For those of you who think i am FAKE!!!

SOUTHERN MOMMY wrote: I'm sorry you feel that way It has been brought to my attention by another member here that this was the case. First let me start be saying if this post gets me kicked out of here then so be it i hope not cause i am hurt and just telling my side of it.

1. House fire- Yes it did happen i have pics to prove it but, If you don't believe it then pics will most likley do nothing for you.

2.Divorce- Yes it happened and i was told that no employee would tell something like that Well she did. By accident YES but non the less i was told.

3.Money issues before the divoece and after-I never told anyone i was rich and i ain't trust me. True before i had more and yes i have had hard times since the divorce but, who don't.

4. I never asked ANYONE to send me anything to those who did i am gratefull. But again i did not ask if you did it you did it without me asking.

5. Pregnacy amd loss- Who ever PREDICTED it well that is just beyond words.Here i was thinking that everyone here was there for me and from what i have now been told there were some who were not.

6. Yes i will be the first to admit there are FAKES here but,I feel because someone has fell on hard times is mearly a sign they are FAKE.


And last if i have offended anyone i am sorry but,i had to let you know how i feel To everyone here that has been there for me and helped me theough all of my troubles THANK YOU from the bottem of my heart.

I will most likley take a break from here for a while and regroup myself I'm sorry this is suck a shock to me.

Tiffany

Sarah&Mackenzie replied: Sorry to hear you will be leaving. Honestly I have no idea what is going on, but I hope it all works out for you.

MichaelsMommy replied: I'm new to this site - but have seen this kinda thing going on in other forums.
It's sad that people have to triple think posts and make their own conclusions
rather than taking things for face value. We're all here for support and sharing.
Sorry that your leaving for a while

PrairieMom replied: I'm sorry you are going through this, I have never heard anything about you. I have always found this place to be a place of support. Please know that not everyone here shares the same views as a select few, who ever they may be.

luvmykids replied: I must be too new to have any idea whats going on, but hope it works itself out.

3xsthefun replied: I'm shocked to hear this really. I have never and I mean never thought you was fake.

You have never gave me a reason, to think you was not for real.

I have had feelings about other people. And I guess my gut was right. Because they have been banned from here.

I really hope you do come back.

TLCDad replied: I have gotten many accusations of people that may be fake. Some have proven to be true but most have not or proved otherwise. It is just how the internet is. I have ways of detecting fraudulent activity. Accounts get flagged and even then I may let the account stay active until or to see if they want to come to me first with an honest reason, etc.

If someone said I was fake, obviously on some other forum, I'd probably prove it otherwise. Believe it or not, you gain alot of respect for it. What others have done on this website and especially other sites is post or send an administor or moderator a picture of their family holding a handwritten sign with the websites name written on it.

I know accusations can be nerving but its probably mainly due to the fact we are pretty strict here when it comes to things like this. We and our moderators do well and do not allow things such as fraudulent activity, too much drama, ect like some other sites which makes us stand out in a positive way. We receive nice comments about this. In fact the negative comments have mostly come from someone who has or is about to be warned about a violation or has been banned from another site for doing something in violation or their TOS.

C&K*s Mommie replied: to the other ladies, Tiffany, I have no idea on what has been said about you or your life. I wish you well in your newly rekindled relationship with your ex, and I wish you and your boys very well!

Hope to see you around in the future!

SOUTHERN MOMMY replied: Like i said thank you to the ones who stand by me i have never posted untrue things here to be honest i have no need to i have enough real things going on without lying this is a real shock to me and i would love to know the handful(not my words) who predicted what would happen to me.

I love this place despite all of this and hope soon i can come back full-time.

SOUTHERN MOMMY replied:
TLC DAd IT WAS NOT A MOD WHO PM'ED ME IT WAS SOMEONE WHOM I PM'ED TO THANK FOR SOMETHING. THAT IS THE STRANGE THING. IF THERE WAS REASON TO BELIEVE I AM FAKE WHY HAVE I NOT BEEN SPOKEN TO BY YOU?

SOUTHERN MOMMY replied:
Me too that is weird that you usually know

TLCDad replied:
First calm down no reason to type in all caps.

The fact you did not get a PM from me should tell you something.

I would never PM someone accusing them of anything unless I had undenying proof. In fact most likely the account would already of been deleted and banned from being able to even view here as a guest due to the violation of our TOS. Now if someone was violating only a small rule then a warning would be sent or the account would be suspended for a month or so. That would usually only be for intentially starting arguments repeatedly etc.

SOUTHERN MOMMY replied:
Oh i'm sorry that i promise was a accident


If you would like i can Pm you the message and my reply?

My3LilMonkeys replied: I don't know you very well but wanted to offer my support. I have not heard anything about this before now, but you have given me no reason to believe you are a fake. Obviously many others feel the same way.

I'm sorry that you have to go through this.

amymom replied: I hope you come back soon or decide not to leave.

luvmykids replied: Dare I say that when you get a bunch of strong women together, whether in a real room or a chat room, there will be drama? I don't pretend to know enough to say anything about anyone involved (don't even know who it is) but come on, this stuff happens!

Edited because I didn't finish a sentence!

SOUTHERN MOMMY replied:
yes you are right BUT i have a right to defend myself (right?)

luvmykids replied: Of course, I just meant this stuff is bound to happen somewhere along the lines. And of course it sucks even more when it happens to you!

Maddie&EthansMom replied: I'm sorry. That must be an awful feeling.

MyLuvBugs replied: WOW! Ever feel like you missed something....Sorry you're feeling so bad. If you have a problem with other members though, you should take it up with the moderators and administrators.

ions_momma replied: I am so sorry you feel the need to leave. I havent heard anything, or had ANY reason to believe that you are fake. I hope that you decide not to leave because I am sure that there are many people here, including me, that enjoy chatting with you. We are always here for support when you are having problems. Feel free to PM me or email me any time you want to talk.

lisar replied: I never thought you were fake. I just thought you were having a some bad luck in your life. I am sorry to hear someone would think that.

Lisa

zdk753 replied: I am sorry that you are going through this right now. I also hope you don't leave. I have always respected your advise & have never thought you were being fake. I know it sucks. I was called a liar on another forum. It is very hurtful esp when you are not. I never had a chance to defend myself. I did email the admins pics to prove my story, but they had already made their decision a long time ago & weren't willing to listen. I know it's easier said than done, but try not to let them get to you. Hopefully it will all get better soon.

coasterqueen replied:

mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied: I pretty much believe everything I read here because it's just in my nature to do so. So unless you were to come on and say yourself that you were a fake, I believe everything you've ever said.

Hope it all gets worked out.

jacobsmama replied:
Dito...

Freckled Momma replied: I'm also unaware of what's going on, other than what I just read...I hope things get worked out and I am sorry you are dealing with this But you shouldn't leave just because someone decides you are "fake" and starts rumors. Who cares what anyone thinks? You know who you are, that's all that matters. Ignore them and carry on

CAMSMOM1 replied: Tiffany
It really breaks my heart to hear this. Never in a million years would I thought I would read a post like this, on this site. Of course, I'm still somewhat new. You would be on the top of my list, of genuine people on here. I enjoy reading your posts, and getting to know you.
Unfortunatly, some people still act like they are in high school. Come on now, there is no need for gossip and making up accusations! We're all adults here! So whoever said those things behind your back, should have the guts enough to say it to you, or ask for clarification from you.
But I also know that what you hear from other people, is usally not the whole story. I don't know who PM you about this, but usually people tend to exaggerate the truth. So it may not be as bad as this person made it out to be. KWIM? Maybe they did have good intentions telling you this info, but I wouldn't take their words to heart until I had conversations with the "people" who said this. Have you talked to these people, and heared their sides? Hopefully, it's all misunderstanding...and miss communication.
I respect you for coming out and saying what's on your mind and heart. I know you are upset.
I know that I put my heart out there on this forum, to strangers..(when I first joined) and hoped that people would accept and understand me. And I feel I have made geniune friendships with many of the ladies on here. And have gotten more support from them then I have with some of my friends in the "real life". I know that it would hurt me, if I knew people were talking about me. Because everyone one this board, or at least most, do put themselves out there. There are issues that I have posted, that I havent' told most of my friends. But I did it, in hopes, that I could get honest opionions and support. And know Tiffany, there are many others on here that care about you, and will support you.
Don't let others cause you to leave. Hopefully you can talk to these people, and get it resolved. And even if you don't, they are only a couple of them...and ALOT of us who DO support you.
Please PM me if you need to talk. Don't be a stranger. You put a lot into this board, and have a lot of friends.
Ann EDITED: because I can't spell

Insanemomof3 replied:
too. I don't think you are fake, but you have had some bad luck. I think that in some ways I was "hoping" you were fake, but only because I hate seeing people go through so many torturous things. It makes me sad. (Please don't take offense to that, I mean it in a good way, not bad) I really sincerely hope that things get better for you and that you return here.

KingMom replied:
That's absolutely how I am also. Hope things work out for you and understand that there are more of us who believe you then those who don't!

fashionmumofboys replied:

I'm fairly new to this site and just wanted to wish you good luck.

luvbug00 replied: WOW! that came out of left field I'm sorry someone accused you of being "fake". (gee I haven't used the word "fake" since High school ) I personally believe the truth in everyone here because without truth then how are we supposed to support and learn from eachother? I hope things go well for you and your rekindling romance hope to see you again soon!

BAC'sMom replied:

DITTO

New to the site..... hope it gets worked out....and good luck to you,.

MommyToAshley replied: I already replied to Tiffany privately.


To the other members... you are correct that you don't see a lot of this going on. We don't allow people to attack one another in the forums... which is why you don't see a lot of this sort of thing. If there is a problem, we ask that you bring it to the mods. However, we decided to leave this thread because Tiffany felt it was something she needed to say to everyone and we wanted to honor that. We will also allow and encourage her to post pictures and any other proof of the incidents that have happened to her. Others have done it in the past and it has helped to put an end to any questions and things got back to normal around here.

jcc64 replied: Well, I have to say that unlike Rae and some of the other posters- it IS in my nature to be suspicious, although it's not a feature of my personality that I'm particulary proud of. There have been a few people who frequented this board regularly whose lives were a little incredible, and who did turn out to be "imposters" (that word is so Batman, isn't it?)I guess the temptation to suspect is unavoidable sometimes on the internet.
Having said that, I really never doubted that you and your life were anything other than what you presented them to be, and I'm sorry you're embroiled in this right now. Hope all of it works out the way it should.

SOUTHERN MOMMY replied: For everyone here that has said kind words THANK YOU SO MUCH it really means the world to me. And wow at the PM's with support I have desided to send mommytoashley anything she needs to clear up and doughts wheather i stay or go i want everyone to know that i am a real person with real feelings. Thanks again for all the love and support