I knew he was going to come into this at some point! LMAO . Well I'm broken hearted of coures .. No I'm not I'm just kidding.

I'mma miss you! Your the only one who plays with me! LMAO

Ps...Tav could probably kick your butt - she's pregnant and she could just kinda bump ya and you'd be GONE! (kidding)

Meetcha there!

Josie83 replied: You've got me running scared Vig! This is why I haven't been coming on so much, scared I am going to get bounced by ur jealous wife Ha. not really, us Italians have been known to have a pretty fiery temper when roused! xx

loveydad replied:
I'd watch it she's right pissed now! She slapped me right across the face.

Josie83 replied:
Y? xx

loveydad replied: Because she's a prat.

No she's pregnant and frustrated about not getting out of bed and she hates my ex. whos here now.

My2Beauties replied: You two are cracking me up! LOL!

loveydad replied: *laughing* it makes my day to see my message from Josie! LOL

Josie83 replied:
We aim to please Seriously I am fogetting how this all started. But obviously we are planning to gather our collected menageri of kids and elope to somehwere like South Africa (so Lollie and the girls can be our bridesmaids) xx

loveydad replied: *laughing* oh yes. Put em in a double stroller and they can just throw little flower pebbles all the want.

It started wtih that intorable ALL CAPS lady who asked if we were married.

Josie83 replied:
Oh yes! Actually, I remember she asked if we were an item. I think she sent me a PM asking me if we were doing something we shouldnt have been . . . for god's sake. HOW? And WHY? Oh I miss her . . not ; xx

loveydad replied: Oh yes I can see it now. "Well I live in Idaho during the week to take care of my 10 kids...however, during the weekends, I fly to London to meet my sugar mama Josie for "tea" for 15 minutes while her hubby runs to the store.....Then I leave and do it all over again the next week..."

PLEASE is it even REMOTELY possible? I PROMISE you guys this is the extent of it. OUr loves are pretty bland lol.

Oh and I do love my wife- that helps a lot. LMAO