Has your so every been physically violent - with you?

mckayleesmom wrote: Todays poll was really interesting. My husband has never been physically violent with me.....Plus he knows better because I am a very revengeful person and if he did.....he would never be able to go to sleep again.


I had 1 ex boyfriend that slapped me one time....but he was more emotionally and mentally abusive more then anything. BTW...that was the first and only slap because I knee'd him in his family jewels after that. One advantage of having 2 brothers is knowing how to make a guy cry by doing that...

I had another ex boyfriend that was physically violent with me AFTER we broke up. We had to work together after I broke up with him. We worked in a burger place that had video arcade games....One day we were really busy and he was playing one of those stupid games and wouldn't help me....so I went and turned the video games off at the breaker......He started throwing a fit and when I went back out..he swung me into DONKEY KONG....I hit my arm really hard and I had a bruise on it...I hit it right on the edge of the game....The next day at school this guy that didn't like my boyfriend came up and asked me if he did that to me and I said yes....Not thinking anything of it...just being honest. Later that day I was working with my ex again and that guy from school came in the door with a group of friends and they literally chased him out the back door and beat the tarks out of him....Apparently I wasn't his first victim...he had also slapped this guys sister a couple weeks prior.

ZandersMama replied: My husband now has never laid a hand on me, but my boyfriend all through high school was a real head case. He use to beat the tar out of me, I finally left him right after we graduated. We moved in together and things went from bad to worse very quick.

I learned my lesson after him, DH would never try it, he knew from day one I know how to defend myself now and I will not put up with it.

gr33n3y3z replied: guys who beat on woman are WEAK low down scum bc most woman wont defend themselves agaist bc they are beaten down so bad mentally and physically.

Edited to say I forgot to answer the question lol
NO guy has ever touched me like that ever

TheOaf66 replied: I have never and never will lay a hand on Jennie, yeah we have little fun pinching etc but never in anger have I laid a hand on her. If I ever did her father and brother would be lining up to take a shot at me. I agree that any guy that does that is not a man by any means and I don't care what the situation is that is NEVER an option.

BAC'sMom replied: Nope he has not....and never will.

But my 1st husband did! I took it for 13 months and then got the heck out of the situation.
There comes a time when you STOP being a victim and START being a volunteer.

I choose not to be a volunteer anymore.

moped replied: I have never had any man ever touch me - I can't comprehend that but feel badly for those who know it all too well..

grapfruit replied: Absolutly not. The closest I came was my ex who threw a shot glass and it exploded on the wall behind me. He claims he wasn't throwing it at me but well I was pretty darn close to it. I suppose that's part of the reason he's an EX.

Tim would beat the tar out of anyone that got close to abusive to me OR if he saw another woman being abused. That boils his blood like no other. I have a friend that used to be hit by her husband (they're divorced now). (He in fact threw her down the stairs and she had a miscarrage) and he would love to rearange his face (but won't) and he doesn't even like my friend.

He does however like to pinch and stuff like that. I smack him pretty good : ) He tells everyone I'm on the "Swat" Team He thinks it's hilarious. But it's never ever in anger.

Calimama replied: No, he rarely even yells at me.

C&K*s Mommie replied: In no way, shape, or form has Chris ever laid a hand improperly on me.

An ex of mine and our relationship had we stayed together longer (we dated for 2+years) was leading that way. He hit the walls, hollered at me, chased me in the car a few times- he just never hit me.

MoonMama replied: Alec, no way not ever. He never even gets a little bit loud at me.

I have never had an ex that did ether but there was one I feared could get violent so I broke if off early on.

Hillbilly Housewife replied: My ex did. Plenty. And he was smaller than me. Go figure.

My dh now, now way.

Sarah&Mackenzie replied: No and he never would!

kit_kats_mom replied: My DH no, never. At least not on purpose. He's a big strong guy and has bonked me with his arm when he's asleep or on accident but he's never done it out of anger. He's not that type.

I dated a guy who landed me in the hospital though. He was cruel but the last time was by far the worst. When I was discharged from the hospital, my mom and I went to pick up my car (which is where the attack happened) and it seriously looked like someone had been murdered in there. There was blood and hair all over the interior. It was awful.

grapfruit replied:
I'm glad that he's out of your life. how scary...

~Roo'sMama~ replied:
Yikes Cary! I'm sorry you went through that.

My Dh has never done anything like that and I know he never would. The worst he's done is tickle me too much.

flirtycuddle replied: My ex that I was with for 3 yrs used to beat hit me and this is with his parents in the house. I knew he could kill me if he wanted since he had a loaded gun in the closet so never really fought back or said anything. One time he left a huge bruise on my face and his best friends mom about beat the living daylights out of him and then his friend said if they ever saw me like that again they would kill him. After that I never had a bruise on my face not to say that I didnt have bruises other places. The last straw was over Thanksgiving weekend we got into it with his whole family there and it took his step-dad and dad to get him off me but he did break my finger. He went to jail shortly after for drugs and his mom went out of town and that weekend I packed all my stuff and went back to my parents. That is when I met df and he knew all to well what I had been through.....my ex got out of jail and showed up at my parents with a gun and threatened to kill me and himself....I got my stepdad and my stepdad pulled a bigger gun and told him if he ever came near me he would use it on him. We called the cops but he was gone by then and denied it all. I later found out my ex started calling my df and telling all these lies so my df and his friends went out to where he lived(my ex told them to kinda thing) and I guess he got what he desereved....well ever since then he hasn't come around or even tried to contact me. Df on the other hand will never lay a hand on me cuz I told him from day one if he even tried I would make him live to regret it.

sparkys2boys replied: No, my DH has never nor has anyone else laid a hand on me. Cary, I am so glad that you were smart enough to get away from the guy who hurt who, how terrible it must of been. Did you ever charge him for it??

Boo&BugsMom replied:


I have been in other abusive relationships though, but more mentally abusive and one where I was "physically taken advantaged of".

Cece00 replied: NO.

My ex shoved me once so I did it back to him and I kinda went crazy & I almost hit him so he stopped. He never did it again, but then again we broke up right after that over him cheating & doing drugs so who knows if he wouldve tried it again...lucky for his sake he didnt get a chance b/c he was about the same size as me & I wouldve kicked his ass.

My husband knows better than to EVER touch me.

kit_kats_mom replied:
I did press charges and so did the state. I actually would have probably gotten back with him (youth, stupidity and hormones) but my mom helped me to get a place in a quiet town a few hours away and I stayed there for a year until I got my act together again and came to my senses. I probably should have known it would come to something like that when he'd caused other, less noticable injuries, in addition to driving me to the sinkholes outside of town and threating the entire way to kill me and dump me there. Lucky for me, he just left me there...in the woods at 2am in a miniskirt and heels...about 3 miles from the nearest house. I really do hope my girls are smarter than I was.

coasterqueen replied: My husband has never laid a hand on me. I had an ex-boyfriend when I was WAY younger (too young) that beat the crap out of me constantly.

lesliesmom replied: Joe would never lay a hand on me in that way. he just knows better.

My first husband threw things "around" me but never hit me. When I left him, before I filed for divorce, I went back to get some things from teh apartment and he was there with a loaded gun. I just left and came back later with some friends, just in case. he really was mentally unstable and I just didn't know what he would do so I figured why take the chance.

My3LilMonkeys replied: Nope, never. I did throw something at him once though - PG hormones.

ZandersMama replied:
you get beaten down so horribly mentaly that you feel you deserve it, that if you were just a better person, if you weren't so stupid, then you wouldn't desearve to be beaten. At least, thats how it was for me.

Nina J replied: No. If he did he wouldn't be my SO anymore

JadensMama05 replied: I've never been physically abused by any of my exes or Garred, but most of my exes mentally abused me.. Once Garred had to hold me against the wall just after I had Jaden cuz I was super depressed and crazy as heck and attacked him... I was really bad.. I couldn't believe it was me.. but Garred's never physically hurt me on purpose. Just elbow to the face in bed type of stuff