Can someone please explain to me WHY

Boys r us wrote: I am such a freak????



This afternoon I have to take Braedon by Rick's office to drop him off b/c I have a business appointment at 6 and Rick going to then take him to his mom's house for dinner and brae is spending the night there. Well...Rick has a new job..he's been there roughly two months. I've never been to his new office before when others were there besides 2 of the guys who are the owner's sons and 2 of rick's best friends! So..I'm all nervous.."what if I don't look like they think I would" blah blah blah..lol.I just know how women are..and you know Rick is HOT(proud wife speaking) and I can just hear them talking.."well she's cute but I really thought his wife would be this or that"
I know how it works..I'm a woman too..and I recall plenty of times my co-workers and I (hanging head in shame) have critiqued co-workers spouses!! LOL

I really do not think I'm unattractive, in fact, I know I am on the upper end of average..so I don't knwo where this is coming from! It just gives me heart palpitations to have to deal with this! HAa I'm laughing, but I'm serious!

mckayleesmom replied: Show us your picture and we will judge for you ...Just kidding..I do the same thing...although I think Im below average. Funny story..One time I went to Dh's office and he is a Army recruiter. As I was getting out of the car..one of the guys told my husband "dude..look at that girl with the nice rack"...My dh said "thats my wife"...LOL. Thats not the first time either.

TANNER'S MOM replied: Oh I am the same way.. I have even said to Randy did they say anything about me? He says like what.. Like your wife was nice I say..

I think mine comes from gaining weight. I am in the smaller end of big. lol I am fluffy you know. Not FAT..but fluffy..and very large chested.. I used to be really skinny and Very Large Chested...lol

What I have in my mind is this.. I don't want them to say..Wow she is pretty for a BIG girl..llolol I want to be pretty for me. lol

SO,yes I understand...And usually Randy says they say Dang..hooters!!! Men men men!!


Well I guess if you are a freak then I am too..

Boys r us replied: You're NOT below average!!!

My pic is on here somewhere Brianne!

Boys r us replied: Haa.. Mel!! I guess we can be freaks together!
I get the hooters comments too my dear! LOL

TANNER'S MOM replied: Oh and the age....

I feel this way since I turned 30. I think I want more reassurance now.. I have a HOTTIE for teenage daughter and I need validation....lol

Mel

Josie83 replied: Oh nichole you are not a freak you are a woman lol I get the same way too although I wouldn't get nervous, i also have a hot husband and think people will wonder "what is he doing with her?" but I don't really give it THAT much thought . . . because at the end of the day, he IS with you! And gosh you are a very attractive woman! You don't need to be nervous! In my experience, women are most likely to be nasty because they're jealous . . . just ignore them! xx

My2Beauties replied: I do the same exact thing! Brian makes it a habit to tell people that I am freaking extra HOT and I'm like why do you say that because what if they meet me on an "off" day Like this one time we were all going out to this club and I was meeting him there after playing Bunco with some friends and one of his friends brought along these two guys whom we had never met. So they were being introduced to everyone and Brian was like my fiance will be here in about 10-15 minutes, he goes you'll see her she will be the hottest girl in this whole entire club So when I walked in he said see I told you so I'm thinking Told them so what.... Later on I found out what he said and I was like well what if I would have came in there looking all nasty and then they would have really been talking about me because you already drew their attention to me when I walked in the door! The guys agreed though HA HA

Kaitlin'smom replied: right there with you, I worry about that also. I really dunno what DH's co-workers think of how I look I only know they are jealouse that a I am such a nice wife. (well most of the time)

mammag replied: I think most women worry about what people will think of them. It's just part of being a woman I think. I think you only become a "freak" when it stops you from doing anything. I always worry that people are going to say...."she'd be pretty if it weren't for that nose and she could really use some breast implants."

DVFlyer replied: Men care about looks?

Boys r us replied: Haa..it's an office full of women! He's their Network engineer!