Errrr I am so mad - Im crying like a jealous idiot
mckayleesmom wrote: You all remember my crazy friend right? Well I think she is trying to compete with me or something. That or Im losing it. Ok...I got pregnant and had Mckaylee and she gets pregnant after Mckaylee is born. I found that wierd cause she told me before that she didn't want kids. Then when we go out she is constantly spending more money then her husband makes...I know because her and my husband do the same thing. They are the same rank also. Well dh bought a truck I hate a while ago and we decided to save up money for a car and possibly get one when our taxes get back...We are thinking a Kia Serento or a Kia Sedona. Well her and her husband sold her Neon over the summer and bought a new Kia Spectra. All find and well. Well the other day we were driving and talking and I was telling her that me and dh were thinking about getting a one or the other vehicle and she started telling me that the payments are way to much cause they looked into one..yadda yadda yadda. Well she just imed me a couple minutes ago and asked if I still wanted boxes cause we are moving. Here is our conversation.
want me to bring over the boxes in our new Sorento
annebri99: you got one...woo hoo
charity_hope: ya
charity_hope: want me to bring it over???
annebri99: ya but my house is a mess
charity_hope: so..it will be a bit...scott is going to clean out the spectra first
charity_hope: but I'll bring the boxes over for you that we have
annebri99: are you trading in the spectra
charity_hope: ya...we take it back tomorrow..we have to clean out the trunk first
charity_hope: but the sorento is officially ours
annebri99: cool..how much are the payments
charity_hope: 406 for 72 mths
annebri99: that is a huge ass payment girlfriend
charity_hope: so
charity_hope: i like it
I am so pissed. I am a great wife..she is a horrible wife. And Im not just saying that. She spends money like water and I am cheap. Why does she deserve this. I feel like she purposely goes out and gets the things I want. This summer she spent like 4,000 dollars on clothes alone while her husband was out of town. She still spends like that and she doesn't work. I feel like Jessyann in her post. I know how she feels. Im so angry I want to yell at my husband when he gets home. But I know its not his fault. I just feel like she does this stuff to piss me off. We are moving in a couple weeks about 30 minutes away and I am definantly going to try to make new friends. To be honest, if we weren't thrown here together as the only army wives around she is not someone I would be friends with her. Maybe accuaintances, but definantly not friends in the least. But thats ok anyways cause shes pissed that we got a house and she has to walk up 3 flights of stairs to her little apartment....ok....I sould childish,,,but it made me feel damn good.
kimberley replied: awww ((((big hugs)))) 
you don't sound childish, she does! i have had "friends" like her before and she doesn't deserve you. you are a mature, responsible, good mom and wife and she isn't. i am glad you are moving. i hope you meet some nice people where you go and i hope you feel better soon.
mckayleesmom replied: Ok,,,I wanted to do nothing but gouge her eyeballs out while she was here. But i was friendly and nice. Im just so ticked. I knew her husband was planning on buying himself a Jeep cause she just got the spectra not long ago...well while she was here telling me about the Serento and showing it to me she told me that they were just going to "look" at the serento today and she refused to leave the parking lot unless he agreed to let her trade her car in...How is that a marriage. She told me that he didn't even want to get it cause he had plans on a jeep.
Kirstenmumof3 replied: I have friends like that, I can sympathise with what you are saying! I'm sorry your friend acts this way, try not to let it get to you! You know that saying "what goes around, comes around" eventually she will get whats coming to her! 
MommyToAshley replied: Here's some hugs! It sounds like this move is a good thing. I hope you find more pleasant friends when you move. By the way, where are you moving to?
mckayleesmom replied: I hope it comes in the form of bankruptsy. I know thats mean, but thats how she spends. Unfortunately for her husband,,,he is a super nice guy and she is so mean to him. He deserves someone that treats him nice. My husband doesn't even like me hanging out with her cause he can't stand her. He says that he would have divorced her before the preacher said "do you take this woman to be you wife"...
A&A'smommy replied:
LOL to your dh!!! i canNOT stand people like that it makes me SOOOO mad!!!! My ex bff was that way too but not all the time so i wasnt too worried about it then. Im SOOOO sorry you have to go through that ((((HUGE HUGS)))) for you!!! I hope that you make some new friends soon so you dont have to worry about that girl and i say girl because she is being childish!!!!
mckayleesmom replied: Now shes Instand messaging me rubbing it in...
"I just love my new kia serento" 
A&A'smommy replied: GRRRRRRRRRR
jen replied: Sorry that is awful. I hate people like that! I quickly trash them out of my life. Who needs someone competing with you about everything you want. IN my own experiences people like that are shallow and can't think of their own wants and needs so they visciously go after yours because they have no ambition in life, they have to use someone elses! Hang in there!!!
kit_kats_mom replied: Yeah, She sounds pretty irresponsible. She probably will bankrupt the family. I come from a credit/collections background and I've seen people like that in action. Their homes are being foreclosed on but they still come in with a designer suit, new highlights, fake nails and a cell phone. It sounds like she needs a swift kick in the behind to get her priorities straight.
I agree with Jen, I would get her out of your life. I decided a few years ago to trash all of my "friendships" that made me feel bad about myself. All the whiney/competitive/irritating women have been erased from my contacts list. I've had a great couple of years and I've felt better about myself.
Maddie&EthansMom replied: ((((HUGS)))) We all go through this. It is so hard being young and not having everything we want. DH and I don't have credit cards therefore we do without a lot. If we cannot pay cash for something (other than cars or houses) we do without. It isn't a lot of fun most of the time, but it saves us from staying awake at night worrying. When we moved to Dallas we had a lot of friends here that were living it up...going to concerts, entertaining friends over dinner, buying new cars and expensive homes, furniture and clothes. I felt terrible that I could not 'rank' with them. Well, 2 of the couples almost filed bankruptcy by the time they had their first born. To me that wasn't so smart. I'd rather do without. You are not childish...you are smart to realize what is best for your family and your marriage. I feel the same way you do (a lot). I'd love to go on a shopping spree and spend money I don't have, but I know with my conscience that it wouldn't do me a bit of good.  I'm sorry you have to deal with this ignorant girl shoving things in your face.
((((HUGS))))
mckayleesmom replied: Well my husband told me her dh is pretty peeved with the fact that they bought that suv too. Like I said before..he had already bought her a new car and he was suppose to get a jeep he wanted. They went to just look and she threw a big fit and told him that if they didn't buy it he would have to try to get her out of the car. She told me that herself. And he confirmed it with my husband. I think we will just wait perhaps. Dh has a loan on a truck that he still pays on. It was crashed a couple years ago and there was something that wasn't correct in his insurance information and they canceled his plan and wouldn't pay for the truck...Long story. Anyways that comes directly out of his paycheck so its not like I have ever seen it anyways. Well this summer both the Suburban and that truck will be paid off. So then I will get something. Im thinking a Toyota Matrix...anyone have one and like it?
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