How should I handle this?

MM'sMama wrote: DH called me about 20 mins ago and asked me if I would meet with him tomorrow and talk. He said he would do it on my grounds wherever I wanted I could bring soemone with me if I wanted and that he wishes I would bring Brice but doesn't expect me to.

What should I do?
Should I meet with him to talk?
What ground rule should I set if I do an where would be a good place to meet?

Sorry everyone I am just so stuck on all of this.

TIA

MyBrownEyedBoy replied: I would not bring Brice. He doesn't need added confusion and you need to be able to focus on this discussion.
As for place, how about a coffee place or restaurant? Neutral ground and you may be less likely to cry in a public place. I always feel like an idiot when I am boohoo-ing in the middle of a serious discussion.
Bring along a trusted friend if you need to, but maybe have him or her sit at a different table to keep the privacy.
Sorry, not much help now. I am just feeling out of sorts right now. Good luck.

punkeemunkee'smom replied: Oh wow! I would ask him to be more specific about what he wants to dicuss-if it is anything other than how he wants to work on this I would not go! You do not need anymore stress because he is unsure but feeling lonely! I hope he is coming to see how much he does love you and Brice and Kyrah! I wouldn't bring Brice though just in case it got heated!

MM'sMama replied: Thank you mommies great advice

I will absolutely not take Brice with me and I will tell him a coffee place like said I agree it will be harder for me to cry in public lol. My MIL and FIL said I should bring my best guy friend just in case he gets heated like you said (they are on my side BTW). And I am planning to leave Brice with a good friend of mine who he has know idea where she lives just in case.

THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!

Mommy2BAK replied: Good luck sweetie, update us when you can!

CantWait replied: I just wanted to wish you luck. Don't get all upset, you have a baby to think about right now. Update us when you can

punkeemunkee'smom replied: REALLY HOPEING all goes well! You will be in my thoughts and prayers tomorrow!

Insanemomof3 replied: I agree with what everyone said, don't take Brice, and DON'T get too upset. Do not let him do that to you. Try to stay calm and if things get too heated get out. Just leave. Oh hon, I hope it goes well. Keep us updated. I will be thinking of ya.

AshleyRose replied: I agree with not bringing Brice and not getting upset as well. You want to show him that you are strong and disappointed in his actions and hurt but not a blubbering whale, you know ? Good luck.. you are in my thoughts... and I am so sorry that this is happening to you also.

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mckayleesmom replied: Yes...definantly take a friend with you...perferably a man and go somewhere with servalaince cameras....With all the pregnant woman going missing and hurt by their husbands that didn't want kids, wanted out of marriage...etc.....make sure you are safe about this. I know that you are going to say that he wouldn't hurt you , but those woman didn't think their husbands would hurt them either....Please be safe and report back to us ASAP so we know you are safe.

KingMom replied: Karah,

I am so sorry for all of this, I can no way imagine what you are going through. I'm glad that everyone on the board is so nice and caring. I just wanted to check in and see if you had met with him yet and what he had to say.

Keep us posted and don't forget we are all hear to LISTEN!

msoulz replied: I don't know your story and that is OK, but I get the sense it is not so pretty. I just wish you well.

My2Boyz replied: Ever since I read your post I have been thinking of you. Please keep us posted on how things turn out today. I know you will be strong!

moxee24 replied: Sweetie, Stay strong and you will get through this. I don't know if you went to met him yet or not but, I agree with everyone else. Don't take your DS and don't go alone and go somewhere very public.
Don't let him guilt you into anything or make you feel bad. Don't let him make you think this is somehow your fault, 'cuz it's not. Think of your DS and baby on the way. You don't need the stress and the worry he is causing you.
You are in my prayers. Lots of hugs for you.