He Still Loves Me

Kirstenmumof3 wrote: I had a really sad day yesterday! DH called in the afternoon and told me that he was closing our joint bank account. I was absolutely devistated, because of course I didn't have a chance to talk to him about it right then and there. I had the kids and we were getting ready to go to the movies. It was so hard all day. All I kept thinking was that it's over. So lastnight when I figured Claudia had gone to bed, I called him and we talked about it. He didn't realize how hard I was going to take it and he said it really was nothing to worry about. He said he was doing it, because he was consolidating all of his accounts and transferring over to just one bank. Something I've been saying all along. He said that there would be no point keeping the account open because there wouldn't be any money in it and he didn't want to pay the bank fees on an empty account. Which makes sense. I was relieved.

We talked some more and I told him how much I missed him. I told him that I do love him and that he is my bestfriend and always will be. No matter what happens we will always be friends. He said the same thing, but wants me to get well. I don't know what is going to happen. I don't know if we can ever go back to that love that we had before all of this happened. But I know that no matter what happens we will get through it together. And we will always do what's best for our children.

luvbug00 replied: I'm hoping things look up for you!!

moped replied: That is so nice that you can stay friends and get thru this together - how nice - that must make you feel a bit better!

gr33n3y3z replied: Aww thats good
I'm glad he still cares about you and wants you better
And I want to see you get better also

Hugs

amynicole21 replied: I'm so glad you guys still talk about your feelings for eachother... it means there's still hope

Sarah&Mackenzie replied:
I agree!! I hope things get better!!!

Kirstenmumof3 replied: Thank You so much everyone! I'm getting stronger and stronger every day. I just have to take it one day at a time!

coasterqueen replied: Aww, I'm glad you were able to talk and hope things continue to get better, day by day.

Hillbilly Housewife replied:

Hey! Miss youa round here!!!

I`m glad things are looking good for you.... we`re all vouching for you!!!

My2Beauties replied: We miss you so much around here. And I really hope that things look on the up and up for you and DH. I really do! Keep that glimmer of hope alive and remember how you felt when he told you that - you care for him deeply hon and it sounds like he cares for you! Get better but keep him in your thoughts and let him know you are keeping him in your thoughts Things will come together as they're supposed to!

Mommy2BAK replied: Aww, that is good news. I am so happy/proud of you, you seem to be coming right along!

(((HU!GS))))

mckayleesmom replied: Your post just made me cry . I hope that everything works out for you 2 when you are well...You 2 deserve to be soo happy.

A&A'smommy replied: (((((HUGS))))) I can tell you still love each other and when the time comes you will know what to do!! (((((HUGS))))

mommy_loves_chase replied: [CODE]thats awsome i dont know many people including myself that could still be friends

mammag replied: That's so nice. I hope it all works out for you the way you want it when you are better. Keep your chin up.

MommyToAshley replied: Kirsten, I am so glad you and your DH are able to still talk. It sounds like he truley loves and cares for you and only wants you to get better. And, it sounds like the kids are adjusting well. I know it will all work out for you.

JAYMESMOM replied: I am glad that you guys are still able to talk. I hope that in the long run everything will work itself out.

jacobsmama replied: I hope that everything works out for you and your family. It is all very hard but I think you still have some hope.

kimberley replied: i am so happy to hear that! you won't have the love you had in the beginning.. you will have something much deeper and stronger. i am still praying for your happiness, Kirsten.

Maddie&EthansMom replied: Yep...what Kimberley said. I'm so glad ya'll had that talk. That's wonderful! It's good hearing from you, btw

paradisemommy replied: awe..your post made my cry too..i'm so happy for you - i bet it made you feel so much better to talk to him..things will get better!!!

Kaitlin'smom replied: I to agree with Kimberley, you both have a very deep love for each other, and thats what matters, they say love concors all. We miss you around hear but oh so glad things are getting better for you.