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mummy2girls wrote: Thank-you all for your concerns and being so caring. I am feeling better:) Being with Jenna alone yesterday and today has been a wonderful therapy to me. Looking at her admire all the bright Christmas lights and everything put a big smile on my face. Her eyes are lit up!!!! Although i miss Jordan dearly I am going to still make Jennas Christmas a special one:) I talked to my mom and she said on Christmas eve she will take Jenna for the day so i can be alone with Jordan. Ill go visit him at his grave and leave a small teddy for him. And im going to let go a bunch of balloons also. Then On christmas sometime during the day i am going to go the the gravesite with jenna so she can visit him and give him a kiss. I want her to fell a part of her Brother also. I know she knows who he is because everytime she sees his picture she always wants to hold it. And when the song "the dance" comes on the radio she has a big smile on her face:) That is the song i had playing at his funeral

Right now i am taking this holiday one day at a time:) I have to share this story with u...I went to go see Jordan today with Jenna and i was aprroaching his grave(its the flat stone) And i saw a baby fox sitting on his stone smile.gif i came 2 feet from this fox until it bolted away but every few steps the fox would stop and turn to look at us.... That made me get goosebumps and a wonderful feeling overpowered my sadness.

Again guys thank you for your caring thoughts:)

A&A'smommy replied: im so glad you are feeling better i have been thinking about you a lot lately!!! Wow what a wonderful story about the little fox, they are such beautiful creatures!!! ((((HUGE HUGS))))

MommyToAshley replied: I was thinking about you all day.... I am so glad you are feeling better. It sounds like you have a wonderful Christmas planned. If you ever need to talk, we are here for you!

DansMom replied: You are doing all the right things to help yourself through this difficult time. It is great that your mom understands and can help you. I love the story about the fox---I'm going to tell my mother about it. She believes in spirit protectors that appear in the form of animals. I'm glad you're feeling better today grouphug.gif

aspenblue1 replied: I am glad you are feeling better. That is a wonderful story about the fox.

jem0622 replied: I lost a sibling when I was 3. She was 7 1/2. I loved her dearly and my eldest sister and me knew that she was gone when we saw her grave. My baby brother never knew her and feels really weird. But my parents made visits to her grave a family thing. We helped put flowers on her grave and we have the same artificial tree that we put on her grave every year for Christmas. That tree is 26 years old. But it still means the same. And many of the original ornaments are still on it. I remember going to her grave and there was an angel there and it was broken. I was upset and this was just last year. I picked it up and brought it home to fix it. But my mother said she bought it at the dollar store and it would be okay to get rid of it. If my mother can say that, then I knew it was okay. But I was still offended that it was broken.

You never really do stop grieving, but you become stronger as time passes. I hope that you can include Jenna with every visit as time goes on and don't be afraid to have that time with her. My parents grieved privately, I do believe. I did see them emotional but it was very few and far between. And I think it would have helped if we had worked through our emotions together instead of alone.

HUGS
Julie

amynicole21 replied: Honestly, I think the fox was Jordan's spirit coming to tell you he's ok. Maybe I'm weird, but it just sounds too perfect to be otherwise.

I'm glad you are doing better, and that you have some time to spend alone with Jordan on Christmas Eve.

Kaitlin'smom replied: Glad you feel better. I was concerned about you, and your doing great one day at a time and you will get through it. I am glad Jenna is there to brighten your sprits. Take care and we are here if you need us!

kimberley replied: i am glad to hear you are feeling better. grouphug.gif sounds like you have a wonderful plan for christmas. that fox story gave me goosebumps! it is like Jordan's spirit is telling you everything will be okay.

i can just imagine the awe and joy on Jenna's face taking in all the christmas lights. it is so heartwarming to watch them wub.gif

jen replied: I am glad your spirits are up. I am glad we could all be here for you in a time of need. It is wonderful that you are letting Jenna help you through this hard time and that you can find strength in her. That story about the fox gave me goosebumps as well, that is a beautiful story. I believe it had something more to do spritually as well even if just to give you a glimpse of another life. My deepest and most sincere wishes to you during the hollidays. smile.gif

mummy2girls replied:
I know i agree with you in aspects of ahving jenna grieve with me... I want her to feel a part of her brother as much as i am. I just like one day at christmas to myself right now and i think as the years go by and jen gets older that will change smile.gif She does get me through tough times and days. She is my angel here on earth.

mummy2girls replied: Thanks again gals..you are a great bunch of ladies...


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