I feel like crying

Danalana wrote: About nothing...about everything.
I've been reading various womens' pregnancy symptoms, such as "8 dpo: very nauseous". Then I read things like "I'm so relieved to see a BFP after THREE months of trying!" It makes me angry and it makes me sad. I'm thinking, "hey, see how you feel after over a year of trying!" And i know there are people who have tried much longer than I have. I'm so discouraged and I feel so empty. Everybody around me is pregnant, or so it seems. I don't know how anybody does it, honestly. I daydream about babies, and I go to bed thinking about them...and about being pregnant. If I could cry, I would right now. I hate this aching in my heart, and that empty feeling that is always with me. I wish I didn't even care...

ediep replied: hang in there

I have heard of people who get pregnant when they stop trying

good luck

amymom replied: Prayers continue!

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Jackie012007 replied: hang in there - your time will come

Nina J replied: If I were you, I would cry. Because I hate holding it in, and I've been in situations where I hold it in for a while, but it make you feel better when you cry Hang in there

Danalana replied: Okay, my temp dipped really low yesterday, and that was 4 days after ovulation. It has never done that (granted, this is only like the 3rd time I have temped). I have been doing a lot of research, and it sounds like it could be implantation. See, I hate that my mind goes there...you wouldn't believe what i can imagine. Believe it or not, my girls are still sore (though not as much) from when I was sure i was pregnant in February. Still, it's something to be hopeful about. I really really want this. Plus, tomorrow is my birthday!! It would be so sweet to get pregnant this month...

lovemy2 replied: I am sorry hun...hang in there...

Have you been to your OB about your lack of success conceiving? What does he/she say?

Sometimes not trying is the best thing to do.......

A&A'smommy replied: I'm so sorry honey, I hope it happens for you soon!!

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Danalana replied: Thanks for the encouragement, everybody. I'm trying to just take it as it comes, but I hate the waiting.

Calimama replied: There is probably nothing I can say that you aren't tired of hearing but if you ever want to talk I'm here.

Danalana replied: Apparently, one thing that helps with getting pregnant is to not be married...who knew? Oh, and also not wanting children at this stage in your life because a baby would really inconvenience you. That seems to fit the pregnant people I know. Maybe Richard would agree to a trial divorce...we'd probably be pregnant in no time Oh, and this is just a huge rant. I'm really discouraged and really tired of the irony of it all.

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hopefulmomtobe replied: Did you ever go and have your DH tested? I think you had mentioned that in one of your posts.

You know - my uterus is tilted just a little and for me to get pregnant (dont laugh) I lay on my back with my legs in the air (like your moms used to do...riding a bike in the air) but just hold your legs there for a while and see if that wont help it stick! Just a thought. Do you hear someone snickering??? I said no laughing!

Danalana replied: Oh, I definitely do that. I keep my legs in the air for at least 15 minutes every time...thanks for the suggestion, though.

hopefulmomtobe replied: I am going to look up different ways to get pregnant, different little tricks and see if we cant find one that works!!!! I am getting you pregnant if it is the last thing I do!!!!!

Danalana replied:
Oh my gosh, that was awesome! It made me laugh, and that's a great thing....Richie will be so jealous when I tell him YOU are getting me pregnant

lisar replied:
I was curious to know if you have been to the OBGYN about this also.

hopefulmomtobe replied:
HAA HAA!!! That's RIGHT!! Tell him to look out because I will get the job done!!!!

Danalana replied:
In october, I had surgery to see if I had endometriosis. I have really bad cramps, so i thought I might have it, and that would explain why it's been hard for us. She said I don't have any and I look great. she said the cramps every month mean that I ovulate regularly. Then we actually got pregnant 2 months after that, and she said that is good news...it means there's nothing wrong with either of us. *shrug*