After all this time, does he still give you...... - Butterflies?
Daisymom2 wrote: Do you still get that excited butterfly feeling in your stomach when you see your husband?
I have been married almost 6 years and don't get that feeling anymore...But we love each other and are just comfortable now, right? lol
kimberley replied: honestly, no 
but i think what we have now goes much deeper than butterflies. we know each other inside and out and are committed to each other in a way that i didn't even understand back in the "butterfly days". we have grown together and it feels wonderful. 
luvmykids replied: Not usually. There are still times he can take my breath away, but for the most part we're in a comfort zone that's, well ... comfortable. Back then so much of my butterflies were out of insecurity or not knowing where our relationship was headed, if it would last, wondering how he felt, etc. that now it feels good to be secure in it and even on the days we can't stand each other I know neither one of us is going anywhere. (Although on those days I usually wish he would!)
My3LilMonkeys replied: No I don't. Actually, I don't think I ever got butterflies from anyone. Guess I'm just weird. 
C&K*s Mommie replied: I am with you there, I do not think I ever got the 'butterfly' feeling.
Depending on my overall mood, I still smile and light up when he comes in. But sometimes I just want to be in a rotten mood  , and nothing can lighten me up then.
MomToMany replied: I do, even more so now!!
MamaJAM replied: Yes. Every time I see DH I still get that 'fluttery' feeling. His kisses still make my knees weak. Talking to him or the phone -- or getting an IM or email from him during the day still makes my heart smile.
TeagansMom609 replied: Nope, not at all.
TANNER'S MOM replied: Oh yes.. I did get butterflies from DH. I didn't see him alot and I guess that is why.. Cause of the strange hours he worked. But I would love it when he called me emailed me..
When he dresses up and has that cowboy look goin on.. he makes my knees weak.
When he does things with the kids..that are so tender and slow.. I melt.
When I look out the window.. and he has a young horse..and he is talking to it like it's a baby..and petting all over it.. with dewy eyes.. I get misty eyed..
It's been 9 years. It's not perfect.. believe you me..but I am still IN love.
moped replied: Ummmmmmmmm, not really no. On a day to day basis I have to say NO, but sometimes if I am at work thinkign about him I might.
mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied: Not so much. I have a smile on my face when he gets home or calls me during the day, but not really butterflies anymore. I had it SUPER bad though when we were first dating! I wouldn't mind that feeling again, but I don't think it's because we're not happy or anything, just comfy I guess.
Maddie&EthansMom replied: Yep, butterflies. Especially when we go out on a date without the kids. I never get to see Scotty b/c of his hours and I just get so excited thinking about him walking thru the door at night or on his days off. 
gr33n3y3z replied: I would have to say yes
But not all the time It just depends on the mood i guess lol
BAC'sMom replied: Oh yes.... especially after he bathes the kids and cleans the kitchen. lol 
NOT! We have been together a LONG time, so we are more into moths these days!
Mom2BNTN replied: YES!!! I still do, but we are still newlyweds so that must explain it! We will be celebrating our 1 yr. anniversary and the birth of first child here soon. So I guess the butterfies could be coming from our baby, right??? *LOL*
Brias3 replied: I still have moments where I'm "in awe" of him I guess you could say but I think the butterflies are mostly gone. We've definitely been in the comfort zone of love for some time now. Funny thing is, sometimes that's just as good!
Bee_Kay replied: Sometimes 
We have been together for almost 16 years so we've been in a comfort zone for awhile.
There are times though where my attraction to him is just overwhelming and takes me by surprise.
Sometimes it's when he's at work and we talk on the phone. He has an incredibly sexy voice and out of nowhere I notice it and I could just listen to him talk
This one time, a tree in our front yard broke and fell and my DH was out there with a chainsaw and like kind of sweaty and all masculine and stuff, LOL, .... and OMG, it took my breath away!!
So, yes he still does
Daisymom2 replied: Thanks for your replies! I hope everyone is doing well. My kids are driving me insane. Kill me now...  just kidding!
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