Bless his heart

coasterqueen wrote: I didn't know whether to put this under pg discussions or general relationships.

This morning I had an OB appointment, which of course DH always goes to. He had asked me to wait to have breakfast so we could eat together after our appointment. So we were eating breakfast and discussing the conversations with our doctor and we were talking about my fears of having a VBAC. I had mentioned something about my body being different this time. He then replied "I think you'll be successful with a VBAC because this time around you are DEFINITELY wider." I about floored him, jokingly of course.

Bless his heart he was trying so hard to reassure me that we'd be ok with a VBAC that he didn't really mean to say what he said in the way it actually came out. I told him I'd make him pay for his choice of words tonight.

He did make me feel better about how we are going to deal with this VBAC though.

A&A'smommy replied: awww LOL thats sweet in a weird way

kimberley replied: LOL! further proof that men should be required by law to think before speaking ! i am glad he made you feel better about the VBAC. you can do it!!

5littleladies replied: Lol!! That was very sweet of him to help you feel better-even if it didn't come out the right way!

MomToMany replied: Awww, he tried!!!

Maddie&EthansMom replied: I'm glad he made you feel better! I have faith that the VBAC will go just fine!

ediep replied: awww, he tried!

~Roo'sMama~ replied: Lol well that was sweet of him - I think! I'm glad you feel better about the VBAC!

DansMom replied: That's a great example of foot-in-mouth disease! His heart was in the right place though---kinda sweet.

Josie83 replied: Lol . . . the things they think we want to hear! xx

Tamatha replied: I swear, there are days that I think having a penis should be declared a handicap! But his heart was in the right place, and he was trying to make you feel better! Sounds like a keeper to me!

kim62377 replied: What a sweet man! He sounds just like my husband - ooohh they mean well though don't they! One thing I'm wondering about (I'm sort of ignorant when it comes to the abbreviations we use) what is a VABC? If I don't hear back - good luck with it! Kim

Kirstenmumof3 replied: Awwww he was trying! That's sweet and it sounds like something my DH would say!

Tamatha replied: Kim,

VBAC is Vaginal Birth After Cesaerean (sp?).

kim62377 replied: Thanks Tamatha! I feel so silly Well good luck to you - I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers!