Can someone be happy for me:(

mummy2girls wrote: I talked to my mom today and i brought up the wedding and such and she just seemed like she didnt care with the tone in her voice:( I know she adores Marcus and such but she just seemed like she didnt care. I told her i know someone who runs a hall and does catering and that i will talk to her about prices, and i told her im doing up invitations on teh computer because itsaves money , etc etc etc and she said uh huh and then said i have to go. Oh and i asked her for her and dad to think of something to say at the recpetion to welcome Marcus into the familya nd stuff and she said no... because they are too shy to talk in front of people.. WTF! Please tell me they were kidding! How fricken sad would that be?

So please someone be happy for me:( because now im down !

moped replied: We are all very happy for you and so are your parents - I know they are.......

A&A'smommy replied: OH honey.. how hurtful!!! Maybe she feels like you don't really need her anymore....

I am VERY happy for you and I KNOW your parents are too!!!

Kaitlin'smom replied: I am HAPPY no EXTACTIC for you. dont let her get you down. infact dont let ANYONE get you down, you have every right to be happy and show it.

Hillbilly Housewife replied: Shelly I couldn't be happier for you. I'm so excited!!!! I can't wait, I was looking online this morning for airfare. lol!!

If it makes you feel any better...my parents didn't talk at my wedding either. *hug*

lisar replied: Everyone here is extremely happy for you. I am so excited I still think it took yall long enough.

Maddie&EthansMom replied: Oh my goodness!! Parents are so strange sometimes! Maybe she is just so overcome with the emotions of letting you go.

I'm extremely happy for you, hun! You deserve this so much!

coasterqueen replied: Oh hun, we are all happy for you! Some parents are like that. My parents were too shy to really do anything at mine.

boyohboyohboy replied: maybe she could write something down and the dj could read it, or someone else? a maid of honor?
or how about she pick a special song that the lyrics might sum up what she wants to say?

could it be that she is just thinking of herself and how her relationship has just recently fallen apart? its not the time of course, and she should be happy for you, but that might be on her mind?

Calimama replied: I don't think she meant to hurt your feelings hun, I'm sure they are happy for you.

ediep replied:
I agree with Jen, Shelly

gr33n3y3z replied: Give your mom time maybe she doesnt want you to get hurt again and that feeling will never go away its a mothers worst fear is for her children to be hurt
Were happy for you and deep down so is your mother

My2Beauties replied:
Ditto that may be what it is. If it makes you feel any better, my parents didn't really talk at my wedding either, Brian's brother in law gave his speech as the best man and that was it. Maybe she really is just too shy. I couldn't be happier for you, you deserve everything and to be happy as well!

Mommy2BAK replied: I'm super duper happy for you Shelley!!!!

amymom replied:
Lisa probably summed it up well. I know your parents are happy for you. And we all are just thrilled I want to hear all the plans. Keep us posted. Maybe we need a "upcoming wedding thread"