Do you have an instigator in the family?

grapfruit wrote: Ok I think this is straight forward. Is there anybody in the family that seems to live for tearing the family apart anyway they can??

I guess the reason I ask this is as my post said yesterday, my SIL seems to thrive on making the rest of us miserable. Well that and being the center of attention. My stuff "went down" last night and my bf said she's not welcome at our house (I let him make those decisions since it's his family), and two of his other brothers said the same thing. Why is she like that???

mom2my2cuties replied: That would be my mom's brothers/sisters and her mom's favorite pasttime.

holley79 replied: Shawn's mother is always looking to spread hate and discontent.

Calimama replied: Oh yes. An example when I was pregnant with Bella we called to ask DH's aunt about the Rhogham shot (she's a nurse) well she went around telling the ENTIRE family that we refused to get it no matter what so we had a ton of emails saying how wrong we were and important the shot is. All I asked is WHERE they give it to you! Needless to say we rarely involve our family in our personal life anymore.

grapfruit replied:
Oh ugh! That would make me steaming mad!

Well the almost SIL that is pregnant is upset b/c she didn't think the sister would go behind her back like that. (She was the first person they told). I wish wish wish they would have come to me first. I could have told them she would use it against them eventually. I'm taking her to the doctor on Monday, so hopefully that will be enough to hold off the "spilling of the beans" to their parents.

You know, I don't agree that they should keep it a secret from them for this long. But at the same time, it's not my decision to make, it's theirs.

luvmykids replied: Not too bad, DH has a cousin that is a drama queen and manages to cause some sort of drama at every get together but nothing major.

grapfruit replied:
Sometimes that can be just as bad, always throwing something extra into Holidays!

ZandersMama replied: my older brother. won't even get into it.

Hillbilly Housewife replied:
Heh heh... we kept our last pregnancy from our parents for a long time too.

grapfruit replied:
Which was YOUR choice! Totally you're call! *sigh* drama, I wonder how life would be w/o it...

Nina J replied: My nephew Leyton. I have to look after him sometimes when his parents are away because they don't like leaving their kids alone.

gr33n3y3z replied: hatchet Face

She likes to start the trouble between ppl. and at any cost lying is a huge thing with her.