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Boys r us wrote: DH/SO still spontaneous when it comes to bed dancing?
Or...do you have a set routine(uhmm..I am SO not talking about positions here) I mean..on sunday night and tuesday morning..LOL
Or do you just do it when the mood hits? Do you make appointments to do it?

kimberley replied: oh gosh! i could never have scheduled bd time. yuck. talk about killing the moment for me. it is always spontaneous. more fun that way

amynicole21 replied: We BD every time I start to feel guilty that it's been too long, which is hardly ever Poor guy

MomToMany replied: LOL, not sure what that is! It doesn't happen much anymore here!

Boys r us replied: We're usually very spontaneous..funny though..I see us going more towards making appointments..LOL
Like today, I just sent him an email telling him not to wear himself out today b/c I couldn't wait until tonight!!
I never felt the need to make "prior arrangements" before..I guess we've been really busy lately!

KatieLeigh79 replied: Hm, I have forgotten what bed dancing is. You would think at 24 it would still play a major part in a relationship but his response to me is "I'm not interested in that anymore" I have a few girlfriends that think he's gay.

jolene555 replied: oh wow. before georgia got here we were very "in the moment" dancers. now that we have her nap schedual to contend with it seems like the spontenaity is less determined by mood and more by oppertunity. i often find one of us saying "hurry, she's asleep!" sorry if that's tmi, but i'm sure some of you know what i mean.

Boys r us replied:
I think we ALL know what you mean!!!

momof2girls replied: You are sooooo funny!
you make me laugh!

Kirstenmumof3 replied: DH is lucky if I'm in the mood. With 3 kids and the house to take care of I'm exhausted at the end of the day. I think we usually do it once or twice a month.

Josie83 replied: Definitely spontaneous! I don't know if its different only having one but we've never had a real problem in that department. I think its an extremely important and healthy part of your relationship! Jason being such a good daddy makes him even more attractive to me! (Sorry if tmi!) Nichole you make me laugh posting this topic! xx

Maddie&EthansMom replied: We are spontaneous. We find it challenging on occasion, but never seem to have too many problems finding the time. He is not deprived in the least...I'll put it that way. Nichole you crack me up!!

Lollie replied: Its always spontaneous...not too mention ALL the time!!!I dont know whats gotten into me but I feel starved if I miss it for more than one day!!

jolene555 replied:
lol - that sounds like 4th month of pregnancy if i ever heard it. i LOVED that 4th month. barry did, too.

KatieLeigh79 replied: *Pout* I'm starting to get jealous - once or twice a month even sounds way to good to be true...

coasterqueen replied:
Amy pretty much said it for me.

Course as soon as I finally got the "mood" back and we were bding a lot more then the doctor told me we can't until this spotting stops. Dh is being so understanding though.

My2Beauties replied: Me and DF BD every chance we get. We don't plan it but he'll say something on the phone like, do I get some *booty* tonight LOL! We usually do the BD at least 3-4 times a week (Sorry if tmi) I just can't help myself, DF is so attractive to me! Turns me on just thinking about him

Josie83 replied:
Haha! I love it, you are so open and honest! I wanted to post something like that but I hate the thought of offending ppl on here, that's why Nichole suggested a special forum for stuff like that. But now you and Lollie have said it . . . I totally know what you mean, tho, my boyfriend is hot to me as well! I think its nice that its still happening most days, it is for us too and I think its so important! I told someone that once when we were at playgroup or something, this woman she gave me a lecture about how bad that was for the baby (as if!) and that Jason and I should control ourselves or something now we had a baby :dunno. She was saying doing it every day or whatever was disgusting and that we should be ashamed of ourselves! Excuse me, how do you think she got here . . . ? xx :