Dayhome headaches...

mummy2girls wrote: with one paticular child. I gave the mom termination notice last night so she has up to feb 28th to find a place for her kids. Its just so frustrating because ive tried everything with this kid and with his agression i think she will have a big problem finding someone that will take him.

He will kick, punch, bite, slap, use toys as weapons, and just be mean! And you dont have to provoke this child. He is just plain main! I sometimes think something evil possess his body he is that bad. Immediate timeouits do not work! he just comes out and does it again. In a 3 hours span he was in timeout for 35 times! Its awful. One day he was sitting in jennas dora table eating a popsicle and another boy was coloring on teh floor in front of hima nd out of no where this boy kicked this other boy in the face! He also shook the shelves and caused a accident to his brother. He is now ruining my property. He docided to graffitti my white couch with blue felt when iw as in the washroom, he even tore the tape out of jennas movies( 2 of them) when i was in teh kitchen. he waits till i leave the room to do this stuff! Its very irratatring! So now he goes where i go!

Anyways... they are going so im a bit relieved but still stressed because thsi child is still here reaking hjavoc on us all! GRRRR!

michmom replied: I think you made the right decision. Hopefully, she will find a daycare setting that works better for her. I don't know how you do it watching other people's kids all day. I wouldn't have the patience for it.

Calimama replied: I hope this is an eye opener for the mother.

Kaitlin'smom replied: what are the parents saying about this child? I am sure you have talked ot them about it. Deffinalty sounds liek soemthign is going on or not going on. Time for Supper Nanny to strerighten that kid out.

CantWait replied: Have you tried talking to the agency? Maybe seeing if they have any suggestions?

holley79 replied:

mummy2girls replied:
well she is a single mom but i know where the agression comes from... Her last relationship ended badly. which unfortunetley ended with teh mom being physically abused. and the older kid witnessed it and he did to his younger brother the same thing. so that where the agression comes from. This child needs more than supernanny he needs help from someone who can figure out how to get to the bottom of the garessiona nd fix it!

mummy2girls replied:
I did and they said if the kids are at risk and your property is getting damaged then termination may be the best thing. This boy bite Marcus's niece so badly it almost broke skin. So because he can do that kind of damage then maby gettign him away from the kids into a diff place may be the best thing.

DansMom replied: Oh, that sounds horrible and troubling for everyone involved. At first I was going to say he must be high-needs, but then I read the background and it sounds like there are specific historical reasons for the behavior. I agree that the safety of your home and other people in your home is your first priority, and it seems you've tried your best. It really is up to the mom to get the kid some specialized help.

Kirstenmumof3 replied: I'm glad you are getting rid of the problem child. You're doing the right thing!

CantWait replied: WOW what a f*^$in little hellion.

Hillbilly Housewife replied: Oh Shelly you're so lucky you can terminate just like that!!!

I SOO WISH I could terminate with this kid. I can *-* that close yesterday with mine. I hate them. I HATE THEM! I shudder when I get up in the morning because I know those brats are coming over.

redchief replied: It sounds to me as if this family needs some professional help. At any rate, you certainly can't put your other kids at risk if this child can't control himself. I can tell you feel badly about this, but you really have to think of the needs of the many over his right now.