once again here - miscarriage mentioned

Guest_angelhair wrote: I have been posting in jan to aptril expecting club until yesterday wen at eleven and a half weeks, the baby died int my womb. oh god the pain, I have done 4 posts but I canot seem to quite pos love deeting. I passed my baby naturally but insisted on keeping him/her to take to th doctors to see what went wrong. the doctor said he could give me some anwers, which I did not have with the others. maybe it is preventable, but unless it is a gaurentee my dh does not want to try anymore, he cannot take it. I do not blame him. I do not know if I can go through another round of this. it gets worse everytime. we are going into couples counseling to get through the grief and loss. does anyone else have only one child and are going to stop at there(we may do apotion but right noe my dh does not want to do anything}.love dee

mummy2girls replied: Hi Dee..im so saddened to see you posting another loss to this forum. I wanted to give you some hugs and prayers(((HUGS))). I hope you find answers to how you lost your precious angel. I know that is is really hard to want to try after lossing a child but expecially after losing more than one. I know some of your pain you are going th i just dont know the whole extent of losing so many angels. I want to be that shoulder for you if you need one hun!

I have only Jenna as you already know and am on the fince of wanting another. I will go through a ophase where i do and then i dont want any. Its just goes back and forth. So if i just have jenna i would be happy also. because in my heart i will always have 2 kids. I would love to be a foster mom, i think that would be a fullfilling thing to do. Edopting would be a wonderful thing to do.

Dee have you ever heard of "The Compassionate Friends"? Its a free support group. I went 1 month after losing jordan and it helped me alot. To be with other moms that new the pain if what i was going through. there were moms and dads there that lost kids through miscarriage, stillborn, neonatal death, and even losing kids when they were of any age even adulthood. Even though the losses are different the pain is still the same. I feel its really hard to loss a child through miscarriage or in the womb because you never got the chance to hold and love that child.

ill be thinking about you hun!

A&A'smommy replied: (((((BIG HUGS))))) Oh Dee I am SO sorry you have been put through this yet again! ((((((BIG HUGS))))) I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!

Kirstenmumof3 replied: I'm so sorry for your loss! I hope you can get some answers from the doctor.

MomToJade&Jordan replied: Oh Hun. I am just so sorry. I have had m/cs myself, but I don't think I can even begin to understand how this must feel. I really do hope that you can get the answers that you need this time. You are in my thoughts sweetie.

jem0622 replied: I am so sorry to hear this. I hope they will perform the fetal analysis to find out what happened. It may be inconclusive. Lots of hugs and strength to you. Please take some time for yourself.

Julie

loveydad replied: I'm so sorry to hear that! We are all thinking of you.

momof2girls replied:
I am so sorry for your loss!

paradisemommy replied: sending you lots of hugs dee and hoping they can find out what the cause was so you can have some answers..

MommyToAshley replied: Dee, I am so sorry. My heart just breaks for you, I am so sorry you have to go through this again. I hope the doctors are able to give you some answers and bring you some closure.

jcc64 replied: I hope you find the information you are seeking, as well as some peace from your grief. I'm really sorry.

coasterqueen replied: Dee,

I am so very sorry. I can't imagine your pain, hun, but if I could take it away I would. Please know that we are here for you any time. My prayers are with you at this time.

Josie83 replied: I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, your post near enough broke my heart . . . I'm sending you prayers and please know that you are in my thoughts xx

DansMom replied: I'm so sorry Dee.