And done.....now how do i tell Lars?

luvbug00 wrote: I give up on thease stuiped pills. I feel like ***. There is NO way i can keep taking thease and funtion properly. I can't sit at a computer for more then 30 min without a blasting headach and i'm super irritable. I HATE THEM!!!

now my next delimais how to tell Lars i refuse to take anymore?..

coasterqueen replied: Well, I'm not sure what the answer is to your question. Will he wear condoms?

Ryan won't get fixed and I refuse. I am taking birth control to control my periods, but I told him until he gets fixed he's wearing a condom.

I am sorry they didn't work for you.

luvbug00 replied: Yeah, he's gonna have to wear one unless he wants a baby right now.

I'm a little nurvous to tell him because he insisted that i get on them in the first place because he hates condoms so much.

coasterqueen replied:
Do NOT be nervous. You have tried everything to make them work. If he can't understand that, then....well .

my2monkeyboys replied: You could always try a different method. I have never been able to take BC pills either, so we use the withdrawal method. There's been only 3 times we didn't and Will came along on the 3rd. So, it's been pretty effective for us. You could always try something else... there are a few options, you'll just have to see which will work best for you both.

mummy2girls replied:
i wouldnt turst the wihthdrawl method because i know some who got pregnant that way. and sometimes you may not pull out on time etc etc etc

mummy2girls replied: I despise them too hun so marcus is only using condoms. he hates them and are a pain in the bumb but he wont get any unless he uses one so he does suck it up and use them...LOL. but remember they can break easy and then you may be get pregnant and the sounds of it ,it sounds lars is not wanting one right now.

lovemy2 replied: I agree with Karen - if they make you feel that awful I guess he will have to suck it up and if he can't well then that is a whole other issue....

luvbug00 replied: it's not that he doesn't or would be mad or anything. in fact i think he'd be rather pleased. But he likes to plan and be informed. he likes to know the effectivity #'s and all that jazz. He knew the mini was only 95% and the condoms 88% and he was fine with it..

Kaitlin'smom replied: If it were me I woudl have a heart to heart with him and tell him how these pills make you feel, say you tried but these are not for you and explore other option for you both, ask him suggestions and give him options. If he gets upset or defensive then its a whole other issue

lisar replied: I dont reccomend the pull and pray method. Lexi is proof that dont work. LOL. I say just tell him what they are doing to you. If he loves you he will understand

My2Beauties replied: I was on the pill and DH pulled out as well with both of my kids Nothing is fool-proof. So I'd say he needs to suck it up and use the condom.

Swood75 replied: Well,we have ALWAYS used the pull-out method and it has worked everytime...That has been 15 1/2 yrs..And both of the kids were planned..

gr33n3y3z replied:
its time he takes some responcability in your relationship and if he has to wear one then he will wear one he will get over it and if not then he isnt the right one for you bc then that should tell you he only thinks for himself....... you tried so hard to make this work your just not ment to be on those pills.